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Venting Anybody else lacking motivation and feeling life's pointless?

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I feel drained from the inside, I've been rotting for the last couple of months. Only copes I had were just videos games, shows films and fantasizing.
But now even video games do not entertain me as they used to in my childhood, I barely have motivation to click away from youtube to actually search for films and most of the day I don't do anything.

I've come to a point where I no longer feel alive, I feel like my life has been a shitty game's main quest which I've finished, now left with miserable sorry ass side quests I don't give a fuck about. What now? Anybody like that?
 
I am exactly like that. My theory is that when you've been isolated for so long, the chemicals that get activated when you socialize start to basically go numb. Once those chemicals (oxytocin, serotonin, dopamine) go numb, you stop wanting to socialize altogether and just LDAR. And since those chemicals typically provide pleasure in other areas of life, you just turn into an apathetic zombie who derives no pleasure but from fapping, alcohol, or drugs.

Just my theory.
 
been feeling like this for yrs, hate this world with a passion
 
Yes bro, I’m running out of copes.
 
I reached that point years ago, I now sit in my chair for hours upon hours every day only moving to piss in the sink or to go to sleep.
 
Yes absolutely nothing interests me. Like nothing
 
the rope sings louder everyday
 
I think @anon1822 has valuable input regarding this matter
 
Yes everyday that I wake up everything feels the same to me.
 
I relate so much to japanese hikikomori. When I think of doing the shit required for survival in this life I am paralyzed by anxiety. This shithole of a place I'm been marinating in my whole life does not help whatsoever. Location can fuck you over so hard. I wish I was born in a compassionate country.
 
I am exactly like that. My theory is that when you've been isolated for so long, the chemicals that get activated when you socialize start to basically go numb. Once those chemicals (oxytocin, serotonin, dopamine) go numb, you stop wanting to socialize altogether and just LDAR. And since those chemicals typically provide pleasure in other areas of life, you just turn into an apathetic zombie who derives no pleasure but from fapping, alcohol, or drugs.

Just my theory.
i don't think it works like that
 
I am exactly like that. My theory is that when you've been isolated for so long, the chemicals that get activated when you socialize start to basically go numb. Once those chemicals (oxytocin, serotonin, dopamine) go numb, you stop wanting to socialize altogether and just LDAR. And since those chemicals typically provide pleasure in other areas of life, you just turn into an apathetic zombie who derives no pleasure but from fapping, alcohol, or drugs.

Just my theory.

It is a good theory. The question becomes, does that mean psychiatric drugs are a must at this point?
 
i don't think it works like that
Maybe not, but to say that social isolation doesn't play a part is a lie. We are naturally social creatures, a lot of incels are isolated in their rooms most of the time. After a while, you will adapt to this lifestyle and stop wanting to be social because you'll feel as though there is no reward for doing so.
It is a good theory. The question becomes, does that mean psychiatric drugs are a must at this point?
I wouldn't say so. The only way to come out of the apathetic rut that isolation puts us in, is to somehow make socializing a rewarding feeling. Which unfortunately for incels, is incredibly hard. Because we're ugly we see no point in socializing based on the facts that:

A. Normies only want us around to mog us
B. Foids will just reject us anyway
C. Most of us are socially inept
D. We're blackpilled to the point of no return.

We would somehow have to become bluepilled again which is near impossible.
 
Maybe not, but to say that social isolation doesn't play a part is a lie. We are naturally social creatures, a lot of incels are isolated in their rooms most of the time. After a while, you will adapt to this lifestyle and stop wanting to be social because you'll feel as though there is no reward for doing so.
yeah, I am sure this life has fucked me up in more ways than I even know. I am barely functioning as a productive member of society after all. For me though, I feel like I've only grown more ravenous for social interaction over the years
 
Pretty much, all I’m doing now is trying to recapitalize whatever happiness I had in the past through playing older video games. Outside from that and fapping my mind goes numb with apathy
The question becomes, does that mean psychiatric drugs are a must at this point?
It certainly feels like it
 
I think most people are like that, but they can ignore it with copes and the various dramas going on around them with girlfriends and the such. But, really, anyone who's given life more than 5 minutes of thought will always come to the conclusion that life is inherently pointless.
 
I am exactly like that. My theory is that when you've been isolated for so long, the chemicals that get activated when you socialize start to basically go numb. Once those chemicals (oxytocin, serotonin, dopamine) go numb, you stop wanting to socialize altogether and just LDAR. And since those chemicals typically provide pleasure in other areas of life, you just turn into an apathetic zombie who derives no pleasure but from fapping, alcohol, or drugs.

Just my theory.
You're definitely on to something
 
Yes. I find it hard to concentrate because I have no motivation.
 
My hobbies are the thing that gives me motivation tbh.
 

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