Do I really have to explain this shit? Basic blackpill knowledge is that nothing is really definitive. Just because you see a couple exceptions to the rule doesn't break the rule itself.
Get many girlfriends during their lifetime? If we're talking about those who've already died of old age, then yes, or anyone who was 18+ a decade ago and dating before Tinder, but the average man isn't getting shit in 2020. Especially in the Zoomer generation, women my age are twofold more shallow than millennial women.
The only thing an average man might get in 2020 is an eventual marriage, where the woman uses him for the shit he has, so in the end, he isn't receiving any kind of real love or affection. Like literally, a large majority of the males in my high school who weren't Chads ended up graduating as girlfriendless virgins. Only a couple of them who were sub-7/sub-8 managed to get lucky, but they were likely being used, because my high school had plenty of spoiled little shits.
High school and college relationships are more indicative of what women really like, because there are less factors involved. So then you can see how dating is truly like -- average [and below] men not getting shit, and all types of women dating Chadlites or above. Step foot on a college campus for 15 minutes, and you will see this everywhere. This isn't definitive, though, and there are exceptions to the rule, but you honestly have a better chance at winning the lottery, and I've only seen maybe seven at most such cases on my campus, of below average guys dating girls that were looksmatched, out of my entire campus of 30,000+.
Sure you can see average men in their 30s with a wife, but those guys likely make over $55k a year and are getting used by them for money. Their relationship is more than likely broken, and he's most definitely getting cucked for Chad.