all of these men more then likely are virgins themselves and think they've unlocked the secretes to getting females, but they just haven't "had the time, or energy." to use them.
"b-b-b-b-b-b-b-but, five out of six men end up having kids." yeah, because fat betabuxxers having children with some 5/10 female who ends up cheating on them, or divorcing them half a year into the marriage is totally red meat against incels.