Serious Anyone friendless incels here ever wonder if they’d still feel lonely even if they had a good group of friends?

[Deleted member 101]

I often think I would. Especially if I was the only single one in the group. ESPECIALLY if I was the only kissless virgin of the group.

I still feel like I’d me missing something if I only had friends. Like it would be a step towards conquering my loneliness but it would be completely solved.

Like I feel like there’s things relationships can (well should, but I guess women’s nature makes that invalid) provide that friendship cannot, and not just sex.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

Having friendships is basically having copes on steroids. Still way better than having to rot alone every weekend.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

Having friendships is basically having copes on steroids. Still way better than having to rot alone every weekend.

 

[Sheogorath]

If I have IRL friends I risk being even more sad if one of them gets in a relationship because then I'll have what I'm missing thrown in my face, and probably develope crush on the GF and ruin the friendship unless he is a true hero and shares her and we become hole bros (no homo)

 

[Of Manlets and Men]

Friends would have to be other single guys, preferably incels. If your "friends" have girlfriends then the foids will be "creeped out" by you and demand that you be kicked out of the friend circle. I know because it happened to me.

 

[Deleted member 23656]

Failing sucks.
Seeing your friends succeed while you fail is even worse

 

[NearlyOver]

I used to have a small group of "friends." They'd invite me out to dinners, over their houses for holidays... It actually felt worse than being alone because I got to see how normal people live. I was never unhappy for them, but it made me feel ... like rotten eggs. And, of course, you have to deal with all the frequent physical intimacy, the stories... I could pretend to be normal only so long. Besides, with my appearance, they knew that I wasn't one of them. But I was good at my job so they tolerated me. Like a trained circus bear.

Now I prefer being alone and lonely. At least I don't have to keep watching the stark contrast between my life and others' lives.

 

[Purveyoroftruth]

I often think I would. Especially if I was the only single one in the group. ESPECIALLY if I was the only kissless virgin of the group.

I still feel like I’d me missing something if I only had friends. Like it would be a step towards conquering my loneliness but it would be completely solved.

Like I feel like there’s things relationships can (well should, but I guess women’s nature makes that invalid) provide that friendship cannot, and not just sex.

I’m the only kissless virgin 99 percent of the time

 

[Joker]

My coworkers used to invite me out to gatherings a few years back.
I realized back then that even when surrounded by people I still didn't feel happy, feel wanted, or involved.
I ironically felt better alone in my room
That's when I realized it was over for me socially.
These days now, I just rot alone in my room.
It's not a better life per say, but it's easier, and more comfortable, familiar.

 

[Deleted member 17724]

I don't see the point of having real-life friends as an incel. We're lonely because we lack female intimacy, spending time with male friends can't fix that.

 

[The Incel Decade]

I've got a long term group of friends and it's good to catch up with them but a man with a girlfriend or wife will rarely ever have time for you and it's only on their terms.

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Idc about friends, most people are brain dead and would ignore me.

 

[FinnCel]

Of course you will feel lonely because no girlfriend

 

[Excluded]

I feel alone still because I can't speak my mind. They just wouldn't understand me

 

[GeneticFilth]

Friends would have to be other single guys, preferably incels. If your "friends" have girlfriends then the foids will be "creeped out" by you and demand that you be kicked out of the friend circle. I know because it happened to me.

Yeah, once everyone started getting laid and having relationships it became over. Most social interaction also just goes to sex and relationships, and things that involve sex and relationships e.g. parties because sex and relationships are the most important thing in life. There's also the horn effect that ugly males have to deal with, where when you socialize it's you just defending yourself constantly because everyone hates ugly people.

 

[deathsh+rt]

Having no friends is like floating on a piece of drift wood in the middle of the ocean and not seeing any land in sight.

 

[Ragin'Asian]

Having friendships is basically having copes on steroids. Still way better than having to rot alone every weekend.

Your best friends will also be incel or at least closer to incel than not.

Having no friends is like floating on a piece of drift wood in the middle of the ocean and not seeing any land in sight.

 

[Slav_weebcel]

I've been chilling with a company of random people around one tabletop game, got to know them eventually and we were somewhat friends.
Honestly, having friends has 0 benefits and doesn't do shit when it comes to solving inceldom. So I actually went to play for the game itself, and people there didn't matter at best.
That's why foids can't really be friends with someone, but will fuck chad and have a horde of orbiters-because chad is there for coom, and orbiters for money, validation, hepling with fixing or moving something and etc.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Friends would have to be other single guys, preferably incels. If your "friends" have girlfriends then the foids will be "creeped out" by you and demand that you be kicked out of the friend circle. I know because it happened to me.

Yup, brutal friendpill

 

[modern_grendel]

I often think I would. Especially if I was the only single one in the group. ESPECIALLY if I was the only kissless virgin of the group.

I still feel like I’d me missing something if I only had friends. Like it would be a step towards conquering my loneliness but it would be completely solved.

Like I feel like there’s things relationships can (well should, but I guess women’s nature makes that invalid) provide that friendship cannot, and not just sex.

I am much happier since I ditched my 'friends.' I'm not a big fan of getting lifemogged and teased for my lack of success with women.

 

[HonkHonkHonk]

I can't stand 95% of men and foids don't go near me.
Well since I'm INTP I don't require much social stimulation. The little I get from the Internet is more than enough.

 

[wasted12years]

I'm too autistic to be friends with normies and too normie to be friends with autists.

I'm also INTP like the poster above so i prefer to be alone.

 

[HonkHonkHonk]

I'm also INTP like the poster above so i prefer to be alone.

tbh. If I actually ever managed to get a foid I would want her gone within a week.
I get like legit headaches if I spend too much time with either normies or autists.
Being stuck in this limbo sucks but its also pleasant in a way.