Story At what point did you guys give up?

[Deleted member 22999]

I’m still a youngcel (16). I always tell myself I have a chance still, but every year I lose more and more hope. I’ve been 5’3 since middle school, and have constant acne. Every single time I’ve thought I had a chance, it’s been slid out from under me like a rug. My first post has details on one of those times, it’s suifuel though. The most recent one is from a few days ago.

Finally find girl shorter than me, like 5 feet. She actually talks to me when I try to start convo. I get my hopes up. We end up talking about dark chocolate, both of us like it more than milk. Shallow banter, but its progress. I keep a pound of dark chocolate in my room, I tell her this and ask if she wants me to bring some the next day. She gets excited and says yes. Now I’m almost certain I’m in the clear. Just gotta ask her to hang out when I give her the chocolate right? Anyways, I somehow manage to overcome fear and ask her out.

>mfw “Hehehe, sorry, I like my boys like I like my chocolate”

Ask her friend, she confirms she only likes black guys

WHY DOES EVERY GIRL WHERE I LIVE HAVE A BLACK FETISH I SWEAR TO GOD ITS BULLSHIT

Insult to injury: next day I overhear her talking to her friend (different one) who says that she likes to “fuck hot guys then dump em”
Foid I was talking to agrees, specifies that they “should be pretty hot though”

My open question to everyone here: When did you just stop trying, if it all? When did it all become too brutal to attempt?

 

[terminal]

I haven't given up. I am hopecel.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

I didn’t give up. It’s just that there was never anything to begin with.

Only a Chad can “give up” because he has things to give up. Everything else is guys killing each other in competition to try not be the bottom of the pack and they’ll spend their entire lives fighting against the inevitable, but also never “making it”. Making it is a lie sold to billions of men to stop them from causing problems for the few that made it by being born with the right genetics

 

[ironmanlet321]

It just sort of happened one day.

 

[Aziz]

My last hope is steroids

 

[Purveyoroftruth]

I’m still a youngcel (16). I always tell myself I have a chance still, but every year I lose more and more hope. I’ve been 5’3 since middle school, and have constant acne. Every single time I’ve thought I had a chance, it’s been slid out from under me like a rug. My first post has details on one of those times, it’s suifuel though. The most recent one is from a few days ago.

Finally find girl shorter than me, like 5 feet. She actually talks to me when I try to start convo. I get my hopes up. We end up talking about dark chocolate, both of us like it more than milk. Shallow banter, but its progress. I keep a pound of dark chocolate in my room, I tell her this and ask if she wants me to bring some the next day. She gets excited and says yes. Now I’m almost certain I’m in the clear. Just gotta ask her to hang out when I give her the chocolate right? Anyways, I somehow manage to overcome fear and ask her out.

>mfw “Hehehe, sorry, I like my boys like I like my chocolate”

Ask her friend, she confirms she only likes black guys

WHY DOES EVERY GIRL WHERE I LIVE HAVE A BLACK FETISH I SWEAR TO GOD ITS BULLSHIT

Insult to injury: next day I overhear her talking to her friend (different one) who says that she likes to “fuck hot guys then dump em”
Foid I was talking to agrees, specifies that they “should be pretty hot though”

My open question to everyone here: When did you just stop trying, if it all? When did it all become too brutal to attempt?

Don’t give up at 16. That’s extremely irrational. I was only maybe 5 ft 8 or 9 at 16. You still have room to grow. Talk to your doctor about taking human growth hormone, if you are so concerned.

 

[Deleted member 12355]

start dosing with dht

as for your question, I was always an ugly deformed nigger and I realized my status as an unfuckable quite early, like maybe at 8 or so. Casually having conversations with girls in highschool or whatever didn't exist in my world lol

 

[Deleted member 20811]

>mfw “Hehehe, sorry, I like my boys like I like my chocolate”

Ask her friend, she confirms she only likes black guys

WHY DOES EVERY GIRL WHERE I LIVE HAVE A BLACK FETISH I SWEAR TO GOD ITS BULLSHIT

This part is bullshit unless she is black herself. Even then, black foids prefer white males over black males anyway. Non-black foids HATE Black men.

This is backed by science. JBW is real. cope harder.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

5'3 , ugly with acne. Sounds about over

 

[Deleted member 21908]

I haven't given up. I am hopecel.

