Am I volcel if I flaked on a date

[Dr. Rothschild]

So I had a date scheduled yesterday, but I flaked because I felt the girl would reject me because I'm a midget tier manlet.

 

[excel]

So I had a date scheduled yesterday, but I flaked because I felt the girl would reject me because I'm a midget tier manlet.

Dafuq, you miss a 100% of the shots you don’t take boyo.

 

[DyingInside]

Height?

 

[Dr. Rothschild]

Height?

Really fucking short, 5'3". I went through the girl's profile pics and she seemed 5'6-5-7', so that intimidated me.

 

[TrueAlphaMale]

Nah you are not. Going on dates as an incel is pointless. If you have not had sex as a teen/college then you are doomed to fail with women. Girls want extroverted, social, sexually experienced guys who are fun to be around. When on a date, you have to constatnyl keep the girl entertained (since women are children and need their clown) while at the same time slowly building up sexual tension and chemistry.

 

[mylifeistrash]

obese women reject tall guys on tinder so you dodged a bullet

 

[chinawhite]

when i was 16 i was talking for a girl for months on the phone only, when whe had to see each other for first time, i lost my shit, i ghosthed her, and fall into depression

then 18 same shit, get along with other girl online, when it's time to see her, lost my shit ghost her and became drug adddict

now im late 19, i still can't don't have the balls to go on date, so i fuck escorts, it's way less pressure

 

[Dr. Rothschild]

When on a date, you have