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So this is going to be a bit of a long story but it's the story of the final straw that pushed me to realize I am an incel and accept the blackpill. This took place last Canada Day (July 1st) at a party. My chadlite friend invited me to a party at his other friends house. I thought it might be fun so I agreed. We get there and it's a pretty big house with a decent amount of people (not a huge party but big enough to be fun) but almost all guys. As the night goes on a few more girls show up and there ends up being a handful my the time the party really gets going. Two of them I never got the chance to talk to as they left pretty early, and most of the others came with their boyfriends, but there were two who seemed to be friends who were sticking together who I was interested in.
One of them was a 7/10 stacylite who I knew was out of my league but I thought I'd talk to just incase she had low standards and also since she could introduce me to her friend. Her friend was a 4/10 girl who had a cuteish face and ok body. Not nearly as good looking as her friend but much more attainable and my looksmatch. I right away notice that my friend (who was single at the time) seemed interested in the 7/10 as they were talking to each other constantly throughout the night and played beer pong together. I didn't want to step on his toes, but also figured he was way above my league anyways (he's also around a 7/10 chadlite) so nothing I could do could really hurt his chances anyways.
The 7/10 girl was sweet and talkative (at least when she's tipsy, I learned later that she's quite shy sober) whilst the 4/10 was extremely withdrawn, quiet, and unfriendly. Because of this, I tried to start conversation with the 7/10 first, hoping to later draw the 4/10 into our conversation. I talked to the 7/10 for a while while my friend was off doing something else, and it seemed to be going quite well. We talked about our school and programs (we go to the same school but different programs) and for a second I thought I may have even had a shot with her (turns out she's just the type of girl that is super friendly towards everyone). At one point when we were on the couch sitting next to each other very close (there were a lot of people on the couch so we were quite squished) I decided to try putting my arm around her to see how she would respond. I could tell she was immediately uncomfortable, but she tried to not be rude and just leaned forwards for a minute or so before excusing herself to go to the bathroom and sitting on the other couch when she returned.
At that point, I decided to go in on the 4/10 who had been sitting on the other side of the 7/10. She had mainly been talking solely to her friend all night, but now that her friend was on the other (full) couch, she was sitting quietly on her own. I started talking to her and she was extremely awkward, but seemed willing to talk to me. At this point my friend had returned and was talking to the 7/10 again. I saw him as the 7/10 for her number, and he was successful, so that gave me the push to get the 4/10's number too. When I tried to ask her, she looked at me uncomfortably and giggled. Not wanting to pressure her or make the situation more awkward I said "or how about snapchat?" which she obliged to. I was so excited, I felt like I had been successful with a girl for the first time in my life, absolutely ecstatic. At that point my dumb ass somehow managed to knock my drink over and spill it on her (ugly) white skirt. I was very apologetic and tried to help clean it off, but she was visibly upset with me. It barely even got on her, just a tiny spot, but she was clearly not happy and avoided me for the rest of the night. I was so upset with myself but at least I got her snapchat, I thought that maybe I could make it up to her later on.
The two girls left together, and me and my friend did too. My buddy told me that he got the 7/10's number and he texted her then saying that it was nice to meet her. I told her that I had got the 4/10 on snapchat and asked if he thought I should send her a snap. He said that he didn't really talk with the 4/10 much that night (probably because he was too busy with the 7/10) but that if I thought it went well and I was interested then I should go for it. I decided to do that and sent her a snap that night (I know you're supposed to wait a bit so you don't seem desperate but my friend had sent a text right away and he's much better with girls than me so I decided to follow him).
Anyways the next morning I checked my snapchat and saw that she had removed and blocked me from her snapchat. My buddy on the other hand got a "it was nice meeting you too" text that morning, a date the following weekend, and is now in a relationship with the 7/10. I on the other hand am still alone and lonely, not sure what happened to the 4/10 (apparently her and the 7/10 aren't talking anymore because the 4/10 was so jealous of the 7/10's new relationship that she never did anything except complain to her friend about her new BF (my friend) all the time) but from what I heard she ended up hooking up with another guy at the party that night (although the 7/10 insists that the 4/10 had never even kissed a guy before so not sure if this is just a rumour spread by some desperate guy who wants to convince everyone he slept with a girl). Anyways I've given up on asking girls out, it's too depressing and clearly only high-tier normies and above have any success. I'll never get to experience a relationship like my chadlite friend and his stacylite GF.
