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Incel communities have always been filled with depressed dudes who hate the world and everything in it; that I can fully understand; I've been one myself. [Although in recent years I have "grown up", I'm still no big friend of the world or the Homo Sapiens species. I am actually in favor of a non-violent transition from Homo Sapiens 1.0 to Homo Sapiens 2.0 driven by technology such as AI, neural implants and genetic engineering. ]

Writing a topic only to get "COPE" in response is expected, and sometimes quite amusing.

However, the negativity in there can sometimes become toxic; like fumes of bad air. And I am starting to dislike (even though I understand them) excessively negativistic dudes.

First and foremost because they are actually cowards. Instead of going to the gun shop and going on a rampage themselves, they spend their entire year posting propaganda on an internet message board in the hope that someone else will fuck up his life and his soul by going on a rampage.

Of course it doesn't work, because only severely mentally ill dudes actually go on rampages, and none of them was inspired by rampage propaganda read on the internet; they arrived to the decision all by themselves. So please stop posting your bullshit: it doesn't convince anyone who isn't already convinced, like all lowbrow political propaganda.

As to coping: what's wrong with coping? Incels obsessed with "cope" are tantamount to a subgroup of animals who can't breathe underwater like everyone else in their species, but choose to stay in the water instead of breathing on the ground because abandoning the water would be "coping". Evolution is about coping. Jews and other immigrants fleeing their backwards lands to go find opportunity in other countries: that's a cope. But it was a damn effective cope. The United States of America were built by a group of marginalized losers fleeing across the ocean. There's nothing wrong with "coping". In the same way, incels must abandon the "land of sex" to seek pleasure, happiness and self-esteem elsewhere.
 
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Because it's an easy way to add another post to the post count, that's why having the colour/star/post count system was a mistake.
 
As to coping: what's wrong with coping? Incels obsessed with "cope"

There is nothing wrong with coping. But some copes are pathetic and need to be called out. Vidya gym are all ok copes. But denying reality so you feel better is when people call you out. No one says 'cope' over anime, because its acceptable. Saying cucked Christianity is the way forward for a incel is 'cope' though for example.
 
I agree with you Fontaine, but maybe I'm not the best example of a depressed person. I live rather successfully outside of women and relationships.

I don't understand the overly negative people. There is 100% justification for being negative regarding women, relationships, feminism, society etc. We all suffer from this. But when I see shit like people hating their parents unjustly (people bitch at me for saying I love my parents JFL), it just confuses me. You can't live your life 100% negative about everything or you will end up ERing or KSGing.

As for people saying cope, see the below answer:
Because it's an easy way to add another post to the post count, that's why having the colour/star/post count system was a mistake.
 
There is nothing wrong with coping. But some copes are pathetic and need to be called out. Vidya gym are all ok copes. But denying reality so you feel better is when people call you out. No one says 'cope' over anime, because its acceptable. Saying cucked Christianity is the way forward for a incel is 'cope'.
What do you think are "pathetic" copes? Quote examples.

As to Christianity, I think there are good principles in Christian philosophy or history (eg: the figure of the learned priest/abbot like Gregor Mendel or George Lemaitre which has proved you can find happiness and self-esteem outside material pleasure and status) that you can recognize without adhering to the globality of the religion. I am not a Christian myself.
 
Incel communities have always been filled with depressed dudes who hate the world and everything in it; that I can fully understand; I've been one myself. [Although in recent years I have "grown up", I'm still no big friend of the world or the Homo Sapiens species. I am actually in favor of a non-violent transition from Homo Sapiens 1.0 to Homo Sapiens 2.0 driven by technology such as AI, neural implants and genetic engineering. ]

Writing a topic only to get "COPE" in response is expected, and sometimes quite amusing.

However, the negativity in there can sometimes become toxic; like fumes of bad air. And I am starting to dislike (even though I understand them) excessively negativistic dudes.

First and foremost because they are actually cowards. Instead of going to the gun shop and going on a rampage themselves, they spend their entire year posting propaganda on an internet message board in the hope that someone else will fuck up his life and his soul by going on a rampage.

