My brother in Christ, every time a man, disabled and otherwise, asks this type of question, the answer is always the same.
It's either A) the women in your life (and/or the women you seek out) suck as individuals, B) You're shit company and that's the real reason women dislike you, not that you're (insert characteristic here), or C) Both.
I'm being harsh, but this defeatist "all women in my life don't want to date me, therefore all women must be bad" incel bullshit line of thinking is how so many young men end up chronically single and increasingly miserable. Stop that shit, right now. Go learn to like yourself, make some friends of BOTH sexes, and remember that there are plenty of autistic men and women with loving partners out there. It's a matter of finding someone, whose company you enjoy and who enjoys yours in turn, not whatever shallow horseshit men peddle online. That takes time, luck, a healthy bit of self-discovery, and physically seeking out and getting rejected by multiple people, before you find the right one.
You know what won't get you laid? This "woe is me" attitude and the sad desperation or childish bitterness it tends to spawn from. Women want men, who they can enjoy and build their lives with. Men, who adore us, and do things that make us adore them in return, however small or awkward or silly. We love men, who have nice laughs and a hobby they have a knack for and can cook up a nice meal, however simple. We love men, who remember little things about us and do things to make us smile. We like men we can have an equal conversation with, back and forth, with interest in learning what the other thinks and feels. Does that describe you? If yes, there's a woman out there, who will like you. If it doesn't, go work on yourself. I don't mean in the gym. I mean in the mirror. It's cliche, but people tend to like those, who like themselves. Not fixer-uppers, who wallow and want women to fix or validate them in some way.
Quit being a child and blaming all women for you not being an attractive prospect, because the women around you don't like guys like you. That's beneath you.
