Discussion Becoming volcel?

[Deleted member 28903]

Recently I've just stopped caring about sex or ascending. And it's not like a "oh I know I won't get it so why bother trying?" kind of thing. Like where I'm upset but just gave up because it's futile. No, it is true that it's futile, but I'm also not upset about it. I legitimately just stopped caring. I don't know if this is just some kind of advanced cope which originates from deep within my subconscious so that I'm not even aware its a cope, or what, but it's like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I'm no longer tied to human society. I don't have to work, socialize, or interact with society, jumping through all those hoops that normies jump through just to hope they can betabuxx some foid. I can simply do what I want. If I want to live in a van and catch fish to sell for the minor profits I need for subsistence, I can do that. If I want to fuck off into the woods with a tent and live amongst the wildlife, I can do that. If I want to do nothing at all, I can do that. My chains have been broken. I am free.

 

[PPEcel]

Is that really volceldom, though? It's not as if you have a choice. Seems more of a whitepill if anything.

 

[your personality]

I think it's just a phase you are going through where you just don't see the point in women or fitting in society. Many guys feel that but are eventually back to lusting and longing for foids.

 

[Deleted member 28903]

Is that really volceldom, though? It's not as if you have a choice.

I guess it depends how you view it. I guess I'm not volcel because I don't have a choice, but I'm also at a point where even if I did have a choice I wouldn't take it if it took any effort at all.

 

[DirtyCurryCell]

Is that really volceldom, though? It's not as if you have a choice. Seems more of a whitepill if anything.

I think it's just a phase you are going through where you just don't see the point in women or fitting in society. Many guys feel that but are eventually back to lusting and longing for foids.

 

[Deleted member 28903]

I think it's just a phase you are going through where you just don't see the point in women or fitting in society. Many guys feel that but are eventually back to lusting and longing for foids.

I've been trending toward this for about a year now. I think I have schizoid personality disorder. I've never cared about friends or social relationships or anything, and I don't care about love or any other aspect of relationships with females besides sex. The only reason I ever cared about any of those things was for sex, but I hated having to care about them. I always wanted to go be a hermit, but the one reason why I didn't was because it's impossible to get a gf like that, but if I don't need a gf, then I can live in the way I always wanted.

 

[Gymcelled]

Is that really volceldom, though? It's not as if you have a choice. Seems more of a whitepill if anything.

 

[your personality]

I've been trending toward this for about a year now. I think I have schizoid personality disorder. I've never cared about friends or social relationships or anything, and I don't care about love or any other aspect of relationships with females besides sex. The only reason I ever cared about any of those things was for sex, but I hated having to care about them. I always wanted to go be a hermit, but the one reason why I didn't was because it's impossible to get a gf like that, but if I don't need a gf, then I can live in the way I always wanted.

I understand the part about not caring about friends or social relationships and not wanting anything to do with females except if it involves hooking up and having sex in ONS type situations.

If you aren't a chad having a gf is probably a lot of work. You can't slack off and do your own thing (so many guys get dumped for not responding to their gfs text messages in time). You have to give them enough attention but not too much. You have to walk on eggshells but not be too timid.

 

[Deleted member 28903]

If you aren't a chad having a gf is probably a lot of work.

Not just a lot of work; ALL the work. I don't have to do anything now unless I want to. All the shit normies do that they don't want to (going to school, working, buying cars and houses that are more expensive than they need to be, etc.) is literally just so they can have friends and a gf/wife and kids. I was born without the need for friends, and I just lost the need for a gf, so I don't have to do ANY of that. I feel like I just found a loophole in life's rules.

 

[your personality]

Not just a lot of work; ALL the work. I don't have to do anything now unless I want to. All the shit normies do that they don't want to (going to school, working, buying cars and houses that are more expensive than they need to be, etc.) is literally just so they can have friends and a gf/wife and kids. I was born without the need for friends, and I just lost the need for a gf, so I don't have to do ANY of that. I feel like I just found a loophole in life's rules.

Maybe but at the same time if you have nothing to do, if you can't stand being reminded of the relationships others have it's not easy.
Maybe if relationships and family weren't shoved in incels face constantly it would be easier to live without. But nothing can really replace the feeling of a woman truly longing for you tbh

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Is that really volceldom, though? It's not as if you have a choice. Seems more of a whitepill if anything.

 

[Deleted member 28903]

Maybe but at the same time if you have nothing to do, if you can't stand being reminded of the relationships others have it's not easy.
Maybe if relationships and family weren't shoved in incels face constantly it would be easier to live without. But nothing can really replace the feeling of a woman truly longing for you tbh

I don't get bothered from seeing relationships tbh. And I also never cared about a woman longing for me. I just wanted to make a foid wear the clothes I like and cum in her.

 

[your personality]

I don't get bothered from seeing relationships tbh. And I also never cared about a woman longing for me. I just wanted to make a foid wear the clothes I like and cum in her.

Maybe you are close to being volcel then tbh

 

[PPEcel]

I just wanted to make a foid wear the clothes I like and cum in her.

sounds like whoring would be perfect for you

 

[HeroinNihilism]

I've been trending toward this for about a year now. I think I have schizoid personality disorder. I've never cared about friends or social relationships or anything, and I don't care about love or any other aspect of relationships with females besides sex. The only reason I ever cared about any of those things was for sex, but I hated having to care about them. I always wanted to go be a hermit, but the one reason why I didn't was because it's impossible to get a gf like that, but if I don't need a gf, then I can live in the way I always wanted.

I have an official SPD diagnosis and I know exactly how you feel, I don’t want to deal with people and my sex drive goes up and down, mostly down. Some say SPD might be a symptom of ASD.

 

[jonvm]

just be volcel and go mgtow
chasing foids when you're still incapable are worthless
better to do lots of self improvement and increase self worth first.

 

[Mecoja]

Feel the same to be honest, concept of relationship seams so far away and alienated that im not sure if i want it especially in my age.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Feel the same to be honest, concept of relationship seams so far away and alienated that im not sure if i want it especially in my age.

same. it feelstoo much effort, and I wanted a foid who is naive and vibrant but only Chad can get those, in the 0.0001% chance I ascended I would either have roastie with dead bedroom or a curry foid who has nothing in common and very awkward marriage

 

[Reprobus]

You don’t become volcel, you either are incel or you’re not. And if you never asked out a foid before or have even talked to foids that doesn’t make you incel it just makes you a fucking retard. An incel knows he is undesirable it’s not some mental game shit you can escape, you ask out so many fucking foids and get rejected so many times that you develop a sixth sense for it.

 

[ordinaryotaku]

I think it's just a phase you are going through where you just don't see the point in women or fitting in society. Many guys feel that but are eventually back to lusting and longing for foids.

You're on the spot about this one. It happened to me during summer break (late March to late August) when I literally had zero contact with foids, now my desires and urges are back.