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That's all?

If you go out together to conventions, meet ups etc...

It's all well & good posting on the Internet but what about meeting up in real life... I think that could help some of us here.

That's all.
 
Highly doubt it.

I tried to organize a meetup at one point in a major urban area and though there was some interest, eventually everyone backed out. It's understandable why.
 
Highly doubt it.

I tried to organize a meetup at one point in a major urban area and though there was some interest, eventually everyone backed out. It's understandable why.
It was a terrible idea nonetheless.
 
Highly doubt it.

I tried to organize a meetup at one point in a major urban area and though there was some interest, eventually everyone backed out. It's understandable why.

Fair enough. Understood. Thanks anyway for the response.

I don't know some sort of Comic con or gamer con people could go to etc or whatever really. Just normie nerdy stuff that people wouldn't get suspicious about if we did go to something like that but if it's been done & nothing came of it than I can see why one can leave this.
 
Any meetup would get raided anyway.
 
It was a terrible idea nonetheless.
Thanks for the constructive criticism about a situation you likely know nothing about.

Any meetup would get raided anyway.
There are ways that a moderator can vet people and thus only give information to a few people who would lose more from disclosing the details than they would gain. There are also ways to have relatively private meetups that don't jeopardize people's privacy any more than going outside does normally.
 
No but I really would .

it should be extremely private.

I would also only trust the people that are long-time posters here.

I invite you all for some icecream on me:feelsokman::)
 
TFW when you realize 75% of everyone who shows up is a mentalcel
 
id be down to meet some LAcels
 
I'd be down to meet some ukcels.
 
I wish I had friends irl.
 
I'd be down to meet some ukcels.
I think the majority of people on this forum are from the UK, just goes to show that the UK is one of the shittest places on Earth.
 
I would want to meet certain users tbh but we are too far apart
 
Lmfaoooo this is actually legit bound to happen
It already happens plenty on this forum.
Itsoveretc

Pic related.
 
I would want to meet certain users tbh but we are too far apart
already told you i will visit you one day, wether you want or not.
prepare your anus
 
Thanks for the constructive criticism about a situation you likely know nothing about.


There are ways that a moderator can vet people and thus only give information to a few people who would lose more from disclosing the details than they would gain. There are also ways to have relatively private meetups that don't jeopardize people's privacy any more than going outside does normally.
I'd homestly love to attend a meetup if it was guaranteed to be totally private and not raided.

But I cant really travel outside of my general area
 
I'd homestly love to attend a meetup if it was guaranteed to be totally private and not raided.

But I cant really travel outside of my general area
Id like to meet you NEET, I don't know why.

Meeting up with other incels is a one way ticket to guantanamo bay. They will say you are planning a insurgency and hold you indefinitely.
 
I'd homestly love to attend a meetup if it was guaranteed to be totally private and not raided.

But I cant really travel outside of my general area
what state do you live in br0?
 
I'll bet there are at least a few members in my area. I'd like to ask that you don't assume every tall White man you see is a Chad if you go ER :feelswhere:.

But seriously, I'd like to meet some people here some day and certainly would if we weren't all branded.
 
"You're the fakecel!"
"No, you're the fakecel!"
I think even mentalcels have enough social tact or at least social anxiety to not start a reverse meritocracy sperg fight in a relatively public place. It's much different talking shit to people's face than it is online.
 
I'd homestly love to attend a meetup if it was guaranteed to be totally private and not raided.

But I cant really travel outside of my general area
I suggested NYC which is well within travelling distance for me. If anyone is interested, shoot me a DM and we can see what our options are. I still have the plan and information from last time but I obviously won't reveal any details here.
 
I suggested NYC which is well within travelling distance for me. If anyone is interested, shoot me a DM and we can see what our options are. I still have the plan and information from last time but I obviously won't reveal any details here.
what type of meeting place though? like a bar or somewhere more private?
 
what type of meeting place though? like a bar or somewhere more private?
I mean it could be anywhere since nobody would know were an incel meetup
 
what type of meeting place though? like a bar or somewhere more private?
Well, I had a few options lined up earlier this year, but places like a relatively private bar with free reservations for a private floor were on the table back then. I have to gauge interest and then preferences before I can start reaching out again to the places I looked into.

