Venting Another failed attempt to socialize.

[medico_cel]

I am just tired of failing to socialize. After failing to socialize at party at my med school. I decided to socialize through sports. So I asked a guy to let me play with them in football. They said it's ok. I then decided to play as defender and then suddenly I realised how fast the game was. I was too slow. Because of me we conceeded 2 goals in 3 minutes. So they decided to substitute me in just 3 minutes of game. Everyone was looking with angry face towards me. When I got substituted then they somehow won 3-2. I was feeling humiliating. No one was talking to me. I am never going to play football again. It's just Chad's sports.

I am continuously failing to socialize and do something. It's like I am just failing at all things. Now academics is the only my last hope. Hopefully I perform their.

 

[schizomale]

>Med school
Mogged. My IQ a waste, because I'll never be stable enough to handle that amount of stress

 

[Dead End]

Why do you want to socialise with strangers in group settings like football or parties? Honest question, as I've never seen the appeal in doing so, in fact it seems quite uncomfortable. Why not approach people in scenarios with fewer people, particularly people you already have some level of familiarity with?

 

[RealSchizo]

>Med school
Mogged. My IQ a waste, because I'll never be stable enough to handle that amount of stress

 

[medico_cel]

Why do you want to socialise with strangers in group settings like football or parties? Honest question, as I've never seen the appeal in doing so, in fact it seems quite uncomfortable. Why not approach people in scenarios with fewer people, particularly people you already have some level of familiarity with?

I have no interest in these things but thought maybe I can become part of these chads group but I was wrong. It's never going to change.

 

[GmeOvr]

Are you autistcel?

 

[SlayerSlayer]

you can't win the game of socializing if they dont respect you or want to listen or even want you to listen to them in the first place

 

[Orbit]

I don’t get why normies take sports so seriously

 

[pauseforever]

I have no interest in these things but thought maybe I can become part of these chads group but I was wrong. It's never going to change.

Good thing you've realized it now. In many csses normies can rapidly sense you're different and reject you

 

[ItsOverMan]

Good thing you've realized it now. In many csses normies can rapidly sense you're different and reject you

Yes normies can sense you're different and reject you in 0.2 seconds (face) or, if your face is normie, within 10 seconds (voice, awkwardness, mannerisms, lack of eye contact, lack of interesting things to say, shyness/timidity).