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I know some of this has been discussed before, but I am looking at this issue from multiple perspectives, and I hope to bring a new light to this topic.
First of all, my understanding of what an incel truly is derives from the literal definition of the word. An incel is someone who can not participate in sexual intercourse despite their desire to do so. The reason why incels can not have sex stems from external factors, such as their looks or general societal expectations.
Some of these external factors could be more niche issues. While not the main cause of inceldom in the way that something like looks are, these factors could certainly play a role in someone’s struggles. For example, factors such as location or economic status.
Now let me bring up these two factors as they relate to escortmaxxing. If we assume that escortmaxxing does not count towards losing the incel status, we must assume that it is something that can be replicated by each and every incel (after all, if this was true every incel would do it in a heartbeat). But that is simply not the case. Why? Much like losing your virginity through legal social means (without paying), I consider escortmaxxing to be something that is limited to a select group of advantaged individuals. If escortmaxxing can not be achieved by everyone who fits into this “incel blanket statement” is it really an activity that can relate to the condition in the first place, a condition all about getting to have sex?
After all, incels are people who can not get any sex at all due to external factors, they are considered to be a disadvantaged population by definition. There are certainly people out there who live in the middle of nowhere in small rural communities far from any escorts. There are certainly people out there who are too poor to pay for sex, or are simply too paranoid about getting caught. I’ve heard of plenty of driver-license-cels who wouldn’t be able to find reliable transportation. Because there are people out there like this who do not have access to escorts, we can assume that those who escortmaxx have some sort of inherent advantage over those who do not due to external factors.
Now I’m not saying it has to do with looks, not at all. It mainly has to do with location and available resources. I’m also not saying that these people should be banned, or not allowed on the forum. They are still blackpilled and they realize they can’t get sex without paying for it. I’m just wondering if they should still be labeled as incels. What are your thoughts?
First of all, my understanding of what an incel truly is derives from the literal definition of the word. An incel is someone who can not participate in sexual intercourse despite their desire to do so. The reason why incels can not have sex stems from external factors, such as their looks or general societal expectations.
Some of these external factors could be more niche issues. While not the main cause of inceldom in the way that something like looks are, these factors could certainly play a role in someone’s struggles. For example, factors such as location or economic status.
Now let me bring up these two factors as they relate to escortmaxxing. If we assume that escortmaxxing does not count towards losing the incel status, we must assume that it is something that can be replicated by each and every incel (after all, if this was true every incel would do it in a heartbeat). But that is simply not the case. Why? Much like losing your virginity through legal social means (without paying), I consider escortmaxxing to be something that is limited to a select group of advantaged individuals. If escortmaxxing can not be achieved by everyone who fits into this “incel blanket statement” is it really an activity that can relate to the condition in the first place, a condition all about getting to have sex?
After all, incels are people who can not get any sex at all due to external factors, they are considered to be a disadvantaged population by definition. There are certainly people out there who live in the middle of nowhere in small rural communities far from any escorts. There are certainly people out there who are too poor to pay for sex, or are simply too paranoid about getting caught. I’ve heard of plenty of driver-license-cels who wouldn’t be able to find reliable transportation. Because there are people out there like this who do not have access to escorts, we can assume that those who escortmaxx have some sort of inherent advantage over those who do not due to external factors.
Now I’m not saying it has to do with looks, not at all. It mainly has to do with location and available resources. I’m also not saying that these people should be banned, or not allowed on the forum. They are still blackpilled and they realize they can’t get sex without paying for it. I’m just wondering if they should still be labeled as incels. What are your thoughts?