Anyone else finding it difficult to process the fact that you will never receive any physical intimacy from a woman your whole life?

[Light Yagami]

Like I know we all know its over and we make a bunch of jokes about this but actually take a step back and think about this for a second. We will never ever in our lives receive physical intimacy from the opposite sex or hear a woman say "I love you" to us. It is crazy to think that as a kid I saw these 2 things as considered completely normal same with a vast majority of you guys. Hell, female intimacy is even a dominant theme in many stories, cementing the fact that humans collectively see romance as some necessary experience that defines our humanity. From our very childhoods, we were told that we would have loving girlfriends just like everyone else and we just blindly believed it since we saw everyone else around us with partners. We thought our time would come but it never did and even now, it sounds a little bit crazy that I will live for many years without experiencing something I thought was normal in my childhood. My expectations for life have been completely shattered due to my experiences and being forced to accept truths that did not align with ideas you grew up with is a major mindfuck. A mindfuck that I am still dealing with that messes up many aspects of my life. We have been psychologically tortured and lied to by society.

 

[daydreamER]

Yes. I have a daily moment where this thought hits me and fills me with deep sadness. I will be honest, I have not fully processed this reality. There is a part of me that thinks it will happen, I don't know if it will ever truly sink in that I will never have it. Maybe when I am on the verge of my death I will have fully accepted it.

 

[Light Yagami]

Yes. I have a daily moment where this thought hits me and fills me with deep sadness. I will be honest, I have not fully processed this reality. There is a part of me that thinks it will happen, I don't know if it will ever truly sink in that I will never have it. Maybe when I am on the verge of my death I will have fully accepted it.

Im interested in hearing what the wizardcels have to say about this

 

[daydreamER]

Im interested in hearing the wizardcels' takes

@unique_freak @wereq @SlayerSlayer thoughts? These are a couple off the top of my head, won't tag ilieknothing since he is an escortcel.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

@unique_freak @wereq @SlayerSlayer thoughts? These are a couple off the top of my head, won't tag ilieknothing since he is an escortcel.

@Animecel2D

 

[manletcel1488]

I will never get over it

 

[unique_freak]

I have had sex with streetwalker prostitutes and escorts before.

But I will never have a girlfriend and never have sex without paying for it. I got sad about it sometimes, but I also always knew it was over before it ever began. Even when I was a teenager, I knew that no woman would ever want to be in a relationship with me ever.

 

[Animecel2D]

@Animecel2D

A couple more months and I’ll be a wizard

 

[anon]

It's almost bizarre seeing intimacy, love and relationships everywhere I go and knowing that I will never get to participate in any of it. It's always been like this for me, even when I was a kid. I want to say I've accepted it, but I do get frustrated every now and then, especially when watching porn, movies, listening to music etc. Sex is absolutely everywhere.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

A couple more months and I’ll be a wizard

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Brutal

 

[drowningindenial]

I will never get over it

 

[Sgtpinkie]

It's almost bizarre seeing intimacy, love and relationships everywhere I go and knowing that I will never get to participate in any of it. It's always been like this for me, even when I was a kid. I want to say I've accepted it, but I do get frustrated every now and then, especially when watching porn, movies, listening to music etc. Sex is absolutely everywhere.

The absolute popularity and discussion of sex and intimacy is fucking crazy. Normalfags and foids tell us we’re obsessed with sex and our lack of it. They don’t see how common place it fucking is! They rub it in our faces!

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[yariman]

I get this thought every other day and it sucks, ive only been able to cope with it through my waifu and hopes for the future

 

[anon]

The absolute popularity and discussion of sex and intimacy is fucking crazy. Normalfags and foids tell us we’re obsessed with sex and our lack of it. They don’t see how common place it fucking is! They rub it in our faces!

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This is why I like hanging out with my niece and nephew. They're pure and don't think about this shit. I completely forget about everything when I'm playing with them. It reminds me of when I was a kid, by far the best period of my life.
>inb4 ITfags call me a pedo
I'm tired of everything being sexual to you normalfags.

 

[Steiner_Atlas]

I'm not denying the blackpill, but one aspect of your post you left out was the fact that we live an entirely different world compared to normies.

They don't know the truth, to them love comes as natural as breathing. If you dropped them here, it'd be like stranding them on Mars.

It's terrifying to me to know that while I rot here, people all around me continue to grow and find success with relationships, eventually forming families. We'll all die alone, rotting in some basement or apartment.

I'm honest enough to to admit the thought has had me in tears in before, but it'll probably get easier to tolerate as an oldcel.

 

[FumoCum]

I do think about it, when im outside and see others being happy and all. It just clouds my mind and i try to find why the fuck am i in this situation. The worst is when i see someone that is not attractive in a couple with a women and I am just hit with disbelief. I can't explain precisely why I am an incel and not these people, the only explanation is luck, but it's so fucking hard to admit it because i want to believe that my efforts to try and get out of this shit will pay one day, but the truth is that it can also never.

It's a lot of conflicting things about hoping to get out of this shit but knowing it will be another fail. Thinking about this, remembering how many times i failed just exhausts me from wanting to do anything.

Then i get fed up of thinking about it and resume whatever shit i was doing.

 

[justuseless]

Not hard to process I'm ugly and unwanted

 

[Made in Heaven]

Yes. I have a daily moment where this thought hits me and fills me with deep sadness. I will be honest, I have not fully processed this reality. There is a part of me that thinks it will happen, I don't know if it will ever truly sink in that I will never have it. Maybe when I am on the verge of my death I will have fully accepted it.

Pretty much, I've even told my parents to expect me to die a bachelor and not to have expectations of marriage from me, but I still have this lingering hope, though it will gradually go away as time goes on I guess. It's truly sickening