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It's Asian women who like white guys, not necessarily the other way around
Look, I know this is controversial but hear me out.
As an Asian male who has never had an Asian community, I've witnessed this firsthand as I've had a lot of guy friends who are not Asian.
Before I begin though, I want to put a disclaimer that I am by no means excusing the behaviour of the men who specifically target Asian women and have a fetish. They are not the purpose of this topic.
I'm talking about if you're a reasonably well-to-do straight male. Most of the guy friends I've had are like that. I don't accept asiaphiles into my circle. If you're my friend, it's likely because you're a somewhat socially adept guy and you're educated and have a white collar profession.
I'll tell you guys now that none of these guys ever set out to date Asian girls specifically. They like attractive women period. As with all guys who venture out into the dating world, they're not sure what feedback they're gonna get. They don't know what kind of women are gonna like them or what kind won't.
I've witnessed hurtful events where some of them dated Asian girls which I wish I could have dated. In these instances, I can say that they didn't approach these Asian girls any differently than they would have a girl of any other race. It was the Asian girl who did the other 50% of the work.
It's Asian women who like white men and make it easier for things to happen. I know cause I've been there and seen these instances.
Asian guys, it's not that white men are stealing our women. Most white men are simply out to get what they can get. It's just that they're getting more positive feedback from Asian women.
Asian women have just as much as white fever as white men do yellow fever.
Think about it this way. As an asian male, if you find a specific ethnicity of women are more welcoming towards you, wouldn't you do the same thing?
It's time we examine why Asian women consciously or subconsciously favour white men rather than keep blaming things like white privilege and hollywood. The problem is with our own communities.