Venting Before I used to think women were attracted to men who were busy/not clingy

[Vermilioncore]

Just lol at my former self.

When I got a girls number from some dating site (by frauding the one photo I uploaded) I would purposely wait like an hour to text her back so she thinks I'm busy and not interested, but she ended up never texting me back at all and ghosted me

 

[omnigold]

Not replying/waiting to reply is mostly obnoxious tryharding.

Because so many people do that, it can be charismatic to do the opposite (not really with femoids, since face > all in that scenario).