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Anyone else have parents who tried to hook you up with a woman?

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My parents and my grandparents recently tried to manipulate me into believing that 2 foids were into me. During a birthday party my mother awkwardly tried to hook me up with some foid who was way out of my league and I got her number and she never responded. Similar thing happened with another foid my parents tried to hook me up with.

What bothers me more is how they manipulated me to believing that 2 attractive women would ever be into a loser like me and I spent my energy by daydreaming and wondering if it was true. I know they did it with good intentions (and probably wanting grandkids) but it hurts even more that they gave me a small little bit a hope.

Giving people false sense of hope is cruel. Anyone ever experienced something similar?
 
Nope. My grandparents are all dead and so is my father. As for my mom she doesn't know anyone around my age and is single well enough for that to ever happen.
 
Sounds awkward indeed! My parents have never ever mentioned me dating even when I was young. They knew it never began.
 
My mom tried recently but iirc the food in question had a genuine disability and couldn't drive, in a place that REQUIRES you to do that.
 
Sounds awkward indeed! My parents have never ever mentioned me dating even when I was young. They knew it never began
Oof brutal dude sorry to hear that. Well I'm sorta the same, my parents never really mention dating to me either but this happened recently and I think its because they're getting old and want grandkids. Feel like a disappointment that I didn't turn out the chad they probably wanted me to be.
 
i dont remember. im pretty sure though that my grandma tried to get me to talk to the neighbours granddaughter, but that was when i was 6. she was pretty nice to me, but she had to move to france with her parents, so she never visited again.

apart from that, i never had a family member push me to talk to a girl, probably because they are aware of my circumstances.
 
During a birthday party my mother awkwardly tried to hook me up with some foid who was way out of my league and I got her number and she never responded. Similar thing happened with another foid my parents tried to hook me up with.

Giving people false sense of hope is cruel.
What the hell is the point of this clown game? We all know how it's gonna end, so why bother with this charades? Is it a mere formality? Formality for what? A humiliation ritual?
 
What the hell is the point of this clown game? We all know how it's gonna end, so why bother with this charades? Is it a mere formality? Formality for what? A humiliation ritual?
No idea. I guess they just felt pity for me. I honestly felt bad for the foid during that time. She looked so uncomfortable and ashamed to be near me. It was so awkward and it fucking hurts to be given a crumb of hope and finding out it wasn't true. No Chad or whatever gets pity hookups from their parents. It's embarrassing and hurts more in the long run even if their intention was to be nice and help.
 
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Oof brutal dude sorry to hear that. Well I'm sorta the same, my parents never really mention dating to me either but this happened recently and I think its because they're getting old and want grandkids. Feel like a disappointment that I didn't turn out the chad they probably wanted me to be.
Do you have siblings that can give them grandkids?
 
My parents tried once but the foid was not into me at all. The foid was super rude and my Mom stopped being friends with her Mom.
 
No, are you American? Is this even a thing in the west?
 
No, are you American? Is this even a thing in the west?
Yes even E.R's father tried to hook him up with a prostitute in Vegas but denied such a request.
 
Low key wish they would help their young niggerson out, tbh.

Though my mom rants to me about how all the women around my age she works with make terrible decisions and become single mothers to hoodlums and thugs. My dad doesn't know any women around my age.
 
Yes I am and I'm not sure if it's common in the west. It might be a thing with my family.
Yes even E.R's father tried to hook him up with a prostitute in Vegas but denied such a request.

Didn’t know that. Figured it would be some sort of arranged marriage eastern thing.
 
Dad said I should go for a vacation to a neighboring country to meet someone. Don't know how that's supposed to be easier than finding someone in your own country.
 
No because my family hates my existence
 
My parents and my grandparents recently tried to manipulate me into believing that 2 foids were into me. During a birthday party my mother awkwardly tried to hook me up with some foid who was way out of my league and I got her number and she never responded. Similar thing happened with another foid my parents tried to hook me up with.

What bothers me more is how they manipulated me to believing that 2 attractive women would ever be into a loser like me and I spent my energy by daydreaming and wondering if it was true. I know they did it with good intentions (and probably wanting grandkids) but it hurts even more that they gave me a small little bit a hope.

Giving people false sense of hope is cruel. Anyone ever experienced something similar?
nope
 
My parents and my grandparents recently tried to manipulate me into believing that 2 foids were into me. During a birthday party my mother awkwardly tried to hook me up with some foid who was way out of my league and I got her number and she never responded. Similar thing happened with another foid my parents tried to hook me up with.

What bothers me more is how they manipulated me to believing that 2 attractive women would ever be into a loser like me and I spent my energy by daydreaming and wondering if it was true. I know they did it with good intentions (and probably wanting grandkids) but it hurts even more that they gave me a small little bit a hope.

Giving people false sense of hope is cruel. Anyone ever experienced something similar?
My father is a hookupcel, so he laughed when I asked him if he would introduce me to an ugly foid
 
Yes even E.R's father tried to hook him up with a prostitute in Vegas but denied such a request.
really i never knew this
 
my parents or grandparents never did such a thing
 
Dad said I should go for a vacation to a neighboring country to meet someone. Don't know how that's supposed to be easier than finding someone in your own country.
Sounds like your dad wants you to be a "passport bro" lol
 
My parents don't even care about me in the slightest
 
well im late 30s and out of desperation my bluepillcucked parents are still trying. the other day they tried hook me up with a fat public employ from the local church. lol. blue pillers never learn... .
 
My parents tried once but the foid was not into me at all. The foid was super rude and my Mom stopped being friends with her Mom.
yeah moms deserve some brutal blackpiling like that. for being solipsistic little coonts, and believing their own genetics can't produce a "nonsexhaver"... .
 
My parents and my grandparents recently tried to manipulate me into believing that 2 foids were into me. During a birthday party my mother awkwardly tried to hook me up with some foid who was way out of my league and I got her number and she never responded. Similar thing happened with another foid my parents tried to hook me up with.

What bothers me more is how they manipulated me to believing that 2 attractive women would ever be into a loser like me and I spent my energy by daydreaming and wondering if it was true. I know they did it with good intentions (and probably wanting grandkids) but it hurts even more that they gave me a small little bit a hope.

Giving people false sense of hope is cruel. Anyone ever experienced something similar?
Tf do you think I come from? A noble family? :feelshaha:
 
My parents and my grandparents recently tried to manipulate me into believing that 2 foids were into me. During a birthday party my mother awkwardly tried to hook me up with some foid who was way out of my league and I got her number and she never responded. Similar thing happened with another foid my parents tried to hook me up with.

What bothers me more is how they manipulated me to believing that 2 attractive women would ever be into a loser like me and I spent my energy by daydreaming and wondering if it was true. I know they did it with good intentions (and probably wanting grandkids) but it hurts even more that they gave me a small little bit a hope.

Giving people false sense of hope is cruel. Anyone ever experienced something similar?
It would be so good at my parents actually try to encourage me to date a woman unfortunatey no parents are like that.
 
My parents and my grandparents recently tried to manipulate me into believing that 2 foids were into me. During a birthday party my mother awkwardly tried to hook me up with some foid who was way out of my league and I got her number and she never responded. Similar thing happened with another foid my parents tried to hook me up with.

What bothers me more is how they manipulated me to believing that 2 attractive women would ever be into a loser like me and I spent my energy by daydreaming and wondering if it was true. I know they did it with good intentions (and probably wanting grandkids) but it hurts even more that they gave me a small little bit a hope.

Giving people false sense of hope is cruel. Anyone ever experienced something similar?
nah. My grandpa died when i was a baby and the other 2 i barely see them
 

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