Experiment Anyone here had good upbringing/puberty and still ended up being incel?

[Unwanted]

By this I mean:

- Was getting good nutrition, vitamins, supplements
- Had enough rest, was sleeping enough
- Was being physically active, was doing some sport
- Had a healthy social life in childhood and experienced social validation

Is it possible that you had all of that and still ended up being incel? Is inceldom caused purely by genes or you could've changed it all with a better upbringing?

I'm kinda sad that it could all have been potentially better If I had a proper upbringing, I kinda believe that all of those things I mentioned above are even more important than genes and that if we had it we wouldn't be incels today.

 

[Anger]

Lol no my puberty was total shite

 

[Deleted member 12256]

By this I mean:

- Was getting good nutrition, vitamins, supplements
- Had enough rest, was sleeping enough
- Was being physically active, was doing some sport
- Had a healthy social life in childhood and experienced social validation

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I was getting all that(mind the supplements) i guess had a healthy life for the most part
I was stressed because of school but i slept a lot
I was doing some sports but not like nowdays, i wasn't fit though
Nope, had social life till the beggining of middle school then i was the nerdy outcast nobody wanted to have as friend, stayed short and turned ugly while others moved on. Was getting worst by year watching other progress.

 

[Ignas]

My puberty years:

-Almost never drink milk as I often get nausea due to depression and drinking it makes me want to vomit
-Staying up late very often
-Never do any sport cause other sport guys bully me

 

[WhyMe?]

None of that matters nearly as much as genes

Twins I different environments look the same

Faces don’t change that much due to environment, stop coping

You’d maybe be an inch taller at most

 

[everythingislava]

I honestly couldn't have wished for better parents so in that sense I had a great upbringing. Me deciding not to care about sleeping well, being lazy and antisocial is something only I am to blame for.

 

[The Abyss]

None of them, didn't have a tickbox in anything good like those.

 

[Limerencel]

I had a terrible childhood.

 

[itsmemario]

My puberty years:

-Almost never drink milk as I often get nausea due to depression and drinking it makes me want to vomit
-Staying up late very often
-Never do any sport cause other sport guys bully me

milk is pioson

 

[Solitarian_Walker]

Lol no my puberty was total shite

milk is pioson

Explain.

 

[itsmemario]

Me:
Parents good
Aside from my face i got a good healthy body
Good childhood until puberty.
After that i got bullyed and isolated, startet to watch anime and skip on any social acts.
Only friends were girls i know from childhood who used as a beta orbiter white knight.
After the red&black i stopped being friends with them but sometimes i socialise with some chads from my workplace and the gym.

 

[Ignas]

milk is pioson

But I could overcome manletism today if I consumed milk at that time

 

[Frottbott]

I don't like talking about these subjects I suppose that's enough of an answer.

 

[itsmemario]

Explain.

Can trigger acne and most of us have enough of that already, most people (70%) have some leve of lactose intolerance, milk sugar is also bad for you, not to mention the hormons and the anti biotics.

But I could overcome manletism today if I consumed milk at that time

I don't think so.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

I had a great upbringing but I'm ugly so I ended up incel.

 

[FaceandHFD]

Had all those

 

[Deleted member 5861]

So many incels say their childhood was great. My entire life i was the biggest social loser in the world.

 

[acnescarcel]

yeah i had a good life until about 18

 

[Figthcel]

I got into social isolation at 11. Became a nerd then.

 

[Mainländer]

Childhood (before 10) was decent tbh. Puberty was utter hell.

 

[Haywire]

some okay, some bad.

 

[Getlooksordie]

nope, was bullied mercilessly by kids at an early age. It never got better and got worse every year.

 

[Blue Squirtle]

Little bit, during puberty years I never drank soda only tea, worked out, ate really healthy mostly seafood and salad all homemade, but resulted in me being a framecel, at least im the tallest one in my family.