I disagree.
An incel is an "involuntary celibate", right? What is a "celibate"? Someone who does not have a long term sexual relationship with a woman. So, ok, you can go to an escorts and still be "celibate" and therefore incel. But if you have an arranged marriage, you are no longer celibate. So you cannot be an incel according to the definition. Whether or not the foid "lusts" for you is irrelevant to the definition of celibacy and therefore to that of an incel. If you pass up the opportunity to have an arranged marriage, then it means you voluntarily choose to remain celibate. You are a volcel.
I think it is time we incels realize that foids will not lust for us. Foids will lust only for alphas, ie. Chads, in our current cultural setup. It has always been like that and it will stay like that as long as the DNA of mankind does not dramatically change. If you truly want to fuck, you have to accept that it will be with foids that DO NOT LUST FOR YOU. Get over it.