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St. JackieArklövcel
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I'm talking about former fatcels who are still incels of course. What motivated you to lose the weight and how did you managed to do it? Even if foids still rejected you, did you at least noticed anything positive about your weight loss? Would you say it was worth it or would you just go back to bloatmaxxing again?
I'm asking because since I left high school and during the pandemic I've been bloatmaxxing now that I've been LDARing in my room since I've been using food as cope and I don't have much opportunity to go outside since my parents won't let me (I was still overweight beforehand but not obese since I did a lot of parkor and urban exploring and worked out at the school gym, and inb4 fatcel = volcel even when I wasn't this obese I still never got attention from girls and I'm stuck at 5'3). I tried cutting my food comsumption for a year and I've managed to lose some weight, but now I've been relapsing in my eating habits. I don't have the motivation since I barely go outside for me to care how other people see me, I'm depressed, and food is a very hard addiction to overcome with how easily accessible it is and not doing something else with keeping your mind off of it. I'm just stuck in my comfort zone because I mind sees no reason to step out of it.
Though my reason for wanting to lose weight is because if I was at normal weight, I know that I would have a much better self-esteem and I wouldn't be as depressed and feel disgusted about myself. I also want to be physically capable. Being fat doesn't just affect your appearance, it also affects your health and your mobility, and thus your ability to deal with an emergency, self-defense or survival situation. Seriously, who wants to be carrying around 100+ lbs of extra fucking weight every time they move around?
I also don't want to end up like one of those 600+lbs people who are so fat they can't even get up from their beds to take a shit. Now I would really be fucked and it would be much harder for me to lose weight than if I started now. I feel like if I don't let go to current habits, this is how I will end up. I don't want to fucking die before I'm 30.
And also inb4 "foids still won't fuck you bro, losing weight is not worth it might as well cope by eating whatever you want until you rope", so what if foids still won't pay attention to me? I am not doing this for foids, I am doing this for myself so that at least I can have better self-confidence in my body and in my abilities. At least this is something that I can change and no one else will mock me for having a moral failing. If they shit on me for anything else, it will be a judgement on their character and not mine.
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I'm asking because since I left high school and during the pandemic I've been bloatmaxxing now that I've been LDARing in my room since I've been using food as cope and I don't have much opportunity to go outside since my parents won't let me (I was still overweight beforehand but not obese since I did a lot of parkor and urban exploring and worked out at the school gym, and inb4 fatcel = volcel even when I wasn't this obese I still never got attention from girls and I'm stuck at 5'3). I tried cutting my food comsumption for a year and I've managed to lose some weight, but now I've been relapsing in my eating habits. I don't have the motivation since I barely go outside for me to care how other people see me, I'm depressed, and food is a very hard addiction to overcome with how easily accessible it is and not doing something else with keeping your mind off of it. I'm just stuck in my comfort zone because I mind sees no reason to step out of it.
Though my reason for wanting to lose weight is because if I was at normal weight, I know that I would have a much better self-esteem and I wouldn't be as depressed and feel disgusted about myself. I also want to be physically capable. Being fat doesn't just affect your appearance, it also affects your health and your mobility, and thus your ability to deal with an emergency, self-defense or survival situation. Seriously, who wants to be carrying around 100+ lbs of extra fucking weight every time they move around?
I also don't want to end up like one of those 600+lbs people who are so fat they can't even get up from their beds to take a shit. Now I would really be fucked and it would be much harder for me to lose weight than if I started now. I feel like if I don't let go to current habits, this is how I will end up. I don't want to fucking die before I'm 30.
And also inb4 "foids still won't fuck you bro, losing weight is not worth it might as well cope by eating whatever you want until you rope", so what if foids still won't pay attention to me? I am not doing this for foids, I am doing this for myself so that at least I can have better self-confidence in my body and in my abilities. At least this is something that I can change and no one else will mock me for having a moral failing. If they shit on me for anything else, it will be a judgement on their character and not mine.
Posting potentially interested users:
@Words2_live_bye
@Zer0/∞
@Wizard32
@ERadicator
@BITG
@Robtical
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