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Anyone here constantly told "you have a great personality"?

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I am sick and tired of it. My friend tells me that all the time. He knows how much i hate it. Some female friends tell me I am not ugly but i doubt they are being truthful. The best thing i can do for myself is to thrive for success. All you lonely fucks out there, dont give up on your dreams!
 
Nope but I've been told I have no personality. :cryfeels:
 
I get it all the time
 
no because i don't have friends
 
that would be an insult to me if a foid said it. its codeword for "your ugly", same thing when they say you're "cute" as well.
 
that would be an insult to me if a foid said it. its codeword for "your ugly", same thing when they say you're "cute" as well.
They dont want to be the villains lol.
 
I get told that quite a lot actually.
 
Kek no

I get told I have pretty eyes though.
 
All the time
But one of closest friends said "W, you have a timid bitch personality. Man up!" She is brutally honest.
 
No. I get told all the time about how shy I am and that I should talk more.
 
I was often told that I am very helpful and sympathetic. Unfortunately, women are still disgusted by me.
 
I don't have female friends, but I've gotten the "you have a great personality" line from female coworkers who barely know me.
 
I have, it enrages me. If you're not paying me or sucking my dick, then I don't care.
 
Same here dude. It's just code for "if it weren't for your personality, nobody would like you."
 
Yes all the time. They often proceed to say "any girl would be lucky to have you"
 
No, the world has molded me into the personality I have in order to not rope, if I was still my old self I'd have roped by now
 
I get told i'm very polite lmao
 
All the time. Just yesterday I was told I'm "funny and pleasant to be around". My biggest oneitis ever told me children love me because I'm a nice guy.
 
No
Im the absolute "average guy" in the sense that i dont even have a personality to begin with.
Only thing i get is "you are strange" and thats it
 
Only if they can compare the eye pic with a pre-existing pic online, there are no good pics of me online.
I don't have any photos online i guess.
 
I never get told this tbh
 
I have been told that I'm a "great listener" but I don't think I really am, I'm just not glued to my phone like most people are when talking to each other.
 
No one tells me much of anything, they avoid me
 
They turned it into a shitty co-op TPS game... fucking cunts. At least the story wasn't fucked up completely.
Fun Fact: it was originally supposed to be a co-op game but the technology wasnt around for Dead Space 1 and 2. Lucky us huh?
 
nope. I usually am told that i'm an asshole and look like a crack-head. at best i'm called weird.
 
I have been told that I'm a "great listener" but I don't think I really am, I'm just not glued to my phone like most people are when talking to each other.
Well you can always strive to be a good listener. I like making people feel wanted for some reason. I like asking them if they are okay, if they are alright, etc. I realized that when someone opens up to you that you shouldn't criticize on what they did. They want someone to tell them that they dint fuck up. Validation. I know its against the "i tell it like it is" trope but people really dont like hearing it like it is. Empathy is the one characteristic i value the most. Good luck mate.
 
Well you can always strive to be a good listener. I like making people feel wanted for some reason. I like asking them if they are okay, if they are alright, etc. I realized that when someone opens up to you that you shouldn't criticize on what they did. They want someone to tell them that they dint fuck up. Validation. I know its against the "i tell it like it is" trope but people really dont like hearing it like it is. Empathy is the one characteristic i value the most. Good luck mate.
I agree with you, and I think that one of the reasons I have been calling a good listener is because I tend to ask people about how they are or their projects, but if I have to be completly honest its also in part because I'm a boring person, so its easier for me to ask others about what they are doing. Its not like I don't care, but I would be lying if I said that it isn't easier for me to let others do the talking.
Also I think my post maybe sounded a little demeaning, but I'm not really critizing anyone who had said that to me, I appreciate any compliment, but I just feel like what I do is just show basic respect.
 

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