
Shinichi
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If I had to give one good piece of advice, it would be this, if you're a lonely male under the age of 35, you should befriend older people and especially older women. Chances are even if you're ugly as shit, if you're not too autistic and are just kind of shy, elderly people gravitate towards you. They tend to be lonely and also tend to be more empathetic than other people since they can probably reject the same feelings they have for their children or grandchildren on you. This has always been a thing with me and it helps, especially since even though I'm 26, a lot of people think that I look 20 or even 19. Older people tend to be nicer than me in general and I actually tend to be nice just to older people since I was primarily raised by my grandparents (my parents are in the picture and aren't divorce or anything. I just was always around my grandparents more than anyone) One mistake I did make was when I was in high school. I tried to be nice to all the hot young female teachers since I was an all boy school and those are the only women we had contact with. Big mistake. Since there in their mid-twenties mentally, they're still at the level of a high schooler. All meaning they're going to act towards you in the same way that any other young. Stacy of your age is going to act. Completely dismissive. Where I work is a field of shit people but one of the lights of my work life right now is this older Dominican lady who treats me like her son. She says I look like him (I don't see the resemblance) and act like him. He also says he's kind of a "pussy", her words not mine. For a while just to be kind of a prick I would refer to him as pussy son before I actually learned his name.
That being said, she is always there for me and always bills me out of trouble when the boss is on my ass. If you can manage to find a relationship like that, it honestly is allergic coping mechanism cuz at least you're getting female affection just not the sexual kind.
That being said, she is always there for me and always bills me out of trouble when the boss is on my ass. If you can manage to find a relationship like that, it honestly is allergic coping mechanism cuz at least you're getting female affection just not the sexual kind.