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5'2 96 lbs Chinese goblin living in Germany
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In the case of women, "true" love, or unconditional love, stems from a parenting instinct. This instinct was selected mainly because it help ensure the survival of one's offspring.
Even centuries before feminism, women did not really "love" their spouses. The feeling of weakness to a high status man at best creates desire and respect, I do not believe it is unconditional love. It is more like a feeling of dependance , possibly intertwined with sexual desire if the guy's genetic material is of high enough "quality". The only rare cases where I have seen a woman unconditionnally love a man, it was moreso a fluke, with the woman placing her motherly instincts on her partner.
Men, on the other part, can fall madly in love with one specific woman to the point where they can become depressed longterm and even commit suicide when she leaves them. I think the data can back me up on this.
Men are a hundred times more prone to develop a true feeling of attachement, and in general have a much harder time moving on after a separation than women.
My hypothesis is that men have, at large, been selected to unconditionally want to provide for the woman they have mated with when there is reproductive scarcity (ex: not being top genetic material), since it improves the chances that their offspring will survive.
Love is a very strong feeling that emerges from an imperative to pass on your genes. In the case of women, this can hardly be expressed towards a potential mate, since reproductive scarcity rarely applies to women.
Nowadays, it is worse, because the number of potential mates women have only increases thanks to technology.
Even centuries before feminism, women did not really "love" their spouses. The feeling of weakness to a high status man at best creates desire and respect, I do not believe it is unconditional love. It is more like a feeling of dependance , possibly intertwined with sexual desire if the guy's genetic material is of high enough "quality". The only rare cases where I have seen a woman unconditionnally love a man, it was moreso a fluke, with the woman placing her motherly instincts on her partner.
Men, on the other part, can fall madly in love with one specific woman to the point where they can become depressed longterm and even commit suicide when she leaves them. I think the data can back me up on this.
Men are a hundred times more prone to develop a true feeling of attachement, and in general have a much harder time moving on after a separation than women.
My hypothesis is that men have, at large, been selected to unconditionally want to provide for the woman they have mated with when there is reproductive scarcity (ex: not being top genetic material), since it improves the chances that their offspring will survive.
Love is a very strong feeling that emerges from an imperative to pass on your genes. In the case of women, this can hardly be expressed towards a potential mate, since reproductive scarcity rarely applies to women.
Nowadays, it is worse, because the number of potential mates women have only increases thanks to technology.