Arranged marriages lead to happier relationships

[Deleted member 23450]

Arranged marriages lead to happier relationships because couples 'work harder'

ARRANGED marriages lead to happier unions, a groundbreaking study reveals today. Muslim mums are 30 per cent more likely than their Christians counterparts to have fulfilled relationships like GBBO…

www.thesun.co.uk

"Couple who have arranged marriages are happier, study reveals"

"Muslim mums are 30 per cent more likely than their Christians counterparts to have fulfilled relationships"

“They enter marriage without artificial and unreal ‘celebrity’ expectations or a belief that they merely have to bump into a perfect partner and from then on no effort will be needed.”

water is wet

 

[Deleted member 101]

>implying any woman would ever be happy being forced to marry any of us
lol

 

[Transcended Trucel]

>implying any woman would ever be happy being forced to marry any of us
lol

Massive cope. If they are brainwashed enough they will be happy

 

[Deleted member 101]

Massive cope. If they are brainwashed enough they will be happy

JFL at having to resort to Stockholm syndrome to make her “want” you
If I was in a culture where arranged marriages were the norm, I bet my wife would fucking hate me since I’m not the Chad she was hoping for

 

[Transcended Trucel]

JFL at having to resort to Stockholm syndrome to make her “want” you
If I was in a culture where arranged marriages were the norm, I bet my wife would fucking hate me since I’m not the Chad she was hoping for

That does happen. But if no social media and enough brainwashing, it would turn out well. I have been to Pakistan and India and some of the marriages seem decently strong.

 

[Deleted member 101]

That does happen. But if no social media and enough brainwashing, it would turn out well. I have been to Pakistan and India and some of the marriages seem decently strong.

That’s only because the woman has no choice in the matter. Doesn’t mean she ever learns to like you. She just doesn’t wanna end up being stoned to death for finding what she really wants.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

That’s only because the woman has no choice in the matter. Doesn’t mean she ever learns to like you. She just doesn’t wanna end up being stoned to death for finding what she really wants.

You have to make compromises. . Better to have arranged marriage than the current system.

 

[Deleted member 101]

You have to make compromises. . Better to have arranged marriage than the current system.

Unless there’s a chance she grows to like me (as in actually like me, not that brainwashing shit or abuse), I would prefer to be alone than to force someone to be with me out of fear.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Unless there’s a chance she grows to like me (as in actually like me, not that brainwashing shit or abuse), I would prefer to be alone than to force someone to be with me out of fear.

Understandable. But that type of thing only exists for Chads. Personally I am same position, even though I could arrange marriage, it's not the sam satisfaction you get from an organic marriage would have. Besides the risk of divorce rape if u bring the women over to west

 

[Deleted member 23450]

I have been to Pakistan and India and some of the marriages seem decently strong.

The arranged marriage is not entirely based on appearance so probably it will be easier to the person accept you along the time.

 

[streetlyte]

You have to make compromises. . Better to have arranged marriage than the current system.

That’s only because the woman has no choice in the matter. Doesn’t mean she ever learns to like you. She just doesn’t wanna end up being stoned to death for finding what she really wants.

The truth is somewhere in the middle. For a lot of people in arranged marriages, there is a bond that tends to form between them that is very different from Western married couples, a sort of mutual understanding of their situation and the realization that working together on building a working relationship is the better alternative to being bitter and resentful. A lot of these couples "learn" how to love each other in a way that is very different from traditional courting, but that love can be equally or even stronger than a traditional marriage.

I don't think arranged marriages are the end-all solution to the terrible dating/marriage situation in today's Western society, but there are absolutely a lot of positives that can come from them that feminists and cucks will never care to see or admit to.

 

[Deleted member 21514]

JFL at having to resort to Stockholm syndrome to make her “want” you
If I was in a culture where arranged marriages were the norm, I bet my wife would fucking hate me since I’m not the Chad she was hoping for

Who cares about the happyness of a hole tbh

 

[0x3nf4rt]

L I E S

 

[Deleted member 101]

The truth is somewhere in the middle. For a lot of people in arranged marriages, there is a bond that tends to form between them that is very different from Western married couples, a sort of mutual understanding of their situation and the realization that working together on building a working relationship is the better alternative to being bitter and resentful. A lot of these couples "learn" how to love each other in a way that is very different from traditional courting, but that love can be equally or even stronger than a traditional marriage.

I don't think arranged marriages are the end-all solution to the terrible dating/marriage situation in today';s Western society, but there are absolutely a lot of positives that can come from them that feminists and cucks will never care to see or admit to.

The problem is that I could easily see the bedroom being dead on arrival. I want a nice romance as much as any incel but I don’t think I could enjoy a relationship with no sex.

Who cares about the happyness of a hole tbh

If you don’t care about her happiness or whatever then you wouldn’t want an arraigned marriage, anyway. Just blow your load into whores, instead.

 

[sub8male]

The curryfoids who get arranged marriage to pajeet don’t really realize that they could be fucking white chads like the American curryfoids.

