unanimouslyethnic
the deathgripill DESTROYED me
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there is NO point in changing yourself for someone else or to fit in with a certain group of people that give you nothing, and for me this has always been with my relationship (or lack therof) with women.
as a young guy, i have been going out quite a bit to different parties and social events, missing up for loads of lost time essentially back in highschool. i never spoke to girls during my time in grade school, and my limited exposure to them was either overwhelmingly negative or at best neutral. for the longest time, I was awkward, shy, and distant towards them, probably not out of choice but i digress. i always felt like i couldnt really connect with them.
having more and more exposure with women my age, in a really depressing way i actually feel BETTER now than i did when i was even more bitter, angry, resentful, yet with the hope that i can somehow change myself.
i have realized, now, that my personality is really just totally INCOMPATIBLE with women. i dont think the same way as them, i cannot connect with them about literally anything, and they seem to have no interest in talking to me even when im polite and courteous towards them. i have really tried too much man, just like another incel here who talked about the demographics blackpill i have now probably had more exposure to single women/normies than the avg guy posting on reddit and i have come to a completely different conclusion than them.
i can confidently say, at least from my perspective, that 95% of women my age are undateable. ive now talked to maybe 100 different girls after months of socializing, partying, doing the meme "putting yourself out there" platitudes you as an incel get and i have really only reinforced my views. the majority of women SUCK. they are nasty, ungrateful, incredibly hypergamous, loud, nonfeminine even. now, these are all things that you can look past for hookups, but lets be real i will never get those, so thinking about this from a dating-only perspective - whats so great about it? now, ill give u a couple examples
-group of girls mocked my friend for being ugly when he drived them around, paid for their food, was nice to them, opened the door, in his OWN HOME (i have picture and video evidence of it when they sent it to me)
-ive seen girls start making out with guys that knock their bfs out after their shitty little beef ends up with them on the ground
-ive seen girls EXPLOIT vunerable men. for money, for gas, for anything. i mean, it is really fucking sad and pathetic how desperate some men are for female validation (pot calling the kettle black i suppose) but women unironically get everything handed to them. people can gaslight you all they want about how women have it harder than men but you cannot try and make someone think they are crazy for observing something that they have seen with their own eyes
-women are awful at making any kind of friendly conversation, all they ever asked me if they spoke first was if they could hook up with a couple chad friends of mine or if i could lend them something, ive such seldom heard them be genuinely interested in the kind of person someone else is
-they are just nasty. their personality is just gross. you really arent missing out on anything by not talking to them (or at least i can say that for myself) as these people just suck
dont get the wrong idea obviously, there are wonderful, classy, intelligent women out there but these represent maybe 10% of the female population and any woman like that is definitely not interested in a relationship with a sexless loser like you. i have talked to loads of women who would genuinely make great gfs, and what do they all have in common? they are taken
so the whole pool of women for you is
-nasty, gross, unlikable women who (key word) DONT WANT TO DATE YOU. [90%]
-classy, nice, respectable women who have boyfriends [10%]
now, take a good, hard look at your options man. you do not have JACKSHIT. unless you are someone objectively attractive to women, you have little to no chance of scoring any kind of respectable/datable women and you cant get a hookup either! jfl @ people who keep coping with white knighting, the end result is being mocked and ridiculed by a normie gc like my truecel friend
the real solution is to just shut your sex drive off or get escorts. both options let you skip the games and focus on what actually enhances life quality rather than chasing some meaningless quest with no real endgoal. dont be a free agent
as a young guy, i have been going out quite a bit to different parties and social events, missing up for loads of lost time essentially back in highschool. i never spoke to girls during my time in grade school, and my limited exposure to them was either overwhelmingly negative or at best neutral. for the longest time, I was awkward, shy, and distant towards them, probably not out of choice but i digress. i always felt like i couldnt really connect with them.
having more and more exposure with women my age, in a really depressing way i actually feel BETTER now than i did when i was even more bitter, angry, resentful, yet with the hope that i can somehow change myself.
i have realized, now, that my personality is really just totally INCOMPATIBLE with women. i dont think the same way as them, i cannot connect with them about literally anything, and they seem to have no interest in talking to me even when im polite and courteous towards them. i have really tried too much man, just like another incel here who talked about the demographics blackpill i have now probably had more exposure to single women/normies than the avg guy posting on reddit and i have come to a completely different conclusion than them.
i can confidently say, at least from my perspective, that 95% of women my age are undateable. ive now talked to maybe 100 different girls after months of socializing, partying, doing the meme "putting yourself out there" platitudes you as an incel get and i have really only reinforced my views. the majority of women SUCK. they are nasty, ungrateful, incredibly hypergamous, loud, nonfeminine even. now, these are all things that you can look past for hookups, but lets be real i will never get those, so thinking about this from a dating-only perspective - whats so great about it? now, ill give u a couple examples
-group of girls mocked my friend for being ugly when he drived them around, paid for their food, was nice to them, opened the door, in his OWN HOME (i have picture and video evidence of it when they sent it to me)
-ive seen girls start making out with guys that knock their bfs out after their shitty little beef ends up with them on the ground
-ive seen girls EXPLOIT vunerable men. for money, for gas, for anything. i mean, it is really fucking sad and pathetic how desperate some men are for female validation (pot calling the kettle black i suppose) but women unironically get everything handed to them. people can gaslight you all they want about how women have it harder than men but you cannot try and make someone think they are crazy for observing something that they have seen with their own eyes
-women are awful at making any kind of friendly conversation, all they ever asked me if they spoke first was if they could hook up with a couple chad friends of mine or if i could lend them something, ive such seldom heard them be genuinely interested in the kind of person someone else is
-they are just nasty. their personality is just gross. you really arent missing out on anything by not talking to them (or at least i can say that for myself) as these people just suck
dont get the wrong idea obviously, there are wonderful, classy, intelligent women out there but these represent maybe 10% of the female population and any woman like that is definitely not interested in a relationship with a sexless loser like you. i have talked to loads of women who would genuinely make great gfs, and what do they all have in common? they are taken
so the whole pool of women for you is
-nasty, gross, unlikable women who (key word) DONT WANT TO DATE YOU. [90%]
-classy, nice, respectable women who have boyfriends [10%]
now, take a good, hard look at your options man. you do not have JACKSHIT. unless you are someone objectively attractive to women, you have little to no chance of scoring any kind of respectable/datable women and you cant get a hookup either! jfl @ people who keep coping with white knighting, the end result is being mocked and ridiculed by a normie gc like my truecel friend
the real solution is to just shut your sex drive off or get escorts. both options let you skip the games and focus on what actually enhances life quality rather than chasing some meaningless quest with no real endgoal. dont be a free agent