Venting Anyone who had sex as a teenager literally can't complain about anything nor would I ever take them serious.

[zekr]

I have 0 respect for anyone who complains about anything despite having had sex during their teenage years. This is worth hundreds of thousands of dollars if not millions to those that did not experience this. Even a homeless person that experienced teenage love has less to complain about despite being on the street because they can recall to a time when they were at least sexually validated. That should be enough for them to "pick themselves up by the bootstraps". I have had 0 positive reinforcement my entire life and my brain and body are a gray ball of mush sitting here while typing this. I would never complain about anything if I had been properly socialized during my child and adolescent years. Ofc this applies to anyone having sex at any age but anyone who had a teenage sexual experience in particular... What more is there to say?

 

[Deleted member 36910]

I have had 0 positive reinforcement my entire life

 

[ineedassistance]

Duh

 

[Deleted member 40379]

I mean if you legit live everyday to be sexually validated than thats your own shitty problem that you stuck up your head lol who gives a shit about people that have sex?

 

[zekr]

I mean if you legit live everyday to be sexually validated than thats your own shitty problem that you stuck up your head lol who gives a shit about people that have sex?

I don't. But to not have ever been? That's another story.

 

[JestER]

I have no respect for sexhavers in general, that includes escort"cels"

 

[Deleted member 34301]

It's true, that slight difference can make or break your ego

Losing your virginity is much more about self confidence and seeing yourself as a worthy human more than anything else

 

[ineedassistance]

I mean if you legit live everyday to be sexually validated than thats your own shitty problem that you stuck up your head lol who gives a shit about people that have sex?

I don't. But to not have ever been? That's another story.

Wait wait wait. We obviously care I mean we wouldn't be here.

I have no respect for sexhavers in general, that includes escort"cels"

I don't understand. Why would you give in to the system? Thank you.

 

[WØLF]

I mean if you legit live everyday to be sexually validated than thats your own shitty problem that you stuck up your head lol who gives a shit about people that have sex?

 

[Deleted member 40379]

Wait wait wait. We obviously care I mean we wouldn't be here.

I don't understand. Why would you give in to the system? Thank you.

Im only here because i cant date a woman because im a ugly fuck.. I dont really go on with my day being frustrated with not having sex lol good way to kill yourself

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Let me continue my story:

The protagonist of our story is a man named "Aspie John" and involves a woman named "Anxious Jane".

Aspie John meets Anxious Jane in "High School".

Anxious Jane is in Special Ed for severe anxiety, and so is Aspie John. Aspie John and Anxious Jane appear to have some mutual attraction at times, given Anxious Jane would always make the same "anxious" hand-fiddling gestures as Aspie John and would wear a shirt with his favorite color: "Blue". When Aspie John dropped a stack of homework sheets on one occasion, Anxious Jane wrote a "message" for him on her sheet the very next day.

Anxious Jane, however, always manages to next to the tallest kid in the room, which is odd given he sits alone in an otherwise empty row of desks. When Tall Kid helps the teacher pick up classroom litter, Anxious Jane suddenly bolts up and quickly joins them. Aspie John remains seated due to anxiety. After some time, Tall Kid starts to sit with other kids in the classroom, leaving Anxious Jane sitting alone each day. He sits across from Aspie John.

Three years later...

It's worth noting that Aspie John was often very "jittery" while at school. His classmates, after the class switch from Anxious Jane, would whisper and laugh at his use of blue stress balls. A certain boy openly said, during discussion time, that Aspie John "acts like a short girl". This boy also would tell Aspie John to "go over to another desk" and say "Tch" when Aspie John would stand in line for class activities. Class girls would insult him for playing Jenga alone.

Aspie John and Anxious Jane are in different Special Ed classrooms. Anxious Jane speaks of wanting to be in a "relationship" with Aspie John. There is a catch, however: Anxious Jane regularly wears ponytails and make-up for the Tall Kid in her new classroom. She would flirt with this man in class(Which frustrated her teacher) and would also chat with him over text and social media, all while sometimes making friendly gestures towards Aspie John in passing through the hallway.

On a certain occasion, though, Aspie John encounters Anxious Jane in a hospital lab waiting room. Anxious Jane makes "romantic" gestures towards Aspie John. Aspie John, being a very coy man, is reluctant to approach Anxious Jane. As he prepares to approach her, he recalls her heavy flirtation with Tall Kid in her new classroom. He also remembers hearing her teacher say, "Why is Anxious Jane flirting with Tall Kid? She already has a boyfriend."

He then decides to ignore her and covers himself with a hoodie.

A few days later, Aspie John overhears a teacher speaking of himself and Anxious Jane - "He's so sensitive! Oh my goodness! They were just joking!" - Note that this is after months of flirting and closeness between Anxious Jane and Tall Kid. Shortly after that, Anxious Jane flirts with Tall Kid in her classroom, telling him "P-Please don't call my phone number".

 

[Deleted member 39786]

I have no respect for sexhavers in general, that includes escort"cels"

 

[Loner94]

Yep they have no room to talk .

 

[ThinTinyDickCel]

I agree. Almost any problem pales in comparison to living a sexless life.

 

[PolskiKartofel]

Święta prawda, however this problem gather us here

 

[Deleted member 39864]

It's true, that slight difference can make or break your ego

Losing your virginity is much more about self confidence and seeing yourself as a worthy human more than anything else

 

[Edmund_Kemper]

high iq

 

[Deleted member 39755]

depends what you mean by "teenage years"

there is a big difference between rawdogging a 13 year old stacy and paying for condom sex with a 19 year old escort

 

[zekr]

depends what you mean by "teenage years"

there is a big difference between rawdogging a 13 year old stacy and paying for condom sex with a 19 year old escort

Stop being willfully ignorant.

 

[Genetic Error]

fucking brutal man. you can improve urself. but u can never rewind time to get teen love again...

 

[GhostedPhantom]

I agree, the teenagelovepill is brutal. With inceldom becoming more prevalent with time (especially in countries which aren't completely westernized yet) and cutecels seeming more attractive before adulthood, there are some incels who have had some validation in their teenage years but have no hope for the future, which puts them somewhere in the gray area between trucel and sexhaver.

Having no hope is a serious issue by itself but still, I guess the point of this thread is that there's a good reason this rule exists:

Do not discuss or request personal romantic or sexual experiences, even if they happened long ago. Discussion of paid sex is allowed (...)

(Well, I would say that a romantic experience that happened recently makes someone a sexhaver, but that's another topic)