Of course it doesn't work, because only severely mentally ill dudes actually go on rampages, and none of them was inspired by rampage propaganda read on the internet; they arrived to the decision all by themselves. So please stop posting your bullshit: it doesn't convince anyone who isn't already convinced, like all lowbrow political propaganda.

As to coping: what's wrong with coping? Incels obsessed with "cope" are tantamount to a subgroup of animals who can't breathe underwater like everyone else in their species, but choose to stay in the water instead of breathing on the ground because abandoning the water would be "coping". Evolution is about coping. Jews and other immigrants fleeing their backwards lands to go find opportunity in other countries: that's a cope. But it was a damn effective cope. The United States of America were built by a group of marginalized losers fleeing across the ocean. There's nothing wrong with "coping". In the same way, incels must abandon the "land of sex" to seek pleasure, happiness and self-esteem elsewhere.

This. I've said this for some time now.
I agree with you Fontaine, but maybe I'm not the best example of a depressed person. I live rather successfully outside of women and relationships.

I don't understand the overly negative people. There is 100% justification for being negative regarding women, relationships, feminism, society etc. We all suffer from this. But when I see shit like people hating their parents unjustly (people bitch at me for saying I love my parents JFL), it just confuses me. You can't live your life 100% negative about everything or you will end up ERing or KSGing.

As for people saying cope, see the below answer:

Yep. This too.
 
Because it's an easy way to add another post to the post count, that's why having the colour/star/post count system was a mistake.

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This. I've said this for some time now.


Yep. This too.
COPE
What do you think are "pathetic" copes? Quote examples.

As to Christianity, I think there are good principles in Christian philosophy or history (eg: the figure of the learned priest/abbot like Gregor Mendel or George Lemaitre which has proved you can find happiness and self-esteem outside material pleasure and status) that you can recognize without adhering to the globality of the religion. I am not a Christian myself.
COPE
 
What do you think are "pathetic" copes? Quote examples.

As to Christianity, I think there are good principles in Christian philosophy or history (eg: the figure of the learned priest/abbot like Gregor Mendel or George Lemaitre which has proved you can find happiness and self-esteem outside material pleasure and status) that you can recognize without adhering to the globality of the religion. I am not a Christian myself.

But then you are only taking a very small aspect of Christianity about finding happiness, so its ok. Convincing yourself that women aren't all whores and have just been led astray is cope. Which is why I think the alt-right is pathetic. Anything about 'traditional values' is mega cope for ugly men.
 
Yeah, it seems stupid that they call out any attempt at self-improvement "COPE".

You aren't truly incel until you try to ascend.
 
JFL @ complaining about "cope." Its just a meme.
 
Incel communities have always been filled with depressed dudes who hate the world and everything in it; that I can fully understand; I've been one myself. [Although in recent years I have "grown up", I'm still no big friend of the world or the Homo Sapiens species. I am actually in favor of a non-violent transition from Homo Sapiens 1.0 to Homo Sapiens 2.0 driven by technology such as AI, neural implants and genetic engineering. ]

Writing a topic only to get "COPE" in response is expected, and sometimes quite amusing.

However, the negativity in there can sometimes become toxic; like fumes of bad air. And I am starting to dislike (even though I understand them) excessively negativistic dudes.

First and foremost because they are actually cowards. Instead of going to the gun shop and going on a rampage themselves, they spend their entire year posting propaganda on an internet message board in the hope that someone else will fuck up his life and his soul by going on a rampage.

Of course it doesn't work, because only severely mentally ill dudes actually go on rampages, and none of them was inspired by rampage propaganda read on the internet; they arrived to the decision all by themselves. So please stop posting your bullshit: it doesn't convince anyone who isn't already convinced, like all lowbrow political propaganda.

