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Reading through the threads it seems that besides the extreme ugliness that renders them unable to have any success, they are actually able to socialize with people and women or atleast know how it works as in doing the first steps.
I LITERALLY don't know how to even get there, I rot in my room after work and have been doing so for like 10 years now. Even if I wanted a landwhale I would LITERALLY not know how to even get there.
Damn, I really envy non-autistic incels who have the energy and courage to actually do stuff.
I am in some ways a boomer in tech crap as I also have no fucking clue how online dating works and never had the motivation to try.

I swear to the Gods, even as a child/youth it was a deep mystery to me how girls and boys become a couple and infact it still is. It's quantum physics for me.
 
I wish, seems a few here are maybe normie high standardcels though.
 
Reading through the threads it seems that besides the extreme ugliness that renders them unable to have any success, they are actually able to socialize with people and women or atleast know how it works as in doing the first steps.
I LITERALLY don't know how to even get there, I rot in my room after work and have been doing so for like 10 years now. Even if I wanted a landwhale I would LITERALLY not know how to even get there.
Damn, I really envy non-autistic incels who have the energy and courage to actually do stuff.
I am in some ways a boomer in tech crap as I also have no fucking clue how online dating works and never had the motivation to try.

I swear to the Gods, even as a child/youth it was a deep mystery to me how girls and boys become a couple and infact it still is. It's quantum physics for me.
I have high functioning Autism and social anxiety. And even when i try to socialise online, or in videogames, i come off as awkward and sometimes creepy. I also sound a lot younger than i actually am, so most of the time i'm treated like a kid or told to shut up. Sounding like an autistic and socially awkward kid is obviously not good when trying to talk to women in an online videogame. That and all their beta orbiters come in and purposely embarrass me infront of her. Just to make it even harder to talk to people.
 
Looks can easily over come not being nt ngl
 
I have high functioning Autism and social anxiety. And even when i try to socialise online, or in videogames, i come off as awkward and sometimes creepy. I also sound a lot younger than i actually am, so most of the time i'm treated like a kid or told to shut up. Sounding like an autistic and socially awkward kid is obviously not good when trying to talk to women in an online videogame. That and all their beta orbiters come in and purposely embarrass me infront of her. Just to make it even harder to talk to people.
I usually only socialize in areas where I only write and I am viewed as a good writer but I am very awkward and extremely anxious. I could never even write to a girl online.
 
i can act somewhat nt when talking with male coworkers but other than that im socially retarded.
 
I'd kill (in Minecraft) to be NT.
 
95% of incel autism is not having anything to talk about with normies and not finding their shitty jokes funny.
 
I am a certefied autist
 
Autism is a death sentence for the vast majority of men.
 
I am an Autist who hasn't had a friend in 6 years
 
I usually only socialize in areas where I only write and I am viewed as a good writer but I am very awkward and extremely anxious. I could never even write to a girl online.
Not just writing but voice chatting in online games (or on Discord). It's very awkward for me to do. Especially since i also have a hard time saying what i really mean, or want to say. So i can never articulate myself to flirt with a girl, or even talk to her really without embarrassing myself. Mix that with social isolation since roughly 6th grade. And you get me as the outcome
 
Yes, most incels just have mental illness because they are ugly because they get treated like shit by everyone.
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Yes, most incels just have mental illness because they are ugly because they get treated like shit by everyone.
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This extreme example does not do justice to those without such disfigurements.
Some people are mentally ill without being too ugly.
 
I've never taken autism test but I'm pretty sure I'm one and have very low iq.
 
This extreme example does not do justice to those without such disfigurements.
Some people are mentally ill without being too ugly.
Mental health greatly improves when you improve someone's looks.
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0901502715000557
The cannot say scale, depression scale, and hysteria scale decreased significantly after surgery. A comparison of MMPI scores among the groups showed the depression scale in the class III group to be higher than those in the class I and II groups; there was no significant difference between the asymmetry and symmetry groups. In conclusion, orthognathic surgery has a positive influence on the psychological status of patients with jaw deformities, especially patients with skeletal class III malocclusion.
 
Okay, still is not the "wonder healer" of depression or inborn mental issues. Are you really arguing that there are no average or above average people with severe psychological problems?
No, I'm just saying that the majority of people here don't have genetic mental illness and that the majority here are just mentally ill because they are ugly.
 
Okay, still is not the "wonder healer" of depression or inborn mental issues. Are you really arguing that there are no average or above average people with severe psychological problems?
He is right.
Okay, still is not the "wonder healer" of depression or inborn mental issues. Are you really arguing that there are no average or above average people with severe psychological problems?
He is right.
 
