When women, as well as people in general, talk about "fake
nice guys," they may be referring to autistic (or ugly) males. Autists may naturally overestimate the optimal amount of pro-social communication/behavior most people generally prefer. Overly formal or polite behavior, which is often found among autists, is counter to establishing dominance. Sexually, most women do tend to prefer "
assholes". Perhaps this is hard to understand for autistics, as they are claimed to be prone to black and white thinking.