As to coping: what's wrong with coping? Incels obsessed with "cope" are tantamount to a subgroup of animals who can't breathe underwater like everyone else in their species, but choose to stay in the water instead of breathing on the ground because abandoning the water would be "coping". Evolution is about coping. Jews and other immigrants fleeing their backwards lands to go find opportunity in other countries: that's a cope. But it was a damn effective cope. The United States of America were built by a group of marginalized losers fleeing across the ocean. There's nothing wrong with "coping". In the same way, incels must abandon the "land of sex" to seek pleasure, happiness and self-esteem elsewhere.

High IQ post.
 
It is such a concise, quick-to-the-point and useful word; I love it.

By the way, can you stop throwing little snippets of Jewish propaganda in every one of your threads? Your thread started out very good until:

Jews and other immigrants fleeing their backwards lands to go find opportunity in other countries: that's a cope. But it was a damn effective cope. The United States of America were built by a group of marginalized losers fleeing across the ocean.


Spare us the Jewish history lesson.
 
I agree with you Fontaine, but maybe I'm not the best example of a depressed person. I live rather successfully outside of women and relationships.

I don't understand the overly negative people. There is 100% justification for being negative regarding women, relationships, feminism, society etc. We all suffer from this. But when I see shit like people hating their parents unjustly (people bitch at me for saying I love my parents JFL), it just confuses me. You can't live your life 100% negative about everything or you will end up ERing or KSGing.

As for people saying cope, see the below answer:

, member: 1551"]In the same way, incels must abandon the "land of sex" to seek pleasure, happiness and self-esteem elsewhere.[/QUOTE]

Vote for ban


Also : https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/ Seems to be the right place for you.
There you get your dogg cokies for being an good ugly male that contributes to society like a fucking slave
 
Incel communities have always been filled with depressed dudes who hate the world and everything in it; that I can fully understand; I've been one myself. [Although in recent years I have "grown up", I'm still no big friend of the world or the Homo Sapiens species. I am actually in favor of a non-violent transition from Homo Sapiens 1.0 to Homo Sapiens 2.0 driven by technology such as AI, neural implants and genetic engineering. ]

Writing a topic only to get "COPE" in response is expected, and sometimes quite amusing.

However, the negativity in there can sometimes become toxic; like fumes of bad air. And I am starting to dislike (even though I understand them) excessively negativistic dudes.

First and foremost because they are actually cowards. Instead of going to the gun shop and going on a rampage themselves, they spend their entire year posting propaganda on an internet message board in the hope that someone else will fuck up his life and his soul by going on a rampage.

Of course it doesn't work, because only severely mentally ill dudes actually go on rampages, and none of them was inspired by rampage propaganda read on the internet; they arrived to the decision all by themselves. So please stop posting your bullshit: it doesn't convince anyone who isn't already convinced, like all lowbrow political propaganda.

As to coping: what's wrong with coping? Incels obsessed with "cope" are tantamount to a subgroup of animals who can't breathe underwater like everyone else in their species, but choose to stay in the water instead of breathing on the ground because abandoning the water would be "coping". Evolution is about coping. Jews and other immigrants fleeing their backwards lands to go find opportunity in other countries: that's a cope. But it was a damn effective cope. The United States of America were built by a group of marginalized losers fleeing across the ocean. There's nothing wrong with "coping". In the same way, incels must abandon the "land of sex" to seek pleasure, happiness and self-esteem elsewhere.
Cope. Just go ER.
 
, member: 1551"]In the same way, incels must abandon the "land of sex" to seek pleasure, happiness and self-esteem elsewhere.

Vote for ban


Also : https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/ Seems to be the right place for you.
There you get your dogg cokies for being an good ugly male that contributes to society like a fucking slave
JFL If you think I want sympathy from those fags. I sometimes post there to shitstir, and sometimes to call them out, and sometimes to be ironic, but never with serious intent like I do here. I often go there for "intellectual conquests" as well, kind of like when someone goes to the Amazon to watch a tribe of people.

I don't do that shit to contribute, I do it so I can survive. Being a NEET would be awesome, but I can't. My parents did not allow it, and America does not give out free welfare unless you're a poor nigger. I bought a house at 22 and can buy almost anything I want from "contribution" (IE getting paid).

I'm posting this from work right now so "contributing" isn't that bad.

