I already talked about more conventional mindfulness meditation ("falling back" to the pain [think warfare analogy here, we abandon the rage/coping/etc and acknowledge that we're in pain] and then watching it change or just hang out, like an orb of energy or whatever);alternatively, focusing on something else (like music or relaxation in the body), etc, etc, numerous different options. This will be a little different and you should be able to try it and may experience success with it more or less instantly with no effort.
Basically, you shift your perspective at or even to the normies/not you (nothing new here, just my take on it as an incel). If someone has sex, that's not someone else from this perspective, you view the experience either as it is/not you or even as them, or both. Example: attractive woman walks by. Previous ego/me-perspective says "it's" over" and you feel a bunch of pain/rage/etc "why am I not NT, fuck this, etc". This other proposed perspective takes you out of the picture and there's only an attractive woman there, like a picture with no observer, or just a camera as an observer. "Wow, she's hot", end of story. Can drag this out as far as when we read the brutal mogging stories here. There is no Chad mogging you, there is only the experience of the Chad. "Wow, that's rad, all that attention from women", end of story.
Before anyone asks, no this isn't cucked, it's in my opinion quite the opposite. Why is this? Because you're less reactive/dependent/involved in normie stuff. You regain your power that you had before you started wanting a gf at whatever age. It should in fact leave you with more ability to avoid simping, reduce delusional coping strategies, acting out, and whatever else comes from constantly identifying as a person walking around lacking a gf and taking hits; when it's not the only perspective available, and not the only one that can be rational/reality-based.
As a point, since I believe that "it's cucked" will be the main resistance from people not wanting to try this perspective, I'll go through an actual cuck-scenario quickly: Reddit-man has a 1/50th looksmatch gf, she tells him she needs more than his average penis size and wants to see another man thrice a week, that man is fucking her entire friend-group. If Reddit-man is in ego-mode he'll get offended or something, and will either end the relationship (basically getting cucked preemptively without even technically getting cucked) or get exa-cucked by allowing her to do this/joining in/etc. However, if he's in this other perspective he'll not get offended, end the relationship without hesitation or drama, and won't even get preemptively cucked since he doesn't see himself as involved in this at all, this is the 1/50th looksmatch doing things and experiencing the world in her own retarded way, she has no influence over Reddit-man since from his perspective she is the only one there, if even that.
It also does not remove your ability to use your previous perspective of standard biological unit/individual or whatever when needed. "I'm hungry, I need to eat now". Maybe even bring the inceldom up if you wish, write some threads about how it's over for fun, I don't know, this is meant as more of a weapon to be used when needed, but can of course apply to many experiences and situations.
It also makes watching porn way better for me, not that I'd recommend watching porn to anyone though. It's just a good example of what can happen when you step out of your own way, too bad I can barely feel muh dik.
Basically, you shift your perspective at or even to the normies/not you (nothing new here, just my take on it as an incel). If someone has sex, that's not someone else from this perspective, you view the experience either as it is/not you or even as them, or both. Example: attractive woman walks by. Previous ego/me-perspective says "it's" over" and you feel a bunch of pain/rage/etc "why am I not NT, fuck this, etc". This other proposed perspective takes you out of the picture and there's only an attractive woman there, like a picture with no observer, or just a camera as an observer. "Wow, she's hot", end of story. Can drag this out as far as when we read the brutal mogging stories here. There is no Chad mogging you, there is only the experience of the Chad. "Wow, that's rad, all that attention from women", end of story.
Before anyone asks, no this isn't cucked, it's in my opinion quite the opposite. Why is this? Because you're less reactive/dependent/involved in normie stuff. You regain your power that you had before you started wanting a gf at whatever age. It should in fact leave you with more ability to avoid simping, reduce delusional coping strategies, acting out, and whatever else comes from constantly identifying as a person walking around lacking a gf and taking hits; when it's not the only perspective available, and not the only one that can be rational/reality-based.
As a point, since I believe that "it's cucked" will be the main resistance from people not wanting to try this perspective, I'll go through an actual cuck-scenario quickly: Reddit-man has a 1/50th looksmatch gf, she tells him she needs more than his average penis size and wants to see another man thrice a week, that man is fucking her entire friend-group. If Reddit-man is in ego-mode he'll get offended or something, and will either end the relationship (basically getting cucked preemptively without even technically getting cucked) or get exa-cucked by allowing her to do this/joining in/etc. However, if he's in this other perspective he'll not get offended, end the relationship without hesitation or drama, and won't even get preemptively cucked since he doesn't see himself as involved in this at all, this is the 1/50th looksmatch doing things and experiencing the world in her own retarded way, she has no influence over Reddit-man since from his perspective she is the only one there, if even that.
It also does not remove your ability to use your previous perspective of standard biological unit/individual or whatever when needed. "I'm hungry, I need to eat now". Maybe even bring the inceldom up if you wish, write some threads about how it's over for fun, I don't know, this is meant as more of a weapon to be used when needed, but can of course apply to many experiences and situations.
It also makes watching porn way better for me, not that I'd recommend watching porn to anyone though. It's just a good example of what can happen when you step out of your own way, too bad I can barely feel muh dik.
