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At what age did virginity start to worry you?

thespanishcel

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Me I would say around 15. Years before I didn't care but at 15 everybody was fucking but me, I remember the school trip to Paris where Chads and some normies went into their girlfriend's room in the hotel to have sex, and me of course I was alone :feelsrope: It became even worse in high school because everybody was bragging about having sex and girlfriend and of course I was (And still I am) a virgin. Now in university it's not so horrible because there's much more people (no peer pressure lol) but being virgin still torments me. And no I don't wanna do it with an escort.
 
honestly 13, everyone in my area was losing it by then.

15+ is basically truecel tier in brooklyn.
 
21, i was more bothered by being alone before that. Now being a virgin no longer bothers me
 
Virginity? Not until I get to be around thirty will I consider it worrisome.

Never having a GF? that shit started bothering me at about 17.
 
Virginity? Not until I get to be around thirty will I consider it worrisome.

Never having a GF? that shit started bothering me at about 17.

hahahaha in my area people were getting gf's at like 8 or 9, it's fucking insane. it might as well be totally over even if you're 20 year old KHHV like me.
 
17. The chads lost it in middle school. The normies lost it freshman and sophmore year.
 
Didn't really think much about it until I was 20.
 
14, but since starting college at 18 Ive been feeling supper extra stressed about it
 
Started caring about 20 years of age. Prior to that I just fapped and was happy about it. Then I realized 95% of guys I know have had sex already and realized there's a fucking problem here.
 
wanted to have sex since i was about 10
didnt really worry until 15 when i entered high school. then it was my life mission to fuck at least one girl in HS. i obviously failed but i was just worried. i fogured it would happen eventually
didnt really get depressed though until age 25 when i realized id always be alone and die alone. guys 25+ really have it bad. its basically impossible to lose it after that age
 
About 14-15. Somewhere closer to 18 my confidence was killed completely. I would basically ready to lick an attractive femoid's ass if it could help me to get laid.
Somewhere closer to age 20, After i woke up from bluepill dreaming my confidence started to rise, as i realised i did nothing wrong, genetics did everything for me.
wanted to have sex since i was about 10
didnt really worry until 15 when i entered high school. then it was my life mission to fuck at least one girl in HS. i obviously failed but i was just worried. i fogured it would happen eventually
didnt really get depressed though until age 25 when i realized id always be alone and die alone. guys 25+ really have it bad. its basically impossible to lose it after that age
I'm 21 now, and it doesn't look like something will change soon. If i retain such condition up to age 25 or older, would my mentality change, i wonder?
 
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well im 22 now lmao, tbh ive accepted at this point its probably never happening.
 
Started caring about 20 years of age. Prior to that I just fapped and was happy about it. Then I realized 95% of guys I know have had sex already and realized there's a fucking problem here.

Same here more or less. I knew I was a social outcast even as a young teen but, fapping still felt fresh and new up until around that age. Then I realized how over it was that I had never even gotten a kiss, let alone fondled or had sex with a femoid.

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Honestly, it didn not even start worrying me yet. I actually do not find the idea of losing my virginity to a prostitute that weird and it will probably be the way I lose it.
What has always worried me, even at 8 years old, was my looks. I'm just ugly. My virginity is not the biggest problem, it is being ugly.
 
12 when I started hearing other boys talking about sex and wanting to fuck some pussy or having already done it and i knew then girls weren't going to be into me ever--but sorta held out hope maybe i'd grow into my looks over the years but now know i won't. i'm 20 and this is how i look
 
I was a little worried at 18 but it didn't bother me too much. By 20-21 I was extremely worried, and by 25 (my current age) I'm in full LDAR mode.
 
I was never worried about my virginity, but I think not getting laid is a much bigger sign of rejection from society at large.
I'm perfectly fine with being a single virgin forever but people openly mock and call you out on it for no reason and that's what bothers me.
21, i was more bothered by being alone before that. Now being a virgin no longer bothers me
In my teens I used to feel depressed about being alone so I started trying to socialize with more people. It didn't take long to realize that being alone was preferable.
 
WHEN I LOOKED UP PHIMOSIS ONLINE AND I SAW ALL OF THE 15 Y/O CHADS/CHADLITES BRAGGING ABOUT NEEDING CIRCUCMISION CUZ THEY CANT FUCK THEIR GFS
 
around 17. That's when I really started to notice females looking away from me in disgust and getting popped by Chad.
 
