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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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This happens to many guys who haven't been successful with women.
What happens is that at age ~30, women start getting desperate. Not only baby crazy, though that too a bit (both because of societal/parental pressure and because of her biological impulses). But also they want to settle down. They know their looks are fading or have faded already. She start feeling really old, she knows she needs to lock down a man NOW. And she has probably been trying to do that for years. Realistically she's been on the cock carousel since age ~15, probably going from relationship to relationship, long-term or short-term, nevermind the details. Maybe she had a boyfriend or two that she thought she could marry, but it didn't work out. So now she knows it's her last shot. Well, in today's world women live like gods so they can find a beta bux even at 50 or even 60, but she's feeling the pressure anyway. She wants to at the very least pop out a kid or two, and she needs a provider for them. The kind of woman that's still not married by now has some very serious flaws. Obviously we are flawed too, but you have to remember that unlike us women are always getting asked out, always involved in relationships and shit. The fact that she hasn't found anyone yet means she has a truly awful personality (not just ugly or something), because the juggernaut law is true and even ugly women are constantly in relationship (from what I've seen ugly women are the first to get married), so the reason she's single is that she's a really fucking vile bitch.
Anyway, so she'll lock down the first guy she can. She'll try to go for any able bodied man with a job, probably has a few on her radar. She's trying this with every man she meets. So she'll show you a few signs of interest. And you're a fucking virgin in his 30s, even if you hate the bitch at first, that sign of interest will be on your mind for days or weeks. So you'll warm up to her and things might develop. If out of all the guys that she's trying with, nothing works out, she'll go for you (if you have a steady paycheck). She'll be sweet at first. Hell, she'll probably be pretty chill until you're stuck into her trap for life, either by marriage or a kid. She won't break up with you because she needs marriage and a kid as quickly as possible, and if she's with you it means nobody else has worked out. And you won't break up with her cause even if you don't love her, you've "ascended" after so many years of loneliness and virginity. Even if you had the though of break up on your mind, you won't go through with it. So she'll start pressuring you to get married. And she has years and years of experience in relationships, you have none. She has so many tools in her manipulation arsenal, she knows how to make you do things and you won't be able to refuse, even if you struggle and try to avoid it.
So you will get married. And then things will change dramatically. So far so good, so far there's no big problem. But now she'll show her true self. She'll show you her vile self. She'll start nagging you a lot, she'll stop having sex with you and she'll hold it over your head as a reward, once a month or so if you have been a good work horse. That's at first though, later on maybe there won't be any sex at all. She'll start bitching a lot. She won't work as much as you but she'll moan and shout and complain that she does all the work around the house, even if you help out or even do half. She'll still imagine she does more. God help you if she doesn't have a job, she'll probably barely do a few chores and complain how hard it is to take care of the house, making you do a lot of shit after work. Ohh right, and there's shit that "only men" do around the house, so that shit will be yours to do regardless of how tired you are. But it's the 21st century so stuff "only women" do around the house will at least partly be your responsibility too. And so things will go on, gradually you'll resign to your fate. I don't want to mention stuff like cheating, I consider those unlikely to happen, even if they do happen fairly often. Maybe you'll divorce at a certain point, but if neither of you are infertile and kids do pop out, you'll most likely stay together for the kids. Or perhaps not, it depends on how awful she truly is and on how much you can take (and how much you risk to lose financially through a divorce).
Anyway, there's more but the post is long enough as it is. Meanwhile people have been living life, going out, having sex and forming relationships and friendships since they were teens or at the very least since college. Falling in and out of "love", experiencing many things. But this is all that fate has in store for us, and that's the best case scenario apparently. So I'd rather be single. Luckily I'm bald and avoidant of people so I'm all set, I think I'm not at risk of ever getting a relationship, phew.
What happens is that at age ~30, women start getting desperate. Not only baby crazy, though that too a bit (both because of societal/parental pressure and because of her biological impulses). But also they want to settle down. They know their looks are fading or have faded already. She start feeling really old, she knows she needs to lock down a man NOW. And she has probably been trying to do that for years. Realistically she's been on the cock carousel since age ~15, probably going from relationship to relationship, long-term or short-term, nevermind the details. Maybe she had a boyfriend or two that she thought she could marry, but it didn't work out. So now she knows it's her last shot. Well, in today's world women live like gods so they can find a beta bux even at 50 or even 60, but she's feeling the pressure anyway. She wants to at the very least pop out a kid or two, and she needs a provider for them. The kind of woman that's still not married by now has some very serious flaws. Obviously we are flawed too, but you have to remember that unlike us women are always getting asked out, always involved in relationships and shit. The fact that she hasn't found anyone yet means she has a truly awful personality (not just ugly or something), because the juggernaut law is true and even ugly women are constantly in relationship (from what I've seen ugly women are the first to get married), so the reason she's single is that she's a really fucking vile bitch.
Anyway, so she'll lock down the first guy she can. She'll try to go for any able bodied man with a job, probably has a few on her radar. She's trying this with every man she meets. So she'll show you a few signs of interest. And you're a fucking virgin in his 30s, even if you hate the bitch at first, that sign of interest will be on your mind for days or weeks. So you'll warm up to her and things might develop. If out of all the guys that she's trying with, nothing works out, she'll go for you (if you have a steady paycheck). She'll be sweet at first. Hell, she'll probably be pretty chill until you're stuck into her trap for life, either by marriage or a kid. She won't break up with you because she needs marriage and a kid as quickly as possible, and if she's with you it means nobody else has worked out. And you won't break up with her cause even if you don't love her, you've "ascended" after so many years of loneliness and virginity. Even if you had the though of break up on your mind, you won't go through with it. So she'll start pressuring you to get married. And she has years and years of experience in relationships, you have none. She has so many tools in her manipulation arsenal, she knows how to make you do things and you won't be able to refuse, even if you struggle and try to avoid it.
So you will get married. And then things will change dramatically. So far so good, so far there's no big problem. But now she'll show her true self. She'll show you her vile self. She'll start nagging you a lot, she'll stop having sex with you and she'll hold it over your head as a reward, once a month or so if you have been a good work horse. That's at first though, later on maybe there won't be any sex at all. She'll start bitching a lot. She won't work as much as you but she'll moan and shout and complain that she does all the work around the house, even if you help out or even do half. She'll still imagine she does more. God help you if she doesn't have a job, she'll probably barely do a few chores and complain how hard it is to take care of the house, making you do a lot of shit after work. Ohh right, and there's shit that "only men" do around the house, so that shit will be yours to do regardless of how tired you are. But it's the 21st century so stuff "only women" do around the house will at least partly be your responsibility too. And so things will go on, gradually you'll resign to your fate. I don't want to mention stuff like cheating, I consider those unlikely to happen, even if they do happen fairly often. Maybe you'll divorce at a certain point, but if neither of you are infertile and kids do pop out, you'll most likely stay together for the kids. Or perhaps not, it depends on how awful she truly is and on how much you can take (and how much you risk to lose financially through a divorce).
Anyway, there's more but the post is long enough as it is. Meanwhile people have been living life, going out, having sex and forming relationships and friendships since they were teens or at the very least since college. Falling in and out of "love", experiencing many things. But this is all that fate has in store for us, and that's the best case scenario apparently. So I'd rather be single. Luckily I'm bald and avoidant of people so I'm all set, I think I'm not at risk of ever getting a relationship, phew.