 

[Bakura806]

16 JFL, idk you can declare yourself an incel at least until 18

 

[Dionysus]

holy mother of fuck thats brutal. i would be so pissed to find out someone i like was a filthy coalburner

 

[ThePlagueDoctor]

blackcels would like to know your location

tbh I am youngcel too but I’m Asian(statistically least desired type of male) and my face is infested by acne and some parts look like dead skin. It never began for me

16 JFL, idk you can declare yourself an incel at least until 18

Bullshit

 

[Iwanttolive]

I don't kno if there's a cutoff age where u jus give up, it's like a slow cook to that stage where you slowly descend into the abyss(might sound too melodramatic) while occasionally being bluepilled, still thinkin theres a chance

 

[azakhan]

JBB theory confirmed

 

[UglyScotsman]

I gave up around age 23/24, pretty much dawned on me that if I couldn't get a girl to even talk to me platonically nevermind romantically through high school and university and still being a KHHV in my mid 20s then its over.

16 is young though dont give up, gymmax and looksmaxx and you might jettison out of puberty looking ok.

If you're in your early mid 20s and a truecel then its time to man the panic stations.

 

[based_meme]

The autumn of 2012 was when I gave up. Haven't approached or asked any woman out since. Been a series of no's since high school.

I had fully accepted then that it was truly over.

 

[rabitter]

I still haven't given up. I still believe there's a glimmer of light at the end of the this rather dark tunnel. That one day I will ascend.

Hopefully.

 

[Uglyme]

5 years ago when I started drinking

 

[FlamingCel]

The words give up does not exist in my dictionary

 

[Deleted member 15737]

I still haven’t gave up, but nothing has changed in my life for years regardless of how much effort I put into things. Once you have chronic illness like me, your chances become very, very slim.

 

[Mainländer]

I can't give up. My brain is always entertaining some new plan. Even if I don't act upon it, the thoughts of the possible plans flood my head.

I know it's over but I can't bring myself to truly accept it 100%. Too crushing

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

I can't give up. My brain always comes up with some crazy new plan, even if I don't act upon it, the thoughts of the possible plans flood my head.

 

[HappilySingle]

The words give up does not exist in my dictionary

32 and I agree. Hope is my last cope. Gonna keep that up until I die even if it's rationally speaking fucking over and never began.

 

[HowCanSheSlap]

16 lol. I still had chances to not necessarily ascend but make friend even all the way til 20 or 21. I turned 25 yesterday, it's over. I wish I could rewind back to 16.

 

[Deleted member 22907]

16, I'm 17 now. Gonna rope at 20

 

[FinnCel]

I realized that the amount of effort I have to put in is way beyond what I can achieve.
I would have to work 20 years, nonstop, saving as much as possible and working overtime. I'd spend the money on surgeries and then go to some third world country and meet a single mother in her 40s.
I just can't take the pain to do that and I wouldn't be happy that way anyways

 

[Aziz]

From womb to tomb

 

[Deleted member 19546]

Less than a week ago. Got rejected. I've had it.

 

[grondilu]

but every year I lose more and more hope.

You mean during the past two years ? JFL

If you're here at 16 you'd better be truly ugly or you're making a huge mistake.

If you're not truly uhly but just high inhib or dumbed by porn, read this :

How to not be incel

If you are incel and want to know how to change that, this post is for you. I mean actually changing it, not making a political statement li...

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[Antisocialloner]

I'm 30 and just recently gave up the sliver of hope I had left. Best of luck to you youngcel.

 

[Clonecel]

You should had been born with thick skin, just like me. Nice Hotline Miami avi btw fellow greycel.

 

[TheReaper]

let's be real, all you 16 yo faggots are here because you think being an incel is the new way of being "alternative".

 

[ThracianGladiator]

Girls that young liking black guys is a sign of a rebellious phase (I'm black, so I saw how Tyrones fucked stacys back in HS, but usually got dumped when it was time to go to university). Once they're past that phase at 18/19, they're free game for white normies. In my opinion what you should do is still pursue her, prove to her that she's better off with you long term rather than fucking guys that barely give her attention and probably treat her like shit. It might take a while but if you truly work on it, she'll probably come around.

PS: This only works for younger girls who claim they like/prefer Tyrones. If they like white Chads, then it's truly over for you.

 

[Adamhastor]

WHY DOES EVERY GIRL WHERE I LIVE HAVE A BLACK FETISH I SWEAR TO GOD ITS BULLSHIT

Foids always take the easiest option