TLDR; Went to party with friend. We both asked girls who were our looksmatches for their numbers. He (7/10) got her number and is now in a relationship with her. I (4/10) got her snapchat but got blocked the next day.
One of them was a 7/10 stacylite who I knew was out of my league but I thought I'd talk to just incase she had low standards and also since she could introduce me to her friend. Her friend was a 4/10 girl who had a cuteish face and ok body. Not nearly as good looking as her friend but much more attainable and my looksmatch. I right away notice that my friend (who was single at the time) seemed interested in the 7/10 as they were talking to each other constantly throughout the night and played beer pong together. I didn't want to step on his toes, but also figured he was way above my league anyways (he's also around a 7/10 chadlite) so nothing I could do could really hurt his chances anyways.
The 7/10 girl was sweet and talkative (at least when she's tipsy, I learned later that she's quite shy sober) whilst the 4/10 was extremely withdrawn, quiet, and unfriendly. Because of this, I tried to start conversation with the 7/10 first, hoping to later draw the 4/10 into our conversation. I talked to the 7/10 for a while while my friend was off doing something else, and it seemed to be going quite well. We talked about our school and programs (we go to the same school but different programs) and for a second I thought I may have even had a shot with her (turns out she's just the type of girl that is super friendly towards everyone). At one point when we were on the couch sitting next to each other very close (there were a lot of people on the couch so we were quite squished) I decided to try putting my arm around her to see how she would respond. I could tell she was immediately uncomfortable, but she tried to not be rude and just leaned forwards for a minute or so before excusing herself to go to the bathroom and sitting on the other couch when she returned.
At that point, I decided to go in on the 4/10 who had been sitting on the other side of the 7/10. She had mainly been talking solely to her friend all night, but now that her friend was on the other (full) couch, she was sitting quietly on her own. I started talking to her and she was extremely awkward, but seemed willing to talk to me. At this point my friend had returned and was talking to the 7/10 again. I saw him as the 7/10 for her number, and he was successful, so that gave me the push to get the 4/10's number too. When I tried to ask her, she looked at me uncomfortably and giggled. Not wanting to pressure her or make the situation more awkward I said "or how about snapchat?" which she obliged to. I was so excited, I felt like I had been successful with a girl for the first time in my life, absolutely ecstatic. At that point my dumb ass somehow managed to knock my drink over and spill it on her (ugly) white skirt. I was very apologetic and tried to help clean it off, but she was visibly upset with me. It barely even got on her, just a tiny spot, but she was clearly not happy and avoided me for the rest of the night. I was so upset with myself but at least I got her snapchat, I thought that maybe I could make it up to her later on.
The two girls left together, and me and my friend did too. My buddy told me that he got the 7/10's number and he texted her then saying that it was nice to meet her. I told her that I had got the 4/10 on snapchat and asked if he thought I should send her a snap. He said that he didn't really talk with the 4/10 much that night (probably because he was too busy with the 7/10) but that if I thought it went well and I was interested then I should go for it. I decided to do that and sent her a snap that night (I know you're supposed to wait a bit so you don't seem desperate but my friend had sent a text right away and he's much better with girls than me so I decided to follow him).
Anyways the next morning I checked my snapchat and saw that she had removed and blocked me from her snapchat. My buddy on the other hand got a "it was nice meeting you too" text that morning, a date the following weekend, and is now in a relationship with the 7/10. I on the other hand am still alone and lonely, not sure what happened to the 4/10 (apparently her and the 7/10 aren't talking anymore because the 4/10 was so jealous of the 7/10's new relationship that she never did anything except complain to her friend about her new BF (my friend) all the time) but from what I heard she ended up hooking up with another guy at the party that night (although the 7/10 insists that the 4/10 had never even kissed a guy before so not sure if this is just a rumour spread by some desperate guy who wants to convince everyone he slept with a girl). Anyways I've given up on asking girls out, it's too depressing and clearly only high-tier normies and above have any success. I'll never get to experience a relationship like my chadlite friend and his stacylite GF.
TLDR; Went to party with friend. We both asked girls who were our looksmatches for their numbers. He (7/10) got her number and is now in a relationship with her. I (4/10) got her snapchat but got blocked the next day.
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