Serious Are we incel because we never really had friends and where outcasts

[EcuntR]

This has been bothering me lately especially after watching this video


Look don't get me wrong, I am fully aware that chads are the ultimate lifeform in the universe but I get the feeling that having a social life is really important. We have all been in school and I am sure most of us have seen that ugly beaner/nigger with a white gf and we have asked ourselves "What does that guy have that I don't?". Well he has friends, most likely you will see this kid playing basketball or being the class clown to impress his friends and foids. If we would have had a social life we would have been able to get something because friends are really important in order to get a gf because most basic bitches don't like guys who are quiet and have little to no friends.

Take the friendpill, girls don't like incels but they hate going out with losers.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Social sapiency is important. Don't buy into the thinking that "If you're Chad, you could be a drooling invalid and everyone around you would fill in the social blanks." Not how it works. If you get in the car with a bunch of Stacies who wanna suck your cock, you gotta be able to do something on the drive to their hotel room besides sit in awkward silence. You need to know how normal people act.

 

[this is hell]

Social sapiency is important. Don't buy into the thinking that "If you're Chad, you could be a drooling invalid and everyone around you would fill in the social blanks." Not how it works. If you get in the car with a bunch of Stacies who wanna suck your cock, you gotta be able to do something on the drive to their hotel room besides sit in awkward silence. You need to know how normal people act.

cope. the foids will do all the talking if you are chad, you dont need to say anything there will not be an awkward silence they will do everything

 

[seija]

No, women and foids have shitty excuses.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

That’s part of the reason which is caused by being ugly

 

[FrothySolutions]

cope. the foids will do all the talking if you are chad, you dont need to say anything there will not be an awkward silence they will do everything

So let's say I was Chad. I'm sitting at home thinking "Gee, I'd like to slay, how do I do it? Where do I go?" I can't just walk up to strangers and say "Hey, have sex with me."

 

[EcuntR]

That’s part of the reason which is caused by being ugly

I agree, but honestly I always saw ugly Mexicans and black guys with blondes back in school and yet they where always the popular/bullies kids. I think having a social life is really important

 

[StaroRavager]

I’d say being an outcast is a symptom of being an incel but it certainly makes things much harder when you face rejection and scorn everywhere you go rather than simply being ignored

 

[this is hell]

So let's say I was Chad. I'm sitting at home thinking "Gee, I'd like to slay, how do I do it? Where do I go?" I can't just walk up to strangers and say "Hey, have sex with me."

tinder you absolute fucking retard. how do you have 3000 posts on this forum and yet you dont pay attention to any of the hundreds of blackpill experiments that have been done and articles? maybe stop posting so much and learn to fucking read.

 

[ihaveno1]

Shit genetics are main reason why u have no friends but chad can go on tinder and have no friends and get foids to do all the talking and beg for his cock, seen it happen so many times in chadfish experiments posted here

 

[FrothySolutions]

tinder you absolute fucking retard. how do you have 3000 posts on this forum and yet you dont pay attention to any of the hundreds of blackpill experiments that have been done and articles? maybe stop posting so much and learn to fucking read.

So let's say I go on Tinder. I get a match. She doesn't even wait for me to talk, she initiates with a "Heyyyyyyy." What do I say?

As far as I can tell, there are no experiments where the Chadfish is a drooling invalid. Where the Chadfish has absolutely jack shit to say. Has no idea how to function socially.

 

[RopeIsMyLove]

Cope.
Socialmaxxing doesn't work. You aren't incel, because you don't have friends, you're incel that's why you don't have friends.
I used to cope with socialmaxxing. I tried to fit in to groups that I will never fit in. My every social experience came down to just that somebody wanted something from me - money etc. They never really liked me. You will know this when you go alone for a while.

 

[BlackpilledTruecel]

if we were female or chad that wouldnt matter one bit.

 

[KingOfRome]

Cope.
Socialmaxxing doesn't work. You aren't incel, because you don't have friends, you're incel that's why you don't have friends.
I used to cope with socialmaxxing. I tried to fit in to groups that I will never fit in. My every social experience came down to just that somebody wanted something from me - money etc. They never really liked me. You will know this when you go alone for a while.

This 100%

Failo effect of being ugly is massive.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I agree, but honestly I always saw ugly Mexicans and black guys with blondes back in school and yet they where always the popular/bullies kids. I think having a social life is really important

were the blondes good looking?

 

[Blackpincel]

Hahaha, bullshit.

I say this as someone who WITNESSED friendless Chads who were "new kids" at School or College but still got swarmed by pussy, foids approached them out of curiosity (and interest). Meanwhile, if you are ugly, they give zero fucks about you and don't want to know about your life at all (they assume you are a friendless loser automatically).