I am a neurotypical person.
 
I could say I'm NT-ish, I can socialize normally, and although I always come off as being a little weird, people get used to it after a while.
 
i struggle with socializing even with family.
 
I'm terrible with socializing but I learned to mimic normies so I just pretend to be one of them when I need to, most of the time I don't care and I'm just my autistic self
 
I think i’m alright at socializing , At least half of the time
 
Being NT = faking your personality to please others.
 
All my life I've struggled to socialise with ppl & never knew why; choosing to spend all my time indoors. Only going out if I have to. Got a diagnosis this year & the verdict was Asperger's which explains all this shit, disliking eye contact, not knowing what to talk about with ppl beyond hello, how are you & something to do with whatever task is at hand. Anxiety around others, simple tasks like going shopping or dealing with clerks induces anxiety that requires psyching myself up to deal with, having a hard time telling sarcasm (veiled insult) from directness (fucked as UK ppl are known for being hyper sarcastic at times), overly invested in just a few specific topics while having little to no interest in most things, don't care about the usual drivel talk such as holidays, job, whatever crap is current news story, normie shows, sportsball.

Finding talking in groups confusing as hell compared to small groups; the multiple conversations blend into one that makes it hard to shut all others out bar one, frustration at normies tendency to change subject every 1-2 minutes, not knowing when to instinctively "merge" into conversation leading to either the moment passing or someone talking at same time so I get "cutoff". Taking longer than others to "get it fully" when something subtle or between the lines is said, can't relate to others due to such different life experiences. Useless at multi tasking leading to getting overwhelmed & confused when expected to, don't understand the enjoyment or point of competing when there's no prize for winning, don't brag as what's the point & ppl are waiting to see you fail to throw it in your face. Neutral expression & seen as too serious but then seen as weird if joking around. Terrible at leading a conversation or keeping one going then if it's something I can actually waffle on about that's the keyword, waffle. Told I broadcast in that case rather than communicate, taking far too many words to get the point across as if I'm giving a scientific research paper in verbal form.
 
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Well I can't. But it's being my own undoing in the making. I used to be socialmaxxed as fuck when I was a child. But then my dirty fucking immigrant family moved to the better world and fucked up my whole life.
 
Well I can't. But it's being my own undoing in the making. I used to be socialmaxxed as fuck when I was a child. But then my dirty fucking immigrant family moved to the better world and fucked up my whole life.
Jfl @ migrant parents thinking they're benefiting their kids moving from their culture to somewhere else where they don't fit in, are unwanted, don't know who the fuck they are as they're between worlds, now have a harder time getting a woman due to higher standards & have to live in a flat share with other men due to low income & fucked skyhigh rental rates & now probably live in a socially cutoff "utopia" where ppl interact with their phone more than another human being & cope with alcohol & drug abuse. Hahaha we may be able to have all these fun gadgets but we lack something the third world has, spiritual well being through being connected to our community as opposed to strangers in an ocean of humans.

The mind is occupied but the heart is empty.
 
Jfl @ migrant parents thinking they're benefiting their kids moving from their culture to somewhere else where they don't fit in, are unwanted, don't know who the fuck they are as they're between worlds, now have a harder time getting a woman due to higher standards & have to live in a flat share with other men due to low income & fucked skyhigh rental rates & now probably live in a socially cutoff "utopia" where ppl interact with their phone more than another human being & cope with alcohol & drug abuse. Hahaha we may be able to have all these fun gadgets but we lack something the third world has, spiritual well being through being connected to our community as opposed to strangers in an ocean of humans.

The mind is occupied but the heart is empty.

They didn't simply move me. They deceived me. They fucking legit kidnapped me. They told me I am going on 'holiday'. Lmao they didnt let me return back.
 
They didn't simply move me. They deceived me. They fucking legit kidnapped me. They told me I am going on 'holiday'. Lmao they didnt let me return back.

Where are u from and which country did they take you to?
 
Reading through the threads it seems that besides the extreme ugliness that renders them unable to have any success, they are actually able to socialize with people and women or atleast know how it works as in doing the first steps.
I LITERALLY don't know how to even get there, I rot in my room after work and have been doing so for like 10 years now. Even if I wanted a landwhale I would LITERALLY not know how to even get there.
Damn, I really envy non-autistic incels who have the energy and courage to actually do stuff.
I am in some ways a boomer in tech crap as I also have no fucking clue how online dating works and never had the motivation to try.

