Total Imbecile
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To add, I have nothing against POC. I myself am mixed and live with my black mother. I’ve always been attracted to white people and never had feelings for POC. I see my future with a white person (but as we all know, we don’t choose our feelings so everything can change).
Whenever people see me, they’d mostly assume that I’m Moroccan or a tanned Spanish girl. Some see that I’m mixed. I have straight black hair and my nose isn’t as small as some white people have but it’s smaller in comparison with the majority of African noses. Whenever I go out with my friends, I get hit on by black guys or arabian guys. I always decline politely and try to make eye contact with white guys I like. They look at me, want to walk over to me but midway their action, they decide to not do it and turn their head away. It has happened multiple times and I don’t get why. I only had 2 sexual partners, both white guys. One didn’t noticed that I was ‘not white’ and the other one had a thing for black women. They weren’t the ones who approached me though.
My (experienced & black) cousin told me that it’s because women of color, especially black women, make white men feel intimidated. She dated 2 white guys and they told her both that they would’ve never stepped towards her if she wouldn’t talk to them first. I still don’t get how white men would be intimidated by me as i’m only 5’4 and 115 lbs. I dress mostly like this and have light make up. Does any other POC have experiences with this?
Also I’m from Europe, so sorry if my English phrases aren’t right.
Source: reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/f0jzx6/why_do_white_men_not_approach_me/
I love how women cant choose not to be attracted to only white men, its just a preference sweaty, I cant choose who Im attracted to!
Whenever people see me, they’d mostly assume that I’m Moroccan or a tanned Spanish girl. Some see that I’m mixed. I have straight black hair and my nose isn’t as small as some white people have but it’s smaller in comparison with the majority of African noses. Whenever I go out with my friends, I get hit on by black guys or arabian guys. I always decline politely and try to make eye contact with white guys I like. They look at me, want to walk over to me but midway their action, they decide to not do it and turn their head away. It has happened multiple times and I don’t get why. I only had 2 sexual partners, both white guys. One didn’t noticed that I was ‘not white’ and the other one had a thing for black women. They weren’t the ones who approached me though.
My (experienced & black) cousin told me that it’s because women of color, especially black women, make white men feel intimidated. She dated 2 white guys and they told her both that they would’ve never stepped towards her if she wouldn’t talk to them first. I still don’t get how white men would be intimidated by me as i’m only 5’4 and 115 lbs. I dress mostly like this and have light make up. Does any other POC have experiences with this?
Also I’m from Europe, so sorry if my English phrases aren’t right.
Source: reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/f0jzx6/why_do_white_men_not_approach_me/
I love how women cant choose not to be attracted to only white men, its just a preference sweaty, I cant choose who Im attracted to!





