Ricecels are mostly hard denialists and refuse to admit even the possibility that race is the problem, even when presented with evidence. The problem with their argument is if we assume what they say is true. That means they are saying Asian men are single because:
- Asian men generally have low self esteem.
- Asian men don't love themselves.
- Asian men can't dress / are unfashionable.
- Asian men are socially awkward.
- Asian men blame women for not liking them.
So, which of these blatantly stereotyping reasons is why you're single? It really doesn't help in any way because there are A LOT of ricecels who are single and in denial, and are shifting the blame on ricecels for not being extraordinary in every way and as defect-free as possible. Basically they are setting up for an absurdly impossible to attain standard of achievement, and are carefully trying to avoid the topic of female sexual selection.
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KsWTFeP1hno
No matter what, even if you have social circle maxxed, you make millions of dollars, you have a high status job, you dress incredibly well, you're meticulously groomed, and you still struggle in dating, they will always move the goalposts even further to avoid the harsh truth. They will say that oh your personality isn't great, you could have said this or that better, you're not confident enough, etc etc.
They will gaslight you with anything to avoid the reality that Asian men are at an extreme disadvantage in terms of female sexual selection.