SuicideFuel Attempting to get a drivers license is the most stressful thing ever

[wasted12years]

I've been going to a driving school now for 4 months or so and it's the most stressful thing i've ever done in my entire life. I hate it. I hate the man-made rules in traffic. I have a lesson next week and whenever i think about it my anxiety levels spike. Sweden is the most expensive country to get a drivers license in next to Norway. Over the past 4 months i've spent well over $3000 just in driving lessons and courses. They milk you dry. If i knew it would be this brutal i wouldn't get myself into this mess. I've been practice driving with my dad for the past 6 months too but i feel like it doesn't help at all because whenever i drive with the instructor i mess up. One little mistake in the driving test will make you fail. I've already attempted the test where you have to answer questions and i failed it. I fucking hate this shit, i feel like quitting but it's also a dumb choice since i spent so much money on it, so i will lose experience. I've never done something this anxiety inducing.

 

[lnceI]

why do you need it?

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

why do you need it?

he lives in an area where you are a slave to the car most likely

 

[wasted12years]

why do you need it?

Job purposes. I don't think they will fire me if i refuse to get a license but i'm a little afraid that i'll lose my job so i will get it.

 

[wasted12years]

he lives in an area where you are a slave to the car most likely

Not really. Plenty of buses and trains, except in the weekends.

 

[Justin Mohns]

u could get a moped license or whatever it is u need for a moped and use that instead of a car. its cheaper too

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Good luck mang, you'll really need it

 

[TooSomething]

If you have connections, just buy your drivers licence in Mafia II.

 

[TheCatMan]

I was excited to get my license but now I hate driving. It's the main reason why I stay home.

 

[neverleaveroomcel]

driving is overrated, especially if you live in a city

 

[Emba]

Spin out!

 

[psyop]

Just do the automatic transmission test at this point

 

[WeirdoDesperado]

Getting driver's license was a nightmare as an aspie without prior experience from traffic, such as driving a moped or A-tractor

 

[TraumatizedOgre]

yes it sucks

 

[gluttony]

yeah i don't need one tbh, since i don't plan on getting a car

 

[poorenglishcel]

That's why i drive only in video games

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

u could get a moped license or whatever it is u need for a moped and use that instead of a car. its cheaper too

He lives in Sweden, and I have my doubts that driving one of these things in freezing temperatures is very comfortable. And depending on the region, they often have winter for half a year (if not longer).

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

driving is overrated, especially if you live in a city

Driving is a trait

 

[blackpillednigga]

brootal.

Driving is a trait

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

brootal.

Many foids also drive, but they are certainly often "treated differently" during driving tests. This is especially true if the driving instructor/examiner is male.

Just like in school. Girls usually get better grades than boys for the same performance.

 

[ReplaceMyJuice]

It sucks very bad as an autistic high inhib incel. I'm too dumb to drive manual or too autistic and failed many times. I also failed my exams. I'm giving it a break and try later again. I got downgraded to drive an automatic

I had so much anxiety in the exams rooms, everybody was staring at me and making fun of me. It was full of NT people and everybody was with someone they know, and I was all alone like an aspie

 

[wasted12years]

It sucks very bad as an autistic high inhib incel. I'm too dumb to drive manual or too autistic and failed many times. I also failed my exams. I'm giving it a break and try later again. I got downgraded to drive an automatic

I had so much anxiety in the exams rooms, everybody was staring at me and making fun of me. It was full of NT people and everybody was with someone they know, and I was all alone like an aspie

I realized i hadn't studied hard enough when i was the last one to leave the room. It was brutal.

 

[ReplaceMyJuice]

Driving is a trait

Driving in Europe, especially the West is hard as fuck. Expensive and they make it so difficult to pass

I will probably fail in America too which is easier there

 

[ReplaceMyJuice]

I realized i hadn't studied hard enough when i was the last one to leave the room. It was brutal.

I feel you on that one. It's brutal as hell. Every NT person in the room are way faster

I even needed to rush the last 10 questions, since my time was almost up (I still brutally failed) I also barely studied

 

[ReplaceMyJuice]

But having a car would mog so hard. It will help you and it's gonna be a part of your life once you have it

 

[unhingedsamsung]

What is the standard for a license in Sweden?

