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Are you a bad person in real life?

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Incels are popularly categorized as loathsome and anti-social; thus leading to our most often cited reason for failing to get dates: we have bad personalities.

But is that true? For me personally, no one who knows me would say I'm a bad or mean person. Despite my hatred for humanity, and females in particular, I treat individuals politely. My point is that being mean is not a criticism that could be levied against me.

Would the people who know you say you have a bad personality, and do you generally treat people cordially?
 
I'm actually very cordial, polite and reserved. I am somewhat anti-social in certain circles but I've mostly grown out of that.

Just because I can be thought of as shy doesn't mean I'm a pushover. I did manage to survive a few stays in prison without getting into fights or any trouble in general. I can accommodate my behavior quite well actually.
 
yes im a horrible person.

i kek when incels are stereotyped as fedora tipping nice guys, lmao they cant catch a break can they?
 
I'm honestly very pleasant. Polite and nice and easy to talk to
 
Almost no one would say so. I'm very terse and withdrawn but still have an unfailing sense of decorum. People have referred to me as a "nice guy" (normies got no idea what dat word mean to us, ain't got no right usin it - dat's our word).

No one has any idea how angry I am, I guarantee it.
 
I'm a gremlin in real life.
 
people only know what you tell them.
 
i'm human so i have animalistic tendencies like all humans, a penis that gets hungry and stomach that gets hungry, i fap sometimes, i eat bad food sometimes

when i was trying to self improve a few years ago i attended buddhist meditation group, I was told all our minds are restless when you just sit there in meditation. Many different thoughts emerge and its up to me to decide to give that thought more fuel by progressing it or watching it and letting it pass.

I think most bad people just ride the negative thought waves and are not mindful enough by choice to get off it, but who knows but maybe they are mindful of negative thoughts and keep feeding it.
 
I don't really talk to people very often. If anything I'm only quiet.

I was told all our minds are restless when you just sit there in meditation. Many different thoughts emerge and its up to me to decide to give that thought more fuel by progressing it or watching it and letting it pass.
It's true, you have to just ignore and not feed them.
 
I don't really talk to people very often. If anything I'm only quiet.

It's true, you have to just ignore and not feed them.

Ya i try to

And if IT users or whoever might say blackpill is negative, no, blackpill is facts - those facts might make females look bad but its just the reality of how they operate.
 
I'm just a boring person. I don't like getting angry irl, doesn't fit my personality.
 
have no friends, really awkward IRL, I say hi to coworkers every morning, and bye
 
People, who know me, see me as a kind and caring person and I honestly think I am, I wouldn’t hurt a damn fly. Those who know me would tell me: "Why are you always smiling and laughing? I haven’t seen you sad yet." Kek if only they could see my soul and sadness that’s hidden inside...
 
I hate people and I make sure everyone around me knows it. I show no emotions, I don't laugh, I don't look at people unless they talk to me, even just a glance. I'm also extremely silent and reserved. This changes when I'm talking with buds though. People seem to trust me a lot though, and despite my efforts to have people ignore me, people talk to me nonetheless. So idk. I think I am, but others don't for some reason.
 
Too subjective a question with too many variables which rely upon your own personal interpretation as opposed to some kind of externally validated conclusions. Notwithstanding that important caveat, I would say that in my experience, most guys like us do tend to be reserved, reticent, slightly introverted but also insightful and respectful. As for myself, I am regarded as either fantastically bombastic and charismatic or absurdly introverted and reserved, depending on the situation and the company I keep.
 
I am too ugly to be a good person IRL
 
This is what pisses me off, you can see from this thread how many incels are educated with women, treat them with respect, some are just quieter and reserved, but show to have good personalities, but still they are treated as subhuman and on account of these difference cucks will say "is because women can smell your true personality" bullshit, what they show are their real personalities what we show here is just the result of the years of bad treatment we received, we were always educated and individuals who respect other people, what you see here is the process of change because of a society that wants us dead.
 
Almost angelic in real life, yet I think I'm actually less of a doormat than regular people.
 
Yeah, probably, behind my back though.
 
Yes, because I'm ugly.
 
Yes because lol @ moralfaggotry
 
I'm kind, always helpful, I gave for charity in the past and well, look where I'm today.
My only regret I didn't assholemaxx when I was a teen.
 
When I was still in school I treated my classmates nice, only then to reciprocate by bullying me.
Now I still try to treat nice new people or strangers buuuuuut if ever they treat me like shit I would treat them like shit but I don't know if I can treat my former classmates shit because of the trauma they gave me.
Being nice to others and in return them being nice to you is a massive bluepilled cope that only exist in fantasy.
 
No, but I became a bad person at 22 (due to incel rage). But I've recently reverted to being a good person again (but with a backbone)
 
normal around the few friends that i have, quiet and reserved around everyone else. a coworker even asked why am i so quiet which i found to be a bit rude
 
I am a really polite person irl and online
 
not particularly but no worse than normies
 
Here, cucktears, see how most of us are actually nice and polite to other people, we care about them, some of us even too much. But it's surely our personalities that hold us back, right? R-r-right?
 
I'm probably too nice, probably why I got bullied so much because they knew I wouldn't say anything back.

I generally don't talk to people so I suppose that is middle ground between nice and bad
 
I am generally extremely receptive and polite in public. I act pretty normal. If you can't seperate your internet self from your irl self you're a mentalcel, and It's Over.
 
Besides my obsessive lust towards pubescent and post pubescent girls, I'm an ok person.
 
I would consider myself average when it comes to personality. How I wish it mattered.
 
People always shitted on me, but i try to have a friendly facade outwards when iam ttreated friendly. When you try to fuck with me long enough, prepare for a fking goodaamn fight where i will crush your whole ego into pieces. When youre way stronger as me ill find an other way to ruin you, because this became my destiny to RUIN your FUCKING life.
 
Yes I am and I'm proud of it, society treated me like shit do there is no Reason for me to be a nice perme
 
Are you a bad person in real life?


Probably
 
yes, most of the time
 
I'm a good person i guess..
I do charity work a fair few times a year and i'll always buy food for a homeless person when i see them.
I also try to give earnest and kind advice, as well as try to be sympathetic to other peoples problems.

I can be a fucking cunt too though, more so to women.
 
No I'm actually very friendly and respectful. Too bad foids can sense internet misogyny and blackpilled hatred from my face.
 
Nope, I'm from far a terrible person. I'm a pretty polite and nice person who's just very shy and socially awkward.
 
I think I'm pretty solidly unobjectionable to get along with in real life, but in my degree we're required to act professional and nice in public or they whip out that 'fitness to practice' infraction.
 
I do Charity and care about animals, I'm usually kind, but I have -1 problems being a manipulative cunt and feel no remorse about it, perks of sociopathy
 
I empathize with others and try to live with a strong ethical code but go from 0 to 100 on people who cross me.
 
I'm the type of person that helps old people cross the street tbhtbh :feelsbadman:
 
i'm a good person, i do charity work and i'm generally good to people.
ESPECIALLY incel-esque men

I'm a bit mean to women generally though
 
Predator or prey. Take your pick.
 

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