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Solocel

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I know some of this has been discussed before, but I am looking at this issue from multiple perspectives, and I hope to bring a new light to this topic.

First of all, my understanding of what an incel truly is derives from the literal definition of the word. An incel is someone who can not participate in sexual intercourse despite their desire to do so. The reason why incels can not have sex stems from external factors, such as their looks or general societal expectations.

Some of these external factors could be more niche issues. While not the main cause of inceldom in the way that something like looks are, these factors could certainly play a role in someone’s struggles. For example, factors such as location or economic status.

Now let me bring up these two factors as they relate to escortmaxxing. If we assume that escortmaxxing does not count towards losing the incel status, we must assume that it is something that can be replicated by each and every incel (after all, if this was true every incel would do it in a heartbeat). But that is simply not the case. Why? Much like losing your virginity through legal social means (without paying), I consider escortmaxxing to be something that is limited to a select group of advantaged individuals. If escortmaxxing can not be achieved by everyone who fits into this “incel blanket statement” is it really an activity that can relate to the condition in the first place, a condition all about getting to have sex?

After all, incels are people who can not get any sex at all due to external factors, they are considered to be a disadvantaged population by definition. There are certainly people out there who live in the middle of nowhere in small rural communities far from any escorts. There are certainly people out there who are too poor to pay for sex, or are simply too paranoid about getting caught. I’ve heard of plenty of driver-license-cels who wouldn’t be able to find reliable transportation. Because there are people out there like this who do not have access to escorts, we can assume that those who escortmaxx have some sort of inherent advantage over those who do not due to external factors.

Now I’m not saying it has to do with looks, not at all. It mainly has to do with location and available resources. I’m also not saying that these people should be banned, or not allowed on the forum. They are still blackpilled and they realize they can’t get sex without paying for it. I’m just wondering if they should still be labeled as incels. What are your thoughts?
 
Yes they’re still incels. Escorts are a resource available to most incels and paid sex is only a coping mechanism. It’s not gonna fix the problem
 
Yes they’re still incels. Escorts are a resource available to most incels and paid sex is only a coping mechanism. It’s not gonna fix the problem
I know that there’s no studies to prove this, but let’s just assume that the majority of incels have the resources to pay for sex. What about the few that don’t have these resources? Are they not at a disadvantage from the others?
 
I know that there’s no studies to prove this, but let’s just assume that the majority of incels have the resources to pay for sex. What about the few that don’t have these resources? Are they not at a disadvantage from the others?
They could make it happen if they really wanted. They have the money to use a computer or phone for this website, they could save up for an escort. But say they couldn’t, the guys who can are still incels because they’re just paying for a service. The pain is still there from never having intimate desires met. Some incels are just more privileged than others. Some incels have lots of money and get to NEET while others have to wage slave full time
 
I have been escortcelling for most of my life but I want to cut it down
 
They could make it happen if they really wanted. They have the money to use a computer or phone for this website, they could save up for an escort. But say they couldn’t, the guys who can are still incels because they’re just paying for a service. The pain is still there from never having intimate desires met. Some incels are just more privileged than others. Some incels have lots of money and get to NEET while others have to wage slave full time
But some of us don’t care about intimate desires and only care about the act of sex itself. Those people would be fulfilled with escortmaxxing as it would be a way to finally alleviate those frustrations.

Also think about someone who literally lives in the middle of nowhere, least populated town in the whole country (literally imagine like a desert or something), with no means of transportation (what are they going to do, ask their parents to drive them to see an escort?). Not everyone can go and take a flight to Sin City and live the life they always wanted.
 
Yeah in reality it's just a cope but many of them still feel empty even with that.
 
My opinion is - yes.

I have never paid for sex, because prostitution is illegal in California, and I don't want soliciting a prostitute on my permanent record. If I lived in Europe, or another place where prostitution was legal, I would probably have already fucked a prostitute.

Prostitutes are basically a form of masturbation, and I know that most of those foids refuse to allow themselves to develop feelings for their clients.

That is why the term escortcel exist.
 
Yes, anyone can go to an escort. It's not the same as having a woman be genuinely interested in you.
 
Escortcels are Incels because Paid Sex in not Willing nonpay Sex.
And as you get older, it's NOT about the Sex but about being Lonely.
Youngcels - Focus on Sex
Oldcels - loneliness
 
Personally, I have a deep hatred towards any sex havers, doesn't matter if they pay a hooker or a gf, but I can understand the argumentation that escortcels are incels too, so I don't mind as long as they don't brag about having sex on here.
 

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