 

[Michael15651]

It's a contributing factor.

 

[bkdreamkb]

With the internet we have a infinite web of social networking - tinder, instagram, facebook, etc. Theoretically that should be on our side when the task is about finding a partner (according to this theory).
But women, due to their hypergamous nature, are naturally focusing on the top % of chads in that new online web of social circles. The problem it's not that we are out of this social system, but that everyone is in it - including us and chad.

 

[EcuntR]

were the blondes good looking?

Fairly average, not what I would call ugly. Some where really hot.

 

[zangano1]

Im always been a social outcast, i had 2 friends in school but dont have any friends now in university. Bur if I was good looking I would probably have friends and even if I didnt I probably still would be able to have a girlfriend . I think social life and friends change your probability of having a girlfriend only if you are a normie or low tier normie, but if you are truecel its over either way

 

[heroinfather]

Sorry to break it to you buddy, but your being an outcast is caused by what made you incel in the first.

 

[EcuntR]

Sorry to break it to you buddy, but your being an outcast is caused by what made you incel in the first.

My personality?

 

[Mainländer]

False. If you're sub4 you'll most likely keep being an incel even with tons of friends.

 

[Mystic]

False. If you're sub4 you'll most likely keep being an incel even with tons of friends.

 

[michael2222]

Looks, status (social), and money

If you have any of those 3 in abundance, your golden. You will always have a GF.

A below average looking incel with allot of friends does not exist. Because below average looking men cannot be a part of a large influential social circle. It's impossible. There's no such thing as a Chad with low social status. Chad's are adored from a very young age. They are hyper confident with loads of men and foids hanging onto their coattails.

A below average looking incel with no social life who is also NEET has no chance in hell with a foid. He fails at all 3 major areas of attraction. Looks, status, money.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

Social sapiency is important. Don't buy into the thinking that "If you're Chad, you could be a drooling invalid and everyone around you would fill in the social blanks." Not how it works. If you get in the car with a bunch of Stacies who wanna suck your cock, you gotta be able to do something on the drive to their hotel room besides sit in awkward silence. You need to know how normal people act.

Yeah, but its only partly true. Better looking people are perceived as having better social skills, even if they're worse than the average. It takes a lot of exposure for a good-looking guy to be "outed" as being socially autistic, because not only is he perceived as having good social skills, he is also given a lot more chances when he does inevitably step on social landmines. It's the same exact situation where the Chad guy is just seen as a better person, in general, than a average/ugly guy.

 

[Deleted member 17599]

This is 100% accurate. The NTpill is the pill that has destroyed me the most.

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

Degenerate friends. "Look for woman your age"

 

[RopeMaXXer]

False. If you're sub4 you'll most likely keep being an incel even with tons of friends.

This is 100% accurate. The NTpill is the pill that has destroyed me the most.

if we were female or chad that wouldnt matter one bit.

That’s part of the reason which is caused by being ugly

All of these are correct, including OP. Most of this forum thinks these are mutually exclusive viewpoints though

 

[FrothySolutions]

Yeah, but its only partly true. Better looking people are perceived as having better social skills, even if they're worse than the average. It takes a lot of exposure for a good-looking guy to be "outed" as being socially autistic, because not only is he perceived as having good social skills, he is also given a lot more chances when he does inevitably step on social landmines. It's the same exact situation where the Chad guy is just seen as a better person, in general, than a average/ugly guy.

I'm not saying that's not true, looking good is important, but looking good while not knowing how to function, that's still bad.

This isn't a question of "If I weren't socially retarded, could I escape inceldom despite being ugly?" This is a question of "Does my social retardation contribute to my inceldom?" It does. Being physically attractive is good, but only half the battle if you don't know how to interact with a person.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

Fairly average, not what I would call ugly. Some where really hot.

i have seen some with black guys but idk about any other non whites

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I was rejected causing me to have no social circle. Question is, why was I rejected? Oh yeah, because I'm ugly and socially retarded. This then becomes self perpetuating.

 

[oldcel75]

Chad does not need any social circle. All he needs to do is to go to a bar and to sit there 10 minutes. He will get his pussy for the night. They will come to him.

 

[neet]

Chad does not need any social circle. All he needs to do is to go to a bar and to sit there 10 minutes. He will get his pussy for the night. They will come to him.

No. I have been to a lot of bars ans also a chad needs a social circle or you should be VERY social and connect easy to other people. Most incels never had any, that is making the difference.
Look, if you have an imposant stature and be very social and extravert it is much easier than when you are an introvert by nature.