The reason lonely men are lonely is that they are unwilling to play the game like other men. They are unwilling to lie to women and deceive them to make them like them. They want to be genuinely liked by women, so they don't put on the mask that women-chosen men put on. Those men who put on the mask end up with many women to abuse throughout their lives, while the guy who is open about being alone is called an arrogant loser with a bad personality who is abusive to women. This goes against the idea that the personality of lonely men is what holds them back. And that lonely men are abusive. How can these men abuse women if they can't even be alone with them and women become so repulsed by them that they are even more cautious around them? Abusive men have many women to abuse all the time because they are willing to do terrible things in pursuit of women. Meanwhile, lonely men are constantly demonized by women who have been abused by non-lonely men. In short: The nice guys really do finish last and take the blame for the bad guys' negative actions.
