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Are failed normies/nearcels becoming more common? Are some normies closer to incels than we think?

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Just in my experience ive spoken to alot of failed normies. From psych ward to rehab to min wage jobs. Maybe thats selection bias, and these people are not incels by any means, but have no "real" succes in life like i always assumed normies to have. Not dating, money or status. Male loneliness epidemic is real and worldwide, with incels only being patient zero. I dont think being normie is all that its made out to be for a subset of people. In some ways, its a rough existence.
 
They've been common for a long time. Normies naturally try to sell themselves as having perfect lives.

My IT job was a glowing example of this. Most of the men I worked with were married, had Facebook profiles showing a happy family... and many of them would eventually talk about their dead bedrooms, divorce plans, and damn near all of them were unhappy with their situations using work as an escape. Granted, these were mostly ugly men like me, but that's the majority around us.
 
They've been common for a long time. Normies naturally try to sell themselves as having perfect lives.

My IT job was a glowing example of this. Most of the men I worked with were married, had Facebook profiles showing a happy family... and many of them would eventually talk about their dead bedrooms, divorce plans, and damn near all of them were unhappy with their situations using work as an escape. Granted, these were mostly ugly men like me, but that's the majority around us.
True, when i was 17 i first started trying to meet people, Almost always a little older, and sometimes quite a lot older. Was sometimes shocked at just how bad and cope things were. Sometimes only difference is us being khhv and very subhuman/ND.
 
Consequence of unchecked hypergamy unfortunately
 
Most younger gen LTNs struggle with foids
 
As soon as AI women become on the market at an affordable price I can see corporations firing women from jobs to have low key revenge on them and needing to get with men again just for food.

We only simp and put out devilishly optimistic talking points for virtue signaling. Hoping to get laid and look performatively nice for foids.

Its more human to rationalize thing post hoc that make us the victims, and demonize blacks/jews/ neanderthals.
 
Yes, and it is a good thing. They are joining the incel class struggle.
 
They've been common for a long time. Normies naturally try to sell themselves as having perfect lives.

My IT job was a glowing example of this. Most of the men I worked with were married, had Facebook profiles showing a happy family... and many of them would eventually talk about their dead bedrooms, divorce plans, and damn near all of them were unhappy with their situations using work as an escape. Granted, these were mostly ugly men like me, but that's the majority around us.

Were you soycial with coworkers at shitty, dead end beginner jobs? I never saw the point in talking to people that have nothing lucrative to offer me.
 
Just in my experience ive spoken to alot of failed normies. From psych ward to rehab to min wage jobs. Maybe thats selection bias, and these people are not incels by any means, but have no "real" succes in life like i always assumed normies to have. Not dating, money or status. Male loneliness epidemic is real and worldwide, with incels only being patient zero. I dont think being normie is all that its made out to be for a subset of people. In some ways, its a rough existence.
Failed normies still have more opportunities than the average incel. There is room for improvement.

Failed normies can never be true incels, and nearcels is another stupid pseudo term. There is no inbetween. You either have a chance or you get nothing.
 
They've been common for a long time. Normies naturally try to sell themselves as having perfect lives.

My IT job was a glowing example of this. Most of the men I worked with were married, had Facebook profiles showing a happy family... and many of them would eventually talk about their dead bedrooms, divorce plans, and damn near all of them were unhappy with their situations using work as an escape.
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Granted, these were mostly ugly men like me, but that's the majority around us.
I would have to see them myself to grant it. My point of view is that "in theory" they can always get out and try again with someone else, they did it once they can do it again. Unless you yourself are a potential fakecel or selling yourself short :feelswhere:

Bonafide incels cant even get deep enough to betabux for foids from first world countries.
 
I don't think so. Regular men have sex regularly. Only the ones with no social skills and no teen/young adult relationships are the closer ones to be incels(ugly,short) but majority don't have to pay for sex.
 

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