I think one of the most frustrating things about being a black guy with a small dick is that it's almost impossible to find a community or even discourse about.
Of course there are all the enlightened people who recognize "BBC" to be harmful fetishization and stereotypical, but that's not the same as talking about actual lived experiences. Also those same people would probably prefer their black partner be hung, than small.
It could be because black Americans aren't vocal about these issue. I've seen a few posts from black Europeans that seem more vocal. But if you go to twitter and type "small black dick" you'll find more posts about "small white girl dominated by bbc". It's slightly better on reddit but still pretty similar.
I don't have the smallest penis in the world, 5.8in long and 4.5in thick. So below average girth for sure, which is compounded by the higher expectations of black men. But when I go online to see if anyone else is dealing with this issue, the few discussions that exist are from years ago.
It almost feels like the internet is gaslighting me into thinking that being black with a small dick is oxymoron and unheard of. Which obviously isn't true. I guess my message to any other black men lurking on subs like this is that yes, we do exist.