My one rule for organizing this would be that everyone must be 21+. The rationale is simple:

1. I like to drink.
2. Meeting up with people is stressful especially for me as someone who would be organizing this and as a moderator. So drinking is a must for me.
3. Not to be overly discriminatory, but I'm too old to be hanging out with youngcels.
4. More legal protection if something does happen, which is extremely unlikely but is still in the back of my mind (won't be prosecuted for endangering a minor, I know the laws as far as this goes). Again, I don't mean to unnecessarily worry anyone who is considering this but as an anxietycel and the person who is potentially organizing this thing, I feel the need to ensure that nothing can go wrong.
 
Well, I had a few options lined up earlier this year, but places like a relatively private bar with free reservations for a private floor were on the table back then. I have to gauge interest and then preferences before I can start reaching out again to the places I looked into.

My one rule for organizing this would be that everyone must be 21+. The rationale is simple:

1. I like to drink.
2. Meeting up with people is stressful especially for me as someone who would be organizing this and as a moderator. So drinking is a must for me.
3. Not to be overly discriminatory, but I'm too old to be hanging out with youngcels.
4. More legal protection if something does happen, which is extremely unlikely but is still in the back of my mind (won't be prosecuted for endangering a minor, I know the laws as far as this goes). Again, I don't mean to unnecessarily worry anyone who is considering this but as an anxietycel and the person who is potentially organizing this thing, I feel the need to ensure that nothing can go wrong.
Agreed drinking is a must for my anxietys as well

Maybe you could make a thread for this to spread the word
 
Agreed drinking is a must for my anxietys as well

Maybe you could make a thread for this to spread the word
I don't think that's a good idea quite yet. I'd rather to a small gathering first to make sure my system works and then we can move on to bigger things from there. In the meantime, feel free to link any tristate or New England incels that you respect/trust to this thread (that are also members on this site).

I forgot to mention one other rule, which is that I will only accept people whose join date is early enough. I won't disclose how early so that no one gets any ideas about borrowing accounts or anything (even though I would know, it just means more work on my end). This is a security measure.
 
I don't think that's a good idea quite yet. I'd rather to a small gathering first to make sure my system works and then we can move on to bigger things from there. In the meantime, feel free to link any tristate or New England incels that you respect/trust to this thread (that are also members on this site).

I forgot to mention one other rule, which is that I will only accept people whose join date is early enough. I won't disclose how early so that no one gets any ideas about borrowing accounts or anything (even though I would know, it just means more work on my end). This is a security measure.
Maybe even overlook the early join date if the user is suspect. I'm paranoid of it being raided or trolled
 
Maybe even overlook the early join date if the user is suspect. I'm paranoid of it being raided or trolled
Oh, absolutely. The vetting will be thorough. Obviously, not going to reveal any details, but trust me in that I will make sure that absolutely everyone is comfortable with everyone else and with the meet up itself. I take this shit as seriously as cancer.

EDIT: Just listing minimum requirements. For example, a Jan/Feb meetup was in the works and I accepted no one later than Dec 1st.
 
I don´t get why anyone wouldn´t meetup, yes the people you meet will know you´re from incels.is but you don´t have to state your username.
 
I don´t get why anyone wouldn´t meetup, yes the people you meet will know you´re from incels.is but you don´t have to state your username.
That's not true. I will know everyone's username because there is no other way to properly organize this. What we won't know is each other's real names, which is much more valuable. It makes more sense to identify ourselves by pseudonyms.
 
It makes more sense to identify ourselves by pseudonyms
No it doesn´t. If I show up and say "Hi I am TheGoodGuy" then some random guy can film me and show my face with my online name and show all of my comments. If I just meetup and say my real name I am just another person but no one will know any of my history on this site.
 
