Serious Any studies to prove that marrying a pubescent girl is "a traumatic experience"?

[Deleted member 34955]

In todays clown world, it is taken for granted that courting/marrying girls of pubescent age is a undebatable sin and that it causes decades of suffering for the girl. But has there been any studies to confirm that? In fact, a lucid mind would think that such relationships are very beneficial for the girl. The husband (because of being in love), pays a lot of attention to the girl's education and protection (even more than her own absent father).

Also, if she has an husband early, the girl grows up well-mannered and chaste than if she had been allowed to wander off and ride teen chad cock. If she is let to be a slut, then she has a higher risk of being raped by criminals, and thus PTSD.

Finally, due to being present in her formative years, then there is lowered risks for husband to get cucked/cheated on later (and he can cheat too, but the girl will depend morally on him, thus still want to be with him).

Discuss my argument and tell me if there is any studies on this topic.

 

[foosballcel]

Child sex is not traumatic when it happens. Only much later (Child Sex Trauma Myth #2) | Human Stupidity: Irrationality, Self Deception

Susan Clancy was a firm believer in the conventional wisdom: adult child sex is a profoundly traumatic. devastating terrible experience. As a psychology graduate student, Susan Clancy trusted, that scientist’s unwavering certainty in the childhood trauma theory of sexual abuse was based on firm...

human-stupidity.com

Child Sex Trauma Theory Traumatizes Children (#6) | Human Stupidity: Irrationality, Self Deception

Child Sex Trauma myth, a self fulfilling prophecy. The faulty child sex trauma theory is the cause of child sex trauma. Children generally do not get traumatized by *consensual adult/child sexual experiences. Rather the trauma is caused by the reaction of parents, peers, teachers, police, and...

human-stupidity.com

trauma is taught, not inherent. @DeepSea

also see the Rind Study

 

[Deleted member 34955]

Child sex is not traumatic when it happens. Only much later (Child Sex Trauma Myth #2) | Human Stupidity: Irrationality, Self Deception

Susan Clancy was a firm believer in the conventional wisdom: adult child sex is a profoundly traumatic. devastating terrible experience. As a psychology graduate student, Susan Clancy trusted, that scientist’s unwavering certainty in the childhood trauma theory of sexual abuse was based on firm...

human-stupidity.com

Child Sex Trauma Theory Traumatizes Children (#6) | Human Stupidity: Irrationality, Self Deception

Child Sex Trauma myth, a self fulfilling prophecy. The faulty child sex trauma theory is the cause of child sex trauma. Children generally do not get traumatized by *consensual adult/child sexual experiences. Rather the trauma is caused by the reaction of parents, peers, teachers, police, and...

human-stupidity.com

trauma is taught, not inherent. @DeepSea

also see the Rind Study

Interesting study. At the same time, why would love even be remotely traumatic? Probably due to initial legal definitions of minors as "non-consenting" (even though they can perfectly consent and enjoy sex), people extrapolated this by saying sex-having children can have "traumas".

 

[incelerated]

All the arab grandmas who got married at 13 - 14 on average seems to do fine and never get divorced.

 

[PPEcel]

marrying a kid sounds fucked up but ok

 

[BrettyBoy]

Speaking of being a slut, my second cousin is one and has been one since the age of 12 or 11 so I want nothing to do with her and hope she dies.

 

[foosballcel]

marrying a kid sounds fucked up but ok

not a kid if they can reproduce

your ideology is not above biology

 

[PPEcel]

not a kid if they can reproduce

your ideology is not above biology

i think it's reasonable for the state to bar 13-year-olds from entering into marriage, the same way they would bar a 13-year-old from operating a heavy goods vehicle or enlisting in the armed forces

 

[Deleted member 34955]

i think it's reasonable for the state to bar 13-year-olds from entering into marriage, the same way they would bar a 13-year-old from operating a heavy goods vehicle or enlisting in the armed forces

No its easy for a child to get married but its not easy to be a soldier or drive a vehicle.

 

[PPEcel]

No its easy for a child to get married but its not easy to be a soldier or drive a vehicle.

kind of missing the point there

 

[Deleted member 34955]

kind of missing the point there

??

A child will be a very good wife. But unlikely to be a very good soldier or truck driver.

 

[Mecoja]

Kids should marry other kids tbh.

 

[foosballcel]

i think it's reasonable for the state to bar 13-year-olds from entering into marriage, the same way they would bar a 13-year-old from operating a heavy goods vehicle or enlisting in the armed forces

No its easy for a child to get married but its not easy to be a soldier or drive a vehicle.

kind of missing the point there

what are you talking about

??

A child will be a very good wife. But unlikely to be a very good soldier or truck driver.

yeah exactly, what is he going on about. a younger wife would make a very good wife. for thousands of years women got married at 13 and they proved they were fully competent at doing so

 

[DeepSea]

marrying a kid sounds fucked up but ok

In some states, child marriage is still legal with parental consent. Feminist groups like Unchained at Last have been pressuring states to pass laws prohibiting it.