 

[Deleted member 101]

The curryfoids who get arranged marriage to pajeet don’t really realize that they could be fucking white chads like the American curryfoids.

Depends, if they live in an area or in a culture that restricts their access to the internet, they ain’t gonna be able to achieve that.

 

[Deleted member 21514]

The problem is that I could easily see the bedroom being dead on arrival. I want a nice romance as much as any incel but I don’t think I could enjoy a relationship with no sex.

If you don’t care about her happiness or whatever then you wouldn’t want an arraigned marriage, anyway. Just blow your load into whores, instead.

I'm not sure about escortceling tbh i find disgusting to fuck a whore that's been used thousand of times

 

[Deleted member 101]

I'm not sure about escortceling tbh i find disgusting to fuck a whore that's been used thousand of times

Yeah but marriage seems pointless if you only care about yourself and yourself only. Ideally in a loving relationship you should equally care about each other.

 

[streetlyte]

The problem is that I could easily see the bedroom being dead on arrival. I want a nice romance as much as any incel but I don’t think I could enjoy a relationship with no sex.

If you don’t care about her happiness or whatever then you wouldn’t want an arraigned marriage, anyway. Just blow your load into whores, instead.

Right, but the fact is if the woman decides to completely close herself off to you emotionally right from the start, she is also screwing herself out of any chance of happiness. I think a lot of women in these situations will realize at some point the best route to take is to give her husband a legitimate chance to win her over, since the alternative (gauranteed unhappiness, then death) is worse.

That fact, combined with the backdrop of a culture that strongly disproves of infidelity and divorce (which is totally absent in Western culture now) will make a lot of women give the marriage a legit shot before shutting down completely. Of course many women or men will do this anyways, but from what I've seen/read about, a lot of arranged marriages end up not just working but thriving for these simple reasons alone.

 

[Deleted member 21514]

Yeah but marriage seems pointless if you only care about yourself and yourself only. Ideally in a loving relationship you should equally care about each other.

I guess that's right but no woman will love us or be happy with us tbh

 

[Deleted member 101]

Right, but the fact is if the woman decides to completely close herself off to you emotionally right from the start, she is also screwing herself out of any chance of happiness. I think a lot of women in these situations will realize at some point the best route to take is to give her husband a legitimate chance to win her over, since the alternative (gauranteed unhappiness, then death) is worse.

That fact, combined with the backdrop of a culture that strongly disproves of infidelity and divorce (which is totally absent in Western culture now) will make a lot of women give the marriage a legit shot before shutting down completely. Of course many women or men will do this anyways, but from what I've seen/read about, a lot of arranged marriages end up not just working but thriving for these simple reasons alone.

If I’m ever married I just want me and my wife to give ourselves 100% towards the relationship. But that’s so goddamn unrealistic since women are hardwired to find dominant men the most attractive. So you’ll have a difficult time if you’re the kinda guy what wants a balanced relationship, or is even submissive.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

If I’m ever married I just want me and my wife to give ourselves 100% towards the relationship. But that’s so goddamn unrealistic since women are hardwired to find dominant men the most attractive. So you’ll have a difficult time if you’re the kinda guy what wants a balanced relationship, or is even submissive.

A balance relationship is asking to be cucked

 

[Deleted member 101]

A balance relationship is asking to be cucked

Yeah but I literally don’t have the kind of personality that would be able to comfortably dominate 95% to 100% of the time like some extroverted Chad. I would have to keep my true self a facade the entire time around her and that shit would be exhausting.

But I also don’t wanna be dominated in the way women want to because that sounds like a recipe for being abused, or just being plain emasculated.

 

[Deleted member 23450]

Unless there’s a chance she grows to like me (as in actually like me, not that brainwashing shit or abuse), I would prefer to be alone than to force someone to be with me out of fear.

If a woman get an arranged marriage with a chad she would be grateful to god everyday, right? so here it's based on the appearance and it doesn't seen so bad to her.

If a woman get an arranged marriage with an ugly guy she would hate at first, but I believe with the time she would learn how to truly love him along the relationship. We just get rejected without have any chance to show how we really are and our feelings, thoughts, wishes...

I truly believe that woman could learn how to love you.
you will just need some time and intimacy.

 

[Deleted member 101]

If a woman get an arranged marriage with a chad she would be grateful to god everyday, right? so here it's based on the appearance and it doesn't seen so bad to her.

If a woman get an arranged marriage with an ugly guy she would hate at first, but I believe with the time she would learn how to truly love him along the relationship. We just get rejected without have any chance to show how we really are and our feelings, thoughts, wishes...

I truly believe that woman could learn how to love you.
you will just need some time and intimacy.

Nah this seems like cope, otherwise all those stories about girls with ugly boyfriends that they initially find unattractive only to fall in love after “getting to know him” because he’s “so funny” or “charming”. It’s all bullshit.

