Serious Any of you living with roommates? Please share your experiences.

[Kokoro]

I am thinking about getting a roommate to help split rent with so I can save for my trip to Asia. I've heard some bad things about it though such as: sexiling, having to listen to your roommate having sex, and possible bullying. I want to know if life has become more stressful because you decided to let in a potential normal faggot into your home.

 

[Hellothere]

YYYYYYEEEEEAAAAAAHHHHH. That's sort of been happening with me. I live with 2, both are chaddish, one is actually like a nice, normal dude. He's pretty low key and easy going. He has "normie" tendencies, has a gf, cute one too, and like I have had no problems with him. Do I have some insecurities/jealousies? A tad, but like nothing unmangeable.

This other dude though, idk if it's me in some ways, we barely talk, I chalk that up to different schedules and lifestyles/not the most in common. I mean, I never had it in for this guy, but, and this could be my paranoia, he seems to have it in for me. It started last year when my other 2 previous roommates, one who is a friend who got me the place, like with him, and the other girl, yes I lived with a woman haha, she was pretty cool, tad quirky, but like, nothing devastating, she had a bf though :-(, they moved out, we had some subletters which uh, things did not go well with them. They were not who they said they were and were con-artisty. After that, I almost got kicked out for having too much stuff. It went well. There was a minor, minor issue with me moving some stuff into the living room due to a misunderstanding, it was after he nicely re-did it. But nothing like terrible. And like maybe it's been my anxieties, but he's had it in for me. There was an incident involving an overflowed toilet, my fault, and the uh downstairs ceiling being affected, and I overheard them the day after saying something about the landlady cleaning me out. I may have misheard and was like on no sleep and hyper anxious at the time. But I am pretty sure I know what I heard.

Oh and last Sat, it looked like he had this guy over signing up for a room. I didn't have time to inquire, but am sort of what the fucked over it? Oh plus I have heard him and gf having sex at times. That didn't help.
Well, me and the guy who seems to have it in for me, we moved in together around the same time.

 

[Kokoro]

YYYYYYEEEEEAAAAAAHHHHH. That's sort of been happening with me. I live with 2, both are chaddish, one is actually like a nice, normal dude. He's pretty low key and easy going. He has "normie" tendencies, has a gf, cute one too, and like I have had no problems with him. Do I have some insecurities/jealousies? A tad, but like nothing unmangeable.

This other dude though, idk if it's me in some ways, we barely talk, I chalk that up to different schedules and lifestyles/not the most in common. I mean, I never had it in for this guy, but, and this could be my paranoia, he seems to have it in for me. It started last year when my other 2 previous roommates, one who is a friend who got me the place, like with him, and the other girl, yes I lived with a woman haha, she was pretty cool, tad quirky, but like, nothing devastating, she had a bf though :-(, they moved out, we had some subletters which uh, things did not go well with them. They were not who they said they were and were con-artisty. After that, I almost got kicked out for having too much stuff. It went well. There was a minor, minor issue with me moving some stuff into the living room due to a misunderstanding, it was after he nicely re-did it. But nothing like terrible. And like maybe it's been my anxieties, but he's had it in for me. There was an incident involving an overflowed toilet, my fault, and the uh downstairs ceiling being affected, and I overheard them the day after saying something about the landlady cleaning me out. I may have misheard and was like on no sleep and hyper anxious at the time. But I am pretty sure I know what I heard.

Oh and last Sat, it looked like he had this guy over signing up for a room. I didn't have time to inquire, but am sort of what the fucked over it? Oh plus I have heard him and gf having sex at times. That didn't help.
Well, me and the guy who seems to have it in for me, we moved in together around the same time.

you need to put him in his place

 

[TomathonClancy]

I am thinking about getting a roommate to help split rent with so I can save for my trip to Asia. I've heard some bad things about it though such as: sexiling, having to listen to your roommate having sex, and possible bullying. I want to know if life has become more stressful because you decided to let in a potential normal faggot into your home.

I lived in a single my freshman year, but my friend had a roommate, and it was pretty bad, even for a normie like him. His roommate was a complete Chadlite, and brought home his girlfriend to have sex in his room. They do it every day, to the point where he told me he sometimes walks in on them doing it (his parents almost did so at one point when visiting) and that he effectively has "a third roommate". I come to his room to study for exams and they even do it then, and it's the most distracting and disgusting thing you can imagine.

The best thing you can do with a roommate is set ground rules. I told my roommate for next semester (who is my friend that I just mentioned) that he's forbidden from bringing any girls into the room, and if I catch him with one I'm throwing them both out and hiding the keys.

 

[Deleted member 3291]

I am currently, it's not bad because we don't really talk about anything, he just says hi when i see him but i'm going back to my parents home for the summer

 

[Hellothere]

you need to put him in his place

Idk, that might not be an option. He is paying the bills, which I owe him on, and it's a good amount. This could just be paranoia/anxiety. This isn't a dorm room btw, this is an apartment. Severe confrontation, esp. if based on my anxiety, could make it worse. Part of the thing is I have to keep my room clean and not accumulate. It's a tad disorganized now but nothing unmanageable.

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

Must be hell fo live with other ppl. I couldn't do it.

 

[Fuckcel]

All they do is smoke weed.

 

[NijuGMD]

My roommate just exists, and that's it. We don't talk to each other or bother ourselves whatsoever.

 

[_incelinside]

I talked to them once or twice back in October. Haven't really talked since then

 

[rockwell1488]

Just hope that any room mate you get doesn't bring home his slit-eye gf for a bit of sucky sucky. Most people are trash. The first time I moved out of parents/relatives places, I went straight to a hell hole which was polluted with liars and people who shit in your food if you refuse to let them manipulate you. Get a room mate from this forum or don't get one at all. Good luck!

 

[Beavis.Tomas.Killman]

living with men I think it's a shit. the place where you live is your rules. I can not stand the idea of living with men. I would strangle them all. It is assumed that one wants to live in peace. I pay more money to have a small but private place without supporting any damn bastard. I do not pass that idea of sharing rent. because everyone must have their space. even if it costs more money. Unless you share rent with a family brother. that's why once I finished this year I would finish my studies. and Kaboom. I do the project and I go to the island of charm to live in peace. where women are not bitches addicted to social networks. there those women are daughters of the mother mother earth

All they do is smoke weed.

what assholes they are. because you can enjoy smoking marijuana with an ice cold beer in a large and beautiful park full of trees. misplaced those assholes. marijuana is great but if it were they would go to a nice big park to smoke and not lock myself in a shared house because it would bother others and the marijuana is smoked in a nice and wide place so as not to smoke the house

 

[BabyFacedIncel]

No, but I used to live with a Normie, high end normie. He was skinny and not masculine or anything but he had a good looking face and nice voice. So I guess, chad lite. And used to bring home girls all the time and it pissed me off, was major suicide fuel. He would even bring home this Lebanese girl every weekend for like 4 months and she would sleep with him but she would ware a Hijab when she came in left. I creeped her facebook to find out she was actually married in Lebanon. Totally betabuxing her husband overseas. If only he knew his wife was fucking and sleeping with some white guy I think she would have been killed when she returned. But I didnt ever think about ratting her out. I guess cause I also hate rats, its not my business. But still major suicide fuel cause she was very attractive.