I swear to the Gods, even as a child/youth it was a deep mystery to me how girls and boys become a couple and infact it still is. It's quantum physics for me.

You ever watch a movie and out of nowhere - complete left field - two characters start making out and undressing each other?

I look at that and it's like I'm trying to decipher alien hieroglyphs.
 
I'm terrible with socializing but I learned to mimic normies so I just pretend to be one of them when I need to, most of the time I don't care and I'm just my autistic self
I always thought I was good at "mimicing" but something gives it away and people usually treated me differently so I just gave up

All my life I've struggled to socialise with ppl & never knew why; choosing to spend all my time indoors. Only going out if I have to. Got a diagnosis this year & the verdict was Asperger's which explains all this shit, disliking eye contact, not knowing what to talk about with ppl beyond hello, how are you & something to do with whatever task is at hand. Anxiety around others, simple tasks like going shopping or dealing with clerks induces anxiety that requires psyching myself up to deal with, having a hard time telling sarcasm (veiled insult) from directness (fucked as UK ppl are known for being hyper sarcastic at times), overly invested in just a few specific topics while having little to no interest in most things, don't care about the usual drivel talk such as holidays, job, whatever crap is current news story, normie shows, sportsball.

Finding talking in groups confusing as hell compared to small groups; the multiple conversations blend into one that makes it hard to shut all others out bar one, frustration at normies tendency to change subject every 1-2 minutes, not knowing when to instinctively "merge" into conversation leading to either the moment passing or someone talking at same time so I get "cutoff". Taking longer than others to "get it fully" when something subtle or between the lines is said, can't relate to others due to such different life experiences. Useless at multi tasking leading to getting overwhelmed & confused when expected to, don't understand the enjoyment or point of competing when there's no prize for winning, don't brag as what's the point & ppl are waiting to see you fail to throw it in your face. Neutral expression & seen as too serious but then seen as weird if joking around. Terrible at leading a conversation or keeping one going then if it's something I can actually waffle on about that's the keyword, waffle. Told I broadcast in that case rather than communicate, taking far too many words to get the point across as if I'm giving a scientific research paper in verbal form.
I used to socialize alot in my teens and early 20s but gave up after realizing how fake it was and that nobody actually ever liked me, not to mention that no girl ever was in my near.
I also have alot of hard time socializing on minimal factors like when to say hello, how or if to give a handshake, eyecontact o just things that normies have in their bllod is a struggle for me so everything I used to do to socialize felt artificial and forced, which explains why I never got any friends in the long run. After years of isolation and giving up these things just got worse.
Ohh, ofcourse my hand-eye coordination is bad so I never was good at any sports which was another big minus for socialization. Thanks God.
Your points are very similiar to mine btw.
 
I’m an aspie and a non-Chad so foids treat me like a murderer or something.
 
Im not actually an autist

Im just a loser and have nothing in common with normies hence cant talk to them about anything

I can do small talk though but I tend to avoid it altogether since people sooner or later are gonna get sus that you're a loser with no life cause your basically boring
 
I always thought I was good at "mimicing" but something gives it away and people usually treated me differently so I just gave up


I used to socialize alot in my teens and early 20s but gave up after realizing how fake it was and that nobody actually ever liked me, not to mention that no girl ever was in my near.
I also have alot of hard time socializing on minimal factors like when to say hello, how or if to give a handshake, eyecontact o just things that normies have in their bllod is a struggle for me so everything I used to do to socialize felt artificial and forced, which explains why I never got any friends in the long run. After years of isolation and giving up these things just got worse.
Ohh, ofcourse my hand-eye coordination is bad so I never was good at any sports which was another big minus for socialization. Thanks God.
Your points are very similiar to mine btw.
I do play volleyball at a low level but feel like a lack of coordination fucks me up big time in terms of timing & actually hitting the mark without scuffing it, infuriates me to see others make it look effortless. I like the minimal chitchat during the game, don't really know what to talk about after.
 
I always thought I was good at "mimicing" but something gives it away and people usually treated me differently so I just gave up
I don't really care about what people think of me so I don't do it all the time, but there are situations where it can come in handy or you just need to appear normal. I apply the same principle I use when buying a gift for someone, I could pick something elegant and refined but people won't like it, so I go into a store and choose whatever I find to be tacky and ugly and they usually really like it :feelskek: :feelskek: I project the image I have of them, which is not a positive one, and they seem to accept that vulgar persona way more than my refined self.
 

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