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Discussion Any of you were more attractive before puberty hit?

Ephialtes

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I seen this said a lot here, being decent or at least average face as a kid and then ruined by puberty. I even heard some people say they had romantic experiences as a child. Seems it was when the final verdict was delivered for a lot of us. It's like the period when your genetic potential or lack of thereof fully expresses itself, when your poor genes hit you hardest. So did puberty ruin your face, and what features changed the most? Were you decent looking as a kid/young teen and then became visibly subhuman? And how old were you when you realized your face had been destroyed? Tbh I have been ugly my whole life, but there was a short period where I was normie-tier as a young teen. Or maybe did puberty improve your face?
 
i was ugly then and i was ugly now i was not a cute baby
 
not really

i was an outcast even before puberty hit me
 
I seen this said a lot here, being decent or at least average face as a kid and then ruined by puberty. I even heard some people say they had romantic experiences as a child. Seems it was when the final verdict was delivered for a lot of us. It's like the period when your genetic potential or lack of thereof fully expresses itself, when your poor genes hit you hardest. So did puberty ruin your face, and what features changed the most? Were you decent looking as a kid/young teen and then became visibly subhuman? And how old were you when you realized your face had been destroyed? Tbh I have been ugly my whole life, but there was a short period where I was normie-tier as a young teen. Or maybe did puberty improve your face?
Im a model compared to what I was as a child even my mother says when you were born in the hospital some random woman came up to her while she was breast feeding me and told ayooo why are you feeding such an ugly child at least now I'm a 4 as child I was sub
 
I dont think so
 
Might not have been as common of a trope as I thought then
 
Im a model compared to what I was as a child even my mother says when you were born in the hospital some random woman came up to her while she was breast feeding me and told ayooo why are you feeding such an ugly child at least now I'm a 4 as child I was sub
:feelskek: Brutal. Think it is the opposite for me
 
yes
my highest chance of ascending was legitimately when i was 8
a 16 year old foid was singing a love song about me
just pedomaxx theory
 
I seen this said a lot here, being decent or at least average face as a kid and then ruined by puberty. I even heard some people say they had romantic experiences as a child. Seems it was when the final verdict was delivered for a lot of us. It's like the period when your genetic potential or lack of thereof fully expresses itself, when your poor genes hit you hardest. So did puberty ruin your face, and what features changed the most? Were you decent looking as a kid/young teen and then became visibly subhuman? And how old were you when you realized your face had been destroyed? Tbh I have been ugly my whole life, but there was a short period where I was normie-tier as a young teen. Or maybe did puberty improve your face?
my highest chance of ascension would be when i was 2.
 
I didn’t have an overjet then but that’s not due to puberty.
 
I was less ugly before puberty.
 
we see this often with child actors
what makes a cute kid doesnt always make good looking adult
and lots of ex-child actors look weird as adults
like if ur height and facial bones refuse to grow, ur fked
 
nope. was still a disgusting, ugly looking ogre
 
puberty didn’t do shit for me

ugly to ugly LOL
 
yes, i got none of the positives of hitting puberty
 
Yeah I was a LTN. Now I’m sub-4.
 
I seen this said a lot here, being decent or at least average face as a kid and then ruined by puberty. I even heard some people say they had romantic experiences as a child. Seems it was when the final verdict was delivered for a lot of us. It's like the period when your genetic potential or lack of thereof fully expresses itself, when your poor genes hit you hardest. So did puberty ruin your face, and what features changed the most? Were you decent looking as a kid/young teen and then became visibly subhuman? And how old were you when you realized your face had been destroyed? Tbh I have been ugly my whole life, but there was a short period where I was normie-tier as a young teen. Or maybe did puberty improve your face?
I used to be a LTN when I was younger but puberty made me look much worse.
 
we see this often with child actors
what makes a cute kid doesnt always make good looking adult
and lots of ex-child actors look weird as adults
like if ur height and facial bones refuse to grow, ur fked
that home alone kid is the perfect example
 
Yes, I made a thread about it a while ago, I get you.
I came across some pictures of my Mother in her younger years, and of myself when I was 16/17 years old. She had a gorgeous Mediterranean phenotype, high wide cheekbones, almond eyes. Everything in perfect harmony, and it might even be the most attractive woman I have seen, or close to my type.

When I was 16, I looked way more handsome, compact facial features like my mother, high facial harmony, Almond eyes etc and full symmetrical lips.
I Looked at my older pictures and I could nearly cry.

She chose a heroin addict, and probably a someone not even of her own phenotype.
In other words, if she chose another Mediterranean Man, sharing features close to hers, then I would have ended up a lot more harmonious.

