You're unfortunately going to be upset when you find out that lookism
indeed exists in the church community.
I joined a christian church in 2016. It was full of older couples, a few younger
couples, most were single men and incel, and a few women. It was just as
difficult as outside of it.
I then joined the mormon church in 2019. It was again full of incel men,
couples. Mormon missionaries only want to marry other missionaries.
This is something they don't tell you. The other women in the church
are rarely single, and if they are quickly talk to a good looking guy.
I then visited the twelve tribes cult. I had no luck with online dating,
no luck with other churches, no luck with women in life, and even there
found lookism.
Cope-maxers will say to sea-max, church-max etc but at the end of
the day, lookism is in every community in the west.
I left the mormon church after i tried to make conversation with
a older female, and she gave me a rude response.