LDAR Anyone observe and analyze more than interact?

[AutistSupremacist]

A sort of eye for watching others but never purusing or having the skills or appearance necessary to interact with them.

I did it alot in hs. I once developed a crush on this girl and was too shy and ugly to bother approaching so I'd just watch her, usually returning every now and then to see what she was up to and sort of created this ideal version of her. If I am to remember any attempt of interaction, it was probably once where I held the door for her and heard her say "thank you" , another where I kind of just stared at her and she stared back but no words were exchanged. I wish I could've dated her.. I sometimes see her shopping at work accompanied by her father so I guess it's just them. Idk why I'm thinking of her all of a sudden. Maybe the loneliness is too much.

In a way, imagining ones attributes and traits is better than experiencing them for yourself as they spare you the awful feeling of rejection or stagnant relations.

 

[Firefighter]

I kind of just stared at her and she stared back

she wanted to fuck you
fakecel volcel

 

[anon65]

she wanted to fuck you
fakecel volcel

Joined: Feb 14, 2026

 

[Belowthesalt]

Yes I would do the same whenever I saw an attractive girl in hs I would find ways to stare without her noticing, that felt like me having a connection with a girl.

 

[AutistSupremacist]

she wanted to fuck you

I wish

 

[Morbilius]

Yeah I was definitely the weird kid who would be really quiet and observe everyone like I was watching a nature documentary

 

[Pancakecel]

I really get the feeling that you use shyness and muh autism, as an excuse to never try and ask a foid out. You have traits that many here would love to have, and yet you choose to be here.

 

[AutistSupremacist]

I really get the feeling that you use shyness and muh autism, as an excuse to never try and ask a foid out. You have traits that many here would love to have, and yet you choose to be here.

I've already told the story about what happened when I tried asking someone out. Also what's with you and egyptcel hating me all of a sudden? And so what if I have traits that others want? That's like saying you're not an incel cause you're white and have jbw.

 

[Pancakecel]

I've already told the story about what happened when I tried asking someone out. Also what's with you and egyptcel hating me all of a sudden? And so what if I have traits that others want? That's like saying you're not an incel cause you're white and have jbw.

Mine isn't sudden, I've always had my suspicions. I'll have a look through some of your threads again in a bit, then I can come to a better conclusion maybe.

 

[Grodd]

Yeah i definitely observe more than interact .

 

[AutismKing]

Yeah, that is a problem really about being ND.

I really get the feeling that you use shyness and muh autism, as an excuse to never try and ask a foid out. You have traits that many here would love to have, and yet you choose to be here.

Brutal. But I understand what you are saying...
Dont think I would be hearing this from an incel forum: "try and ask a foid out". Is it because ND doesnt matter and looks are everything? I disagree but also makes sense to try asking one out as you said to see what happens and if one can ascend (if you arent truecel)

 

[Animecel2D]

 

[Extern]

I really get the feeling that you use shyness and muh autism, as an excuse to never try and ask a foid out. You have traits that many here would love to have, and yet you choose to be here.

He's 19, super common at that age. Will probably ascend within a year or two

 

[AutistSupremacist]

He's 19, super common at that age. Will probably ascend within a year or two

 

[retardfuel30]

Niggers

 

[TooSomething]

Eh, there is nothing to observe.