That's why I find in-group preference so important, people should just pick someone of their own race. But no, my mom went for a stupid Dutch idiot, not thinking about the future looks of her son.

Mediterranean women have such inferiority complex, seriously, and so did my mother while she was a very beautiful one. They can create absolutely beautiful handsome Sons, if they stick to their own Mediterranean Men. But my Mom was stupid and low IQ.
For some reason, they think everything above the Alps is 'better' than their own Men, which is far from the truth.

I'd much rather have ended Up resembling my Mother more with Souther European features and coloring, than having partial Dutch blood, which actually severely limited my gemetic potential. People should stick to their own sub-groups, even within Europe.
I'm sincere when I say this, I'd much rather resemble my mother more, with her southern-european phenotype like in my mid teens, than having a dad from above the Alps.
 
childmodels.is
 
yes, puberty ruined my hairline.
 
I've always had a gigantic forehead, it looks comical.
 
I think I might have been a little better looking but not by much.
 
I believe yes, before puberty hit I had a cute baby smooth face and then at 13 I started looking older and uglier with facial hair and beard shadow.
 
yes it fucked up my face
 
i've been called ugly my entire life, even when i was in elementary school
 
I literally looked like an asian kid when little, the only difference between then and now is that i just grew bones and my hair instead of also full asian straight, is wavier now
 
I had good appeal at 8, from that age it was only worse. I am not ugly for sure, maybe close to average, but im super unnaturally uncanny, like ABSOLUTELY 0 appeal, completely boneless and framelet, but face of a guy that should have wide frame and thick bones and then i would be attractive and face would be absouletly ok with that frame. Im alien looking without any phenotype so girls i interact with say to me that i look like someone they know. Its a tragedy bc no women will remember my looks even if i try to do everything in my power to better it simply beacause of my facial harmony. Situation is that bad that even foid from other race and continent who looks much diffrent than me said to me that i look like her cousin and i know its not a lie bc obviously i get that a lot. How can i be remembered not as a guy that looks like her ex or cousin and have a girlfriend if i have similar look to every other guy she sees on daily basis. Its like i look like others but no one looks like me bc i have no fucking pheno or significant features (like a blank sheet of paper). Im 18 and i dont think im still in puberty bc of facial hair growing rapidly. That fucking narrow frame its just a nail in the coffin. How do i cope with that.
 
I was always ugly.
 
Better face afterwards, way shorter for age afterwards tho(5'3
 
I was still ugly but i did not look as bad as i do now lmao
 
I seen this said a lot here, being decent or at least average face as a kid and then ruined by puberty. I even heard some people say they had romantic experiences as a child. Seems it was when the final verdict was delivered for a lot of us. It's like the period when your genetic potential or lack of thereof fully expresses itself, when your poor genes hit you hardest. So did puberty ruin your face, and what features changed the most? Were you decent looking as a kid/young teen and then became visibly subhuman? And how old were you when you realized your face had been destroyed? Tbh I have been ugly my whole life, but there was a short period where I was normie-tier as a young teen. Or maybe did puberty improve your face?
I was always ltn
 
I seen this said a lot here, being decent or at least average face as a kid and then ruined by puberty. I even heard some people say they had romantic experiences as a child. Seems it was when the final verdict was delivered for a lot of us. It's like the period when your genetic potential or lack of thereof fully expresses itself, when your poor genes hit you hardest. So did puberty ruin your face, and what features changed the most? Were you decent looking as a kid/young teen and then became visibly subhuman? And how old were you when you realized your face had been destroyed? Tbh I have been ugly my whole life, but there was a short period where I was normie-tier as a young teen. Or maybe did puberty improve your face?
I became much uglier after puberty started
 
I seen this said a lot here, being decent or at least average face as a kid and then ruined by puberty. I even heard some people say they had romantic experiences as a child. Seems it was when the final verdict was delivered for a lot of us. It's like the period when your genetic potential or lack of thereof fully expresses itself, when your poor genes hit you hardest. So did puberty ruin your face, and what features changed the most? Were you decent looking as a kid/young teen and then became visibly subhuman? And how old were you when you realized your face had been destroyed? Tbh I have been ugly my whole life, but there was a short period where I was normie-tier as a young teen. Or maybe did puberty improve your face?
Subhuman as a kid, subhuman now
 
Neotony and smaller bone size hides a lot of flaws. I was better looking for those reasons, but my looks relative to my peers was much the same, if one ignores neotony and analyses the bones carefully.
 
Yes, for sure. 12 was my peak year
 
Ugly ugly ugly
 
Normal looking
 
Yes I believe I was a little better looking relative to my peers than I am now.
 
ugly since day 1
 

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