What are some skills i should pick up and habits i should form i only have a couple years before i can be considered a truecel and many of the incel borthers say i gotta get out of here and i will but i need some words of encouragement maybe.
If you really are incel tier ugly, then it is important that you plan your life in a way that can accommodate for that. Cliche as it might sound, getting to work into something you like can be very rewarding e.g. I got into robotics because I thought it was cool, and now I've got a job that I genuinely enjoy 80% of the time.
The big irony is that a lot of what MGTOW people suggest still applies if you are not planning to go MGTOW.
Important habits:
-Exercise every day, no excuses. I exercise at home, takes 20 minutes. (Just pick any follow along in youtube, e.g. p4p chest level 1)
-Don't eat crap, this will pay up in the long run, while a no brainier, it is very difficult to do... Treat your body as a temple.
-Try to keep a regular schedule, not doing this has proven to screw me in the long run.
-Force yourself to acquire social skills, not necessarily to deal with females, but to deal with people in general. e.g. join the debate team or work in sales for a while.
-If you have acne problems, or something like that that can be treated/prevented you need to do so, a visit to the dermatologist can change your life in the future.
-Don't be a victim, nobody likes victims even when SJW's might say otherwise.
-Read this book on body language (start with the chapter on handshakes to get a feel what the book is like, it'll take you the next 10 minutes to quickly glance through it):
https://e-edu.nbu.bg/pluginfile.php...Pease_-_Body_Language_The_Definitive_Book.pdf
Some notes:
Try (if you can) to not get bitter, the blackpill can destroy you as you fall into despair.
Never assume from the start that a situation can't be salvaged,
acquire reliable data first and foremost. Your own stupid biased opinion never maters, only a reliable measurement does.
You can use tinder and photofeeler to try to
measure your attractiveness level (don't use selfies, google how to make a proper profile),
for tinder, just plug your matching ratio in here :
http://www.wolframalpha.com/widgets/view.jsp?id=1f51953255f63027635d602d42b96718
It assumes that you swipe right to everyone, but since that will make the algorithm treat you negatively, just swipe left to anyone in the top 20% since you have no chance with them anyway. You can also just try on a different location if you are only after the measurement.
For example, I got 2 matches in 4000 swipes over 6 months, plugging my 0.05% gets me an attractiveness of 1.97% aka. 98.03% of males in my area are better looking than me, which means I'm an incel.
My personal recommendation:
Master the art of lucid dreaming, it'll change your life, anyone can do it, and even though it is hard, it is only hard in the sense that it requires a lot of dedication,patience and perseverance, it doesn't really take much time from your awake life though