I don't see the point of giving up. Most people who give up here are like 19 years old or less. Oldcels can give up, but every time I see someone acting like a depressed cunt then talk about their first day of college in the same month, I laugh at them.
 
eg: the figure of the learned priest/abbot like Gregor Mendel or George Lemaitre which has proved you can find happiness and self-esteem outside material pleasure and status
They were happy because they 100% believed in their Christianity cope.
 
You can look at most anything as cope if you want to. It has become another word that has no meaning.

Going ER? I think when it's brought as a serious suggestion it has validity, but maybe that's because I personally value ER'ing so much.
 
Always Cope. Going ER is not a solution....We all suffer why make others suffer too .I strongly belive we are not the ''bad'' guys whe just exaggerate things. If someone goes ER he can't be happy or feel rewarded for doing so.
 
There you get your dogg cokies for being an good ugly male that contributes to society like a fucking slave
Yeah sure, everybody should just become a mass murderer or criminal. That is clearly going to improve the situation of ugly males.

Do you even realize what you're advocating?

If we were in the Middle Ages, I could have conceded a point to you (maybe ugly men should become bandits), however we live in an age of abundance and technology. Use your imagination and I'm sure you will find more productive solutions than mass murder to the "incel problem".
They were happy because they 100% believed in their Christianity cope.
Not this again... this is false. Most educated christian clerics were not "true believers".
 
"Cope" is non-ironically the most pointless buzzword used here.
Coping means to do a specific activity or hold specific beliefs, as to relieve psychological pressure through distraction or delusion. It isn't a term for literally every single activity or thought an incel has, you retards.
 
because I personally value ER'ing so much.
I fail to see how murdering people is going to improve things.

Blacks won in the 1960s through nonviolence, not mass murder.
 
100% agree with this, the "cope" guys are often low quality trolls and the "go ER meme" is just more redflags for the medias in case of problems in the US.
100% agree with this, the "cope" guys are often low quality trolls and the "go ER meme" is just more redflags for the medias in case of problems in the US.
 
I hate the just go ER folks, but I am among the ones that call out copes. Cope is cope, I won't let copecels get away with coping in here. If you don't like reality then tough shit boyo.

"Cope" is non-ironically the most pointless buzzword used here.
Coping means to do a specific activity or hold specific beliefs, as to relieve psychological pressure through distraction or delusion. It isn't a term for literally every single activity or thought an incel has, you retards.
It's not a buzzword. Many here are coping and want to spread their cope as well. We shut it down. Calling motherfuckers out on their cope makes them angry and rightly so because we point out your cope and we force you to realize it's a cope.
 
I'm still in the hate the world and everything in it phase
 
It is such a concise, quick-to-the-point and useful word; I love it.

By the way, can you stop throwing little snippets of Jewish propaganda in every one of your threads? Your thread started out very good until:




Spare us the Jewish history lesson.
Good god blackpill 101, you have such a distinct and recognizable personality. Its so intact you cant even larp it away with your alts.
 
spamming that shit requires 0 effort
 
Evidence for this?
Well, for instance George Lemaitre did not want his Big Bang theory used by the Vatican as a piece of evidence for God. You'd think a true believer would have glady accepted its use for strengthening religion, but Lemaitre visibly worshipped science more than established religion. Pierre Teilhard de Chardin was another priest who contradicted the Vatican on several elements of faith and was actually more akin to a transhumanist (one of the first) and darwinist. In small seminaries (Christian junior high schools) you were free to be edgy if you wanted and deny the existence of God, as long as you were not too noisy about it.

There are many other such examples, however you often have to read between the lines and draw conclusions by yourself. When you read French literature (Stendhal's Le Rouge et le Noir for instance) you get this distinct feeling that becoming a cleric was first and foremost a practical choice dictated by one's nature than by true faith.
 
Don’t lump cope in with ‘just go ER’.

If we don’t call out out ppl on their sour grape type copes then we may as well be mgtows.
 
