everyone who is not exceptional in some way is boring, not very attractive, not very wealthy, not very high status, not very connected, etc
the whole point of women being strangely hard to reach and elusive is to keep those boring guys from ever interacting with them
people on here are astoundingly, shockingly optimistic about how intact the social web still is out there. they think they just need to stop being a NEET and maybe get a surgery to raise their looks up to 6/10 or so and they're set, despite being a 25 year old friendless virgin or thereabouts
meanwhile in the real world women have completely cut out everything from their lives that doesn't put them around nice-looking, successful, well-adjusted men who curate a social circle that keeps losers out specifically to make it attractive and welcoming to women
women don't even hang out with family that much anymore for fucks sake, how many family get togethers or parties thrown by distant cousins have I been to, where all of the young women completely DODGED the occasion let alone even showed up so they could reject me.