Some years ago I used to visit a small forum for non-NT people like me. Basically a lot of people with political opinions different from the norm. Usually they had other unpopular opinions as well, which made for an interesting reading. We were around 30 active members, and as you can have guessed, all male except for one female.
Over time I identified a pattern. Around three quarters of the members were dysfunctional people in some way: recurring depression, instability in life, difficulty holding a job. The remaining quarter were roughly functional. But I did not understand at the time what made people functional or not functional, for sometimes they shared the exact same set of opinions. You had, for instance, dysfunctional white nationalists and functional white nationalists.
It's only years later that I understood what was hidden behind these patterns.
Basically, the dysfunctional had a common trait I did not see as very important at the time: sustained involuntary celibacy, up to the present moment or in a past period of their life. A lot were virgins.
The functional either had girlfriends at the present moment, or had fully enjoyed a satisfying LTR not too long ago and had the ability to get one relatively easily if they so chose.
Another pattern I've noticed is that dysfunction was also positively correlated with atheism. The most Christian members were slightly more functional overall. The correlation was not as strong as with inceldom, though.
It has now become clear to me that sustained involuntary celibacy/complete inability to cause desire in the opposite sex is more frequent in men than women, and that it causes clinical depression over time, unless a sufficient belief in an afterlife counteracts the process.
I now understand why more men than women kill themselves, become NEET or become alcoholic and homeless. I now understand why so many men latch on to delusions and obvious absurdities like TRP/PUA. They just don't want to admit the party is over. I now understand a lot more things that didn't make sense when I was young.
My view of the world has become darker and I have acquired a new respect for civilization and religion, which were undeniably effective barriers against the damaging side effects of human sexuality.
Now, a bluepilled person reading this may ask: "are you sure inceldom causes depression, and not the reverse?"
Yes, I'm pretty sure. Because one member of the dysfunctional group escaped inceldom at some point after a lucky internet meet-up. He became euphoric and quickly became neurotypical again. He denounced most of his previous political ideas and displayed an optimism I had never seen in him before.
Only one data point, yes ; but what a strange coincidence.
Over time I identified a pattern. Around three quarters of the members were dysfunctional people in some way: recurring depression, instability in life, difficulty holding a job. The remaining quarter were roughly functional. But I did not understand at the time what made people functional or not functional, for sometimes they shared the exact same set of opinions. You had, for instance, dysfunctional white nationalists and functional white nationalists.
It's only years later that I understood what was hidden behind these patterns.
Basically, the dysfunctional had a common trait I did not see as very important at the time: sustained involuntary celibacy, up to the present moment or in a past period of their life. A lot were virgins.
The functional either had girlfriends at the present moment, or had fully enjoyed a satisfying LTR not too long ago and had the ability to get one relatively easily if they so chose.
Another pattern I've noticed is that dysfunction was also positively correlated with atheism. The most Christian members were slightly more functional overall. The correlation was not as strong as with inceldom, though.
It has now become clear to me that sustained involuntary celibacy/complete inability to cause desire in the opposite sex is more frequent in men than women, and that it causes clinical depression over time, unless a sufficient belief in an afterlife counteracts the process.
I now understand why more men than women kill themselves, become NEET or become alcoholic and homeless. I now understand why so many men latch on to delusions and obvious absurdities like TRP/PUA. They just don't want to admit the party is over. I now understand a lot more things that didn't make sense when I was young.
My view of the world has become darker and I have acquired a new respect for civilization and religion, which were undeniably effective barriers against the damaging side effects of human sexuality.
Now, a bluepilled person reading this may ask: "are you sure inceldom causes depression, and not the reverse?"
Yes, I'm pretty sure. Because one member of the dysfunctional group escaped inceldom at some point after a lucky internet meet-up. He became euphoric and quickly became neurotypical again. He denounced most of his previous political ideas and displayed an optimism I had never seen in him before.
Only one data point, yes ; but what a strange coincidence.
