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Discussion Any dealbreakers for relationships?

What would be absolute dealbreakers for you?

  • A (significant) inheritable disease, even if invisible (e.g. Chorea Huntington)

    Votes: 1 25.0%
  • Disfigured, even if by an accident and not restriction function (e.g. no hair - huge burning scar)

    Votes: 1 25.0%
  • No matching interests, you would have to do many things you dislike with her

    Votes: 1 25.0%
  • Not attracted to her, even if she is fine with you using toys during sex

    Votes: 3 75.0%
  • Abusive personality, even if you can prevent damage to you by being on your toes

    Votes: 3 75.0%
  • High "provider" expectations - she wants a significant % of your income, constant home improvements

    Votes: 2 50.0%
  • Lazyness - she doesn't have a job and contributes little to household work

    Votes: 2 50.0%
  • Very limited sex - e.g. only once per month

    Votes: 2 50.0%
  • Dumbness - you have a hard time having engaging conversations with her

    Votes: 1 25.0%
  • Incompatibility in whether or not you want children

    Votes: 2 50.0%

  • Total voters
    4
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SociallyStupid

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So I know we have no choices and if we actually had one, we'd probably ignore a lot of red flags, but would there be any dealbreakers for a relationship with you - so strong that even if she were perfect in any other way, you would not consider a relationship.

I would have needed more poll options, so are there any other dealbreakers which did not fit in there?
One question certainly would be: Having a race, religion or ideology you despise, even if she is fine with you having your opinion

For me, I think most would be dealbreakers, but does this actually make me a volcel? I guess only when I have the option to actually be with one but reject her. But I don't know if I don't subconsciously approach fewer girls because I fear that they would have one of these dealbreakers and then I could not retain my ideology.
 

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