21 is when it really started bothering me. Before then I could convince myself I was a late bloomer, but by 21 I realized I was pretty much the only virgin I knew of. Also, college was coming to an end which is supposedly the easiest time to meet people and get laid and it hadn't even come close to happening for me.
 
Around 12 because I'm obsessed with sex since my early childhood. Now since 21 it's rather the idea of not being able to build a decent couple relationship that's bothering me, although the virginity problem is still a thing.
 
At 19 I was worried, at 23 I realized it wasn't going to happen.
 
Around 16-17 I started to become really jealous of everyone banging around me. When I was 18 I realized that it's pretty much over for me
 
22 is when it started to get embarrassing to talk about
 
when i got out of neetness(forcefully).
30ish. ever since havnt really been too happy being enslaved to wage jobs
 
19 because thats the age when I finished my first college year and had to move out of the dorms. I realized that loosing it was now going to be expoentially more difficult being away from that environment. Aged 21ish I had a major breakdown about still being a virgin, altho looking back now I realize that I was still pretty much mentally intact at that age. 23/24 is where I could really feel "wizarddom" approaching, causing a shitload of panic and depression, and by 25 I had given up, being totally consumed with depression, lonelinees, and regret.
 
I think it got real at 18 about the whole virgin thing. That was when I thought something was extremely wrong my first semester of college I guess.
 
15 or 16 it start to bug me little bit then it just got worse.
 
25. But I soon snapped out of the lie and mind control. Losing virginity is overrated. Escorts not worth it after going 5 times or so. Becomes mechanical and robotic.

And most women seem to be incapable of love.
 
19, when my 15 yo neighbour foid aborted her child so that her parents cannot know about it's deeds. I'm going to be 22 soon and I'll never touch such a disgusting organism ever.
 
16 was when I truly started to put effort in to losing it, 18-20 was when I started to get concerned somewhere in there.

well i mean i lost it to an escort at 18, but i've never truly counted that, and only did it because every other male in my life was mocking me at that point
 
About 16, 17. It like REALLY consumed me. Like I didn't know how to get out. Dumbass me didn't pull my head out of my ass and went out and tried. Yeah. I thought it was supposed to happen IE be a "chad". Yeah. I mean, I lost it eventually, but I still have the same problems.
 
I thought it was supposed to happen IE be a "chad". Yeah. I mean, I lost it eventually, but I still have the same problems.
disgusting, this is what passes for """""incel""""" in 2018 ladies and gentlemen
 
disgusting, this is what passes for """""incel""""" in 2018 ladies and gentlemen

Well, depends on how you define it. I mean, I haven't had sex in 12 years, it's not like was slaying the bitches all throughout my youth. Have dealt with isolation/depression/no social life, few friends and deep connections. No ltr/sex/romance something resembling love/marriage family, and I'm in my early 30s, so yeah, this has been a problem. Maybe mental more than anything and not having worked on it, it's not like it's been happy for me.
i will spray acid on your face if you continue posting

What's up you ass?
 
Well, depends on how you define it. I mean, I haven't had sex in 12 years, it's not like was slaying the bitches all throughout my youth. Have dealt with isolation/depression/no social life, few friends and deep connections. No ltr/sex/romance something resembling love/marriage family, and I'm in my early 30s, so yeah, this has been a problem. Maybe mental more than anything and not having worked on it, it's not like it's been happy for me.
im 25 and have never had any success with a woman, I can't see someone having sex once and then just never being able to do it again (without being in a horrible accident), i simply cant, by definition i guess you're """incel""" but im calling BS
 
im 25 and have never had any success with a woman, I can't see someone having sex once and then just never being able to do it again (without being in a horrible accident), i simply cant, by definition i guess you're """incel""" but im calling BS

I'm not here to get into some sort of eliteist social circle jerk bullshit over who has the bigger problem when it comes to this. I just don't do that. It's not like my success rate has been a neverending orgy of fucking whenever. All I've wanted was just one. I have little relationship/sexual experience and have been very self conscious of this. And I have tried for a long time with no luck. Well, no there has not been a horrible accident. Maybe it has been mental/habits.
 
I'm not here to get into some sort of eliteist social circle jerk bullshit over who has the bigger problem when it comes to this. I just don't do that. It's not like my success rate has been a neverending orgy of fucking whenever. All I've wanted was just one. I have little relationship/sexual experience and have been very self conscious of this. And I have tried for a long time with no luck. Well, no there has not been a horrible accident. Maybe it has been mental/habits.
:rolleyes: whatever dude, you're within the rules so idgaf
 

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