Because drivers here where I live are absolutely fucking retarded I’ve nearly crashed a lot and have crashed once im just guessing USA dmvs really don’t give a shit or something because the amount of these fucking dumbasses driving on the ramp going 20mph is very common where I live

 

[5ft4ropeconnoisseur]

Damn why do they make you take 4 months of driving school? In America they make us take 8 hours of lessons then we can take the test and fail it as many times as we want until we pass.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Driving in Europe, especially the West is hard as fuck. Expensive and they make it so difficult to pass

I will probably fail in America too which is easier there

Luckily, I don't depend on a car here, because everything I need for survival is nearby and easily accessible on foot.
I wanted to get my driver's license when I was 18, but at some point my eyesight got too bad. With these garbage genes, I simply don't stand a chance.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Expensive and they make it so difficult to pass

It's supposed to be particularly difficult here in Germany. But that might not be such a bad thing, otherwise there would be even more idiots on the road, potentially running me over, a half-blind pedestrian.
Even so, there are already enough shitskins speeding like crazy through 30 km/h zones in their Mercedes and BMWs.
Besides, there's still the Autobahn without speed limits in this country, which of course also requires driving skills.

 

[ReplaceMyJuice]

Luckily, I don't depend on a car here, because everything I need for survival is nearby and easily accessible on foot.
I wanted to get my driver's license when I was 18, but at some point my eyesight got too bad. With these garbage genes, I simply don't stand a chance.

That's fair. I'm sorry to hear that about your eyesight brother

It's supposed to be particularly difficult here in Germany. But that might not be such a bad thing, otherwise there would be even more idiots on the road, potentially running me over, a half-blind pedestrian.
Even so, there are already enough shitskins speeding like crazy through 30 km/h zones in their Mercedes and BMWs.
Besides, there's still the Autobahn without speed limits in this country, which of course also requires driving skills.

True that. There's already enough low iq morons on the road that could potentially take your life or someones else's

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

That's fair. I'm sorry to hear that about your eyesight brother

True that. There's already enough low iq morons on the road that could potentially take your life or someones else's

Well, what can you do if you're a complete loser in the genetic lottery?
Not only am I nearsighted, but I also see a lot of blurry vision. It all started when I was a teenager. I also have a blind spot somewhere.

That's why I'm glad the exam here is rigorous. As a disabled person, I'm particularly vulnerable.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

I'm sorry to hear that about your eyesight brother

Thank you.

 

[aryanmikmaq]

I've been going to a driving school now for 4 months or so and it's the most stressful thing i've ever done in my entire life. I hate it. I hate the man-made rules in traffic. I have a lesson next week and whenever i think about it my anxiety levels spike. Sweden is the most expensive country to get a drivers license in next to Norway. Over the past 4 months i've spent well over $3000 just in driving lessons and courses. They milk you dry. If i knew it would be this brutal i wouldn't get myself into this mess. I've been practice driving with my dad for the past 6 months too but i feel like it doesn't help at all because whenever i drive with the instructor i mess up. One little mistake in the driving test will make you fail. I've already attempted the test where you have to answer questions and i failed it. I fucking hate this shit, i feel like quitting but it's also a dumb choice since i spent so much money on it, so i will lose experience. I've never done something this anxiety inducing.

I don’t have my license

 

[ULTRAMAN]

I have to renew my license. The good thing is that I only have to take the psychotechnical exam.

 

[La Longue Fourchett]

One thing that helped me when learning to drive was not taking the driving lessons.
J
ust drive whenever you go to a grocery since you should know the way by heart.
No need to do intense 3hr drive. Just do 20-30min drive every few days. That should build up your confidence.

The biggest key is being able to calm yourself so that you can react to regards on street.

 

[superpsycho]

my drivers test was extremely easily, i dont like to drive but i have no other choice sadly.

 

[NEB.feelsdevil]

True. Something I realized is that the final road test is actually the most difficult driving you will ever do, because the driving examiner will penalize you for all the small random bullshit that doesn't actually matter.

For example in my case, it took me like half a second to realize the handbrake was on before trying to drive away. But I realized it in time, I didn't cause any harm to the car, nothing happened. But the fucker still penalized me. In a real life scenario, literally nothing would have happened.

Also, later on, I slightly touched the solid line with the tire because cars were parked on the right side and I went a bit too to the left. But there was no danger, no incoming cars, it didn't matter at all. But the fucker still penalized me. In a real life scenario, it wouldn't have mattered at all.

The final driving test is literally the most difficult driving you will EVER have to do in your life.

 

[VeryNiceGuy]

I only do good at the theory test but the practical is a mess for me

 

[EternalStorm]

I ended up getting mines as a 33 year old oldcel with some white hair already at the time jfl

BettER late than nevER though...