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Theory Avoidant personality disorder

Zhou Chang-Xing

Zhou Chang-Xing

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Based on: https://incels.is/threads/i-took-a-covert-narcissism-personality-test.538225/

After taking this test I began researching and many psychologists claim that "Covert" Narcissism might be overdiagnosed for what is in fact Avoidant personality disorder.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Avoidant_personality_disorder

"Avoidant personality disorder (AvPD) or Anxious personality disorder is a Cluster C personality disorder characterized by excessive social anxiety and inhibition, fear of intimacy (despite an intense desire for it), severe feelings of inadequacy and inferiority, and an overreliance on avoidance of feared stimuli (e.g. self-imposed social isolation) as a maladaptive coping method.[1] Those affected typically display a pattern of extreme sensitivity to negative evaluation and rejection, a belief that one is socially inept or personally unappealing to others, and avoidance of social interaction despite a strong desire for it.[2] It appears to affect an approximately equal number of men and women.[3]

People with AvPD often avoid social interaction for fear of being ridiculed, humiliated, rejected, or disliked. They typically avoid becoming involved with others unless they are certain they will not be rejected, and may also pre-emptively abandon relationships due to a real or imagined fear that they are at risk of being rejected by the other party.[4]

Childhood emotional neglect (in particular, the rejection of a child by one or both parents) and peer group rejection are associated with an increased risk for its development; however, it is possible for AvPD to occur without any notable history of abuse or neglect.[5]"

This actually sounds a lot like what I suffer from.
 
I'm unable to read all of your thread due to extreme sleep deprivation. You suffer from AvPD? Do you have a job?
 
Yup I tick all too many of those boxes.
 
Literally me frfr On gah nocap
 
It's true, but its name is bullshit - disorder? That implies we're all nuts or something and that we should be drugged and questioned by therapists. We're actually acting rationally, doubting the insane "reality" around us and avoiding real dangers by keeping normies away from ourselves.

it is possible for AvPD to occur without any notable history of abuse or neglect.[5]"
They forgot to mention the most inescapable neglect - the nonstop neglect from soyciety.
 
I avoid people altogether.
 
That sounds normal.
 

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