I'd be down for this
 
No it doesn´t. If I show up and say "Hi I am TheGoodGuy" then some random guy can film me and show my face with my online name and show all of my comments. If I just meetup and say my real name I am just another person but no one will know any of my history on this site.
If you give your legal name then if you have any public records or social media whatsoever then your name in the wrong hands could lead to game over. I'd rather risk people knowing my face as blickpall because that is a one day affair and I don't have a social media presence with my face involved (what incel would??) than me being at an incel meetup with my legal.
 
If you give your legal name then if you have any public records or social media whatsoever then your name in the wrong hands could lead to game over. I'd rather risk people knowing my face as blickpall because that is a one day affair and I don't have a social media presence with my face involved (what incel would??) than me being at an incel meetup with my legal.
But people knowing video taping your face with the name Blickpall would imo be much more catastrophic because if that video got shared and even went viral then you´re fucked.

It seems to me that your only concern with giving your real name is that people could link you to being an incel, but that doesn´t seem to bad to me. Incel just essentially means virgin so I think it would be way worse that people knew the things I said about females, rape, murder etc. with my face linked to it (that would happen if I gave them my username) than if I just gave my real name and the ONLY thing they would know what I looked like with my name (and potentially find my facebook) but the only "bad" thing there was that my real name and face was linked to this forum which doesn´t seem bad at all.
 
I don't think that's a good idea quite yet. I'd rather to a small gathering first to make sure my system works and then we can move on to bigger things from there. In the meantime, feel free to link any tristate or New England incels that you respect/trust to this thread (that are also members on this site).

I forgot to mention one other rule, which is that I will only accept people whose join date is early enough. I won't disclose how early so that no one gets any ideas about borrowing accounts or anything (even though I would know, it just means more work on my end). This is a security measure.
id be down to fly from LA to NY for this
 
But people knowing video taping your face with the name Blickpall would imo be much more catastrophic because if that video got shared and even went viral then you´re fucked.

It seems to me that your only concern with giving your real name is that people could link you to being an incel, but that doesn´t seem to bad to me. Incel just essentially means virgin so I think it would be way worse that people knew the things I said about females, rape, murder etc. with my face linked to it (that would happen if I gave them my username) than if I just gave my real name and the ONLY thing they would know what I looked like with my name (and potentially find my facebook) but the only "bad" thing there was that my real name and face was linked to this forum which doesn´t seem bad at all.

Aliases could be altered without having to introduce legal names. TheGoodGuy -> Horace Sample
 
Aliases could be altered without having to introduce legal names. TheGoodGuy -> Horace Sample
I'm fine with being called NEET tbh
 
But people knowing video taping your face with the name Blickpall would imo be much more catastrophic because if that video got shared and even went viral then you´re fucked.

It seems to me that your only concern with giving your real name is that people could link you to being an incel, but that doesn´t seem to bad to me. Incel just essentially means virgin so I think it would be way worse that people knew the things I said about females, rape, murder etc. with my face linked to it (that would happen if I gave them my username) than if I just gave my real name and the ONLY thing they would know what I looked like with my name (and potentially find my facebook) but the only "bad" thing there was that my real name and face was linked to this forum which doesn´t seem bad at all.
First and foremost, recording devices of any sort would obviously be not allowed, and I have already determined how this can be plausibly achieved. So video of this event would never happen.

I don't think you are looking at the bigger picture here. My name is tied to legal documents, research findings, college stipends, and plenty of other public records. My life and career depends on my relative anonymity or at least plausible deniability.

What you seem to be ignoring is that the incel label, in the mind of the public, carries a far worse connotation than just virgin. It is tied to ER, AM, and has been vilified extensively in the public eye. Any connection between my legal name and my presence on this forum would be catastrophic for me, and I feel that this is the case for many individuals on this site.

The connection between my face and my username on this site is much less of a liability. What is the worst that could happen that doesn't already happen on a daily basis? People spreading rumors about me? People talking shit about me? Couldn't care less. I imagine that given the assumed risk of such a meet up, ANYONE who goes to such an event is much more willing to give up their incels.is username (and be given untraceable ways to return into the fold if they feel otherwise, because I can arrange for that) than they are to have their name AND face tied to the incel label.
 

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