Experiment Are "no approaches/no rejections" better than having a history of "approaches/rejections" for mental state and confidence?

[mänline]

The last Hamudi video inspired me to this.

 

[Deleted member 19546]

It’s better to get rejected and know for sure you never had a chance than to linger in “what ifs”. And then there is the possibility that you do not get rejected.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

It’s honestly much worse to get rejected when approaching. It will fuck you up mentally and make you take extreme actions. I already know it’s over so I don’t bother approaching. Why do something when you know the result?

 

[Deleted member 27249]

If you've never approached you can't ever be certain you're an incel

 

[Deleted member 25707]

Probably not. I have several failed rejections it really doesn't affect your confidence after one or two approaches everyone should atleast have 10 face to face rejections before giving up

Edit: Autocorrect

 

[mänline]

Bump for more votes.

 

[Deleted member 20195]

You cannot truly prove you're incel untill you experience the rejection.

 

[Deleted member 26032]

It’s honestly much worse to get rejected when approaching. It will fuck you up mentally and make you take extreme actions. I already know it’s over so I don’t bother approaching. Why do something when you know the result?

Approaching can only apply to tall fakecels, because they're the only ones who might have a chance.

 

[Deleted member 22999]

Rejections are soul crushing tbh I try to avoid them so I dont put myself out there much. Tried twice and both obliterated me

 

[Deleted member 27159]

Approaching can only apply to tall fakecels, because they're the only ones who might have a chance.

Yeah if you have truecel qualities like being short sub6 face and Indian it’s already over. No need to approach

 

[Personalityinkwell]

they're dissapointing but at least I tried

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

Getting rejected stings, badly. Especially if you have never been accepted before.

Obviously, you can't know you'r incel until you try, but rejections hurt on another level man.

My mental health got absolutely destroyed back in 2016 when I was on Tinder and asking girls out in clubs or seeing if the girls I knew in classes wanted to hang outside of class.

I was only able to recover after I quit trying and distanced myself from those terrible experiences.

 

[dirtykombatcel]

Try or not, you'll still get screwed over. I always tried with whoever I was into, always got rejected.