There is nothing wrong with coping. But some copes are pathetic and need to be called out. Vidya gym are all ok copes. But denying reality so you feel better is when people call you out. No one says 'cope' over anime, because its acceptable. Saying cucked Christianity is the way forward for a incel is 'cope' though for example.

Cope. Go read my thread about the collapse of civilization. I explain why religion is necessary for a functional society and happy incels
 
Don’t lump cope in with ‘just go ER’.

If we don’t call out out ppl on their sour grape type copes then we may as well be mgtows.
Coping is not necessarily sour grapes. I have accepted love and sex are not for me, but I don't deny the intrinsic value of love and sex - I just think it's a dangerous substance (handsome men have killed themselves or developed addictions over women), especially dangerous when you're not in a situation to access these pleasures optimally.
 
I’m actually tired of people that reap the benefits of chad profile pic halo more so.
Coping is not necessarily sour grapes. I have accepted love and sex are not for me, but I don't deny the intrinsic value of love and sex - I just think it's a dangerous substance (handsome men have killed themselves or developed addictions over women), especially dangerous when you're not in a situation to access these pleasures optimally.

I know that not all copes are sour grape copes, that’s why I specified. I’m a gymcel, so I know not all copes are bad.
 
I get sick of the more ridiculous parts of this community. I guess that's part of being an adult with a functioning brain though.

I'm still here mostly for the blackpills, science stuff and odd ideas that'll help me potentially ascend. I also try to pull up other guys who actually want to improve their lot in life.

I'm getting better at drowning out the "hur dur kill all bitches" people.

It reminds me - I used to be into black metal when I was younger. there was a lot of the same thing. people got into black metal to be different and then when they hung around other black metal people they STILL wanted to be different so they all pretended to be totally extreme and if you didn't want to cut someone's head off and drink their blood, suddenly you weren't really black metal at all... fuck the music, fuck the fact that none of them actually did anything, they just got obsessed with being more extreme.

this site is a lot like that. mostly alright guys who just can't get laid and have relationships, and a bunch of people who are trying to be the centre of attention constantly. like I say, I drown it out mostly
 
I am sick of them. I am one of the biggest shitposters here but at least I put some thought and originality in my posts.
 
Incel communities have always been filled with depressed dudes who hate the world and everything in it; that I can fully understand; I've been one myself. [Although in recent years I have "grown up", I'm still no big friend of the world or the Homo Sapiens species. I am actually in favor of a non-violent transition from Homo Sapiens 1.0 to Homo Sapiens 2.0 driven by technology such as AI, neural implants and genetic engineering. ]

Writing a topic only to get "COPE" in response is expected, and sometimes quite amusing.

However, the negativity in there can sometimes become toxic; like fumes of bad air. And I am starting to dislike (even though I understand them) excessively negativistic dudes.

First and foremost because they are actually cowards. Instead of going to the gun shop and going on a rampage themselves, they spend their entire year posting propaganda on an internet message board in the hope that someone else will fuck up his life and his soul by going on a rampage.

Of course it doesn't work, because only severely mentally ill dudes actually go on rampages, and none of them was inspired by rampage propaganda read on the internet; they arrived to the decision all by themselves. So please stop posting your bullshit: it doesn't convince anyone who isn't already convinced, like all lowbrow political propaganda.

As to coping: what's wrong with coping? Incels obsessed with "cope" are tantamount to a subgroup of animals who can't breathe underwater like everyone else in their species, but choose to stay in the water instead of breathing on the ground because abandoning the water would be "coping". Evolution is about coping. Jews and other immigrants fleeing their backwards lands to go find opportunity in other countries: that's a cope. But it was a damn effective cope. The United States of America were built by a group of marginalized losers fleeing across the ocean. There's nothing wrong with "coping". In the same way, incels must abandon the "land of sex" to seek pleasure, happiness and self-esteem elsewhere.
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This thread is gold lol
 
Jews and other immigrants fleeing their backwards lands to go find opportunity in other countries: that's a cope. But it was a damn effective cope.
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Yeah it's a great cope.. if you want a right wing government based Europe.
However, the negativity in there can sometimes become toxic
:feelswhere: You don't say..
 

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