"The youngest wedded were three 10-year-old girls in Tennessee who married men aged 24, 25 and 31 in 2001. The youngest groom was an 11-year-old who married a 27-year-old woman in the same state in 2006" (source)

Of course, marrying a child is rather pointless if you're not allowed to have sex with her until she turns 18.

In todays clown world, it is taken for granted that courting/marrying girls of pubescent age is a undebatable sin and that it causes decades of suffering for the girl. But has there been any studies to confirm that?

The idea that child marriage is harmful and abusive is predicated on the false belief that sex between adults and minors is always harmful. Biased sampling, genetic confounding and familial effects make pretty much all research that claims to show harm from child marriage, incest and adult-child sex completely useless.

The famous behavioral geneticist J. Michael Bailey admits there is no convincing evidence that actual pedophilic relationships are harmful. If that is indeed the case, then there is absolutely no reason to believe that teenage girls would be psychologically damaged by marrying or having sex with adult men.

"The lack of scientific evidence supporting my largely visceral reactions against pedophilic relationships has been one of the most surprising discoveries of my hopefully ongoing scientific education. Persuasive evidence for the harmfulness of pedophilic relationships does not yet exist, perhaps because research on childhood sexual abuse has not been sufficiently high quality to establish harm. " — Dr. J. Michael Bailey

also see the Rind Study

People have said it's flawed as a cope, yet Rind has responded to and debunked all the criticisms. The study was also independently replicated in 2005 by Ulrich et al. This is significant because studies that attribute harm to all or most sexual relationships between adults and minors have all been consistently difficult or impossible to replicate. We recently had a 2021 study confirming the results of Rind et al yet again.

 

[Deleted member 3497]

marrying a kid sounds fucked up but ok

you would rather marry an escort

 

[PPEcel]

you would rather marry an escort

No I wouldn't marry anyone

Isn't the point of an escort that there are no emotional strings attached

 

[Deleted member 3497]

No I wouldn't marry anyone

Isn't the point of an escort that there are no emotional strings attached

you say its wrong to like prime age foids, but at the same time you go to lots of escorts, both are cucked

 

[PPEcel]

you say its wrong to like prime age foids, but at the same time you go to lots of escorts, both are cucked

What again is a prime age foid?

 

[Deleted member 3497]

What again is a prime age foid?

11-14yo

 

[Sheogorath]

Marrying a pubescent or even a prepubescent girl would actually be prophylactic against trauma so long as you had some oversight to make sure that husbands didn't abuse their position of trust, like a caring father who pays a dowry to a husband to wed his daughter and expects her to be treated like a princess in exchange or he'll blow off your head.

I'm sure in the old days if a husband with a young wife started overstepping and doing shit like shitting in her mouth she'd cry to her dad and justice would be found.

Of course the problem with putting it solely in the hands of a father is that when you combine it with poverty you will have fathers who stop giving a fuck about their daughters' mistreatment and let husbands beat on her, the same type of apathy which has them rent girls out as sex slaves.

In a world of plenty you would have unhungry dads more able to embrace their natural instinct of caring for their daughters' wellbeing and keep husbands in line.

"It takes a village" is probably true though: also good to have caring brothers looking out for their sis, not to mention the husbands' family making sure he honors his responsibility not to rip her in half with his cock

 

[Deleted member 34161]

13 year old is peak age for foids damn they can be pretty

 

[foosballcel]

Of course the problem with putting it solely in the hands of a father is that when you combine it with poverty you will have fathers who stop giving a fuck about their daughters' mistreatment and let husbands beat on her, the same type of apathy which has them rent girls out as sex slaves.

husbands can always potentially beat on their wives though

 

[Sheogorath]

husbands can always potentially beat on their wives though

so can physicians or cashiers, the point is we have oversight to prevent such abuse

I'm talking about like brain-rattling beatings though, not like where they call a playful ass-slap a beating or something. If you don't like light petting you can file for divorce, just don't play victim about it to get sympathies, it was your own failure in picking a partner whose interests aligned with your own.

 

[WawelDragon1683]

If a 13 yeard has sex with a loving husband she has been scarred for life.

But if at the same age she gets dicked by every guy her age. She's brave and just exploring her sexuality.

It's pretty clear. Why is that so hard to understend you pedo?

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Child sex is not traumatic when it happens. Only much later (Child Sex Trauma Myth #2) | Human Stupidity: Irrationality, Self Deception

Susan Clancy was a firm believer in the conventional wisdom: adult child sex is a profoundly traumatic. devastating terrible experience. As a psychology graduate student, Susan Clancy trusted, that scientist’s unwavering certainty in the childhood trauma theory of sexual abuse was based on firm...

human-stupidity.com

Child Sex Trauma Theory Traumatizes Children (#6) | Human Stupidity: Irrationality, Self Deception

Child Sex Trauma myth, a self fulfilling prophecy. The faulty child sex trauma theory is the cause of child sex trauma. Children generally do not get traumatized by *consensual adult/child sexual experiences. Rather the trauma is caused by the reaction of parents, peers, teachers, police, and...

human-stupidity.com

trauma is taught, not inherent. @DeepSea

also see the Rind Study

damn based man