 

[Deleted member 23450]

Nah this seems like cope, otherwise all those stories about girls with ugly boyfriends that they initially find unattractive only to fall in love after “getting to know him” because he’s “so funny” or “charming”. It’s all bullshit.

tbh it is a little bit of a cope
but for example, some girl doesn't want to marry you, but she was obligate.
you have some issues at the beginning, but after 5 years she starts to accept you and loves you truly, was that all bad for her?
at the end she will be happy, everyone wins

 

[JohnDcel]

tbh it is a little bit of a cope
but for example, some girl doesn't want to marry you, but she was obligate.
you have some issues at the beginning, but after 5 years she starts to accept you and loves you truly, was that all bad for her?
at the end she will be happy, everyone wins

Yeah, she eventually gets used to you and may starts to even like you.

 

[Deleted member 101]

tbh it is a little bit of a cope
but for example, some girl doesn't want to marry you, but she was obligate.
you have some issues at the beginning, but after 5 years she starts to accept you and loves you truly, was that all bad for her?
at the end she will be happy, everyone wins

Yeah, she eventually gets used to you and may starts to even like you.

What makes you think she’ll love you? If anything she will only merely “tolerate” you. This is delusional.

5 years of a garbage relationship to really have her like me? Really?

 

[Deleted member 23450]

What makes you think she’ll love you? If anything she will only merely “tolerate” you. This is delusional.

5 years of a garbage relationship to really have her like me? Really?

It's not uncommom to see women from an arranged marriage happy with some terrible husband.

I know it could be difficult to believe but it's not that uncommom.

 

[Deleted member 101]

It's not uncommom to see women from an arranged marriage happy with a horrible husband.

If you mean by horrible as in asshole Chad then maybe.
But happy with some beta male that she isn’t physically attracted to? Even if she’s “happy”, this would be more like a platonic friendship than a romantic and sexual relationship.

 

[Aziz]

Just wait till a Chad has his eyes on the wife

 

[Deleted member 101]

Just wait till a Chad has his eyes on the wife

In cultures with arranged marriage, women tend to have less freedom. So there’s less of a chance this will happen.

 

[Aziz]

In cultures with arranged marriage, women tend to have less freedom. So there’s less of a chance this will happen.

She still would be thinking about Chad while fucking you and she'll hate your guts for it

 

[Deleted member 101]

She still would be thinking about Chad while fucking you and she'll hate your guts for it

Well, yeah.

 

[Deleted member 23450]

In cultures with arranged marriage, women tend to have less freedom. So there’s less of a chance this will happen.

I don't see any problem any.

Of course, I don't agree with some cases of violence against women, but I believe that she must RESPECT her husband no matter what.

She still would be thinking about Chad while fucking you and she'll hate your guts for it

tbh I don't know how to answer that so let's reach a conclusion





















there is no hope

 

[Deleted member 101]

I don't see any problem any.

Of course, I don't agree with some cases of violence against women, but I believe that she must RESPECT her husband no matter what.

Even if he’s in the wrong? Husband can legit fuck up or do something shitty, too.
really you should respect each other.

 

[Deleted member 23450]

Even if he’s in the wrong? Husband can legit fuck up or do something shitty, too.
really you should respect each other.

Maybe I'm being too agressive.
I could use an "average" guy like us as an example.

most of us wouldn't have courage to do a big shitty thing with a woman

tbh I really believe that we're not too bad at all.

Just a kiss of a woman could save many of us

 

[JohnDcel]

What makes you think she’ll love you? If anything she will only merely “tolerate” you. This is delusional.

5 years of a garbage relationship to really have her like me? Really?

Females easily adapt to situations that are forced on them. While she may hate it at the beginning, over the years the way she sees you would eventually change for the better and yes, may even start to love you. But I guess it isn't true in every case.

 

[Deleted member 101]

Females easily adapt to situations that are forced on them. While she may hate it at the beginning, over the years the way she sees you would eventually change for the better and yes, may even start to love you. But I guess it isn't true in every case.

I honestly doubt that’s the case.

 

[Deleted member 16624]

I kind of doubt it tbh

 

[Teutonic Knight]

Arranged marriages only work if the society isn't sexual and doesn't allow nudity and models and good looking actors being plastered everywhere and similar things.

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

I prefer not to. If no cute adorable loli waifu of culture, then give me pretty whores to fuck

 

[Damo the incel]

I prefer not to. If no cute adorable loli waifu of culture, then give me pretty whores to fuck

But the question is can your 11cm satisfy pretty whores

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

But the question is can your 11cm satisfy pretty whores

Pretty whores with small holes

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

That’s only because the woman has no choice in the matter. Doesn’t mean she ever learns to like you. She just doesn’t wanna end up being stoned to death for finding what she really wants.

that's ok

 

[ThirdWorldcel]

Arranged marriages (with Chad) lead to happier relationships.

Fixed it for ya.

 

[Mainländer]

Arranged marriages and monogamy are the best solution for inceldom hands down and would also improve society massively.

JFL at having to resort to Stockholm syndrome to make her “want” you
If I was in a culture where arranged marriages were the norm, I bet my wife would fucking hate me since I’m not the Chad she was hoping for

Women are turboconformists. Have the entire society telling them that marrying to a good stable guy at 12 is the correct thing to do and they'll do it and shame those who don't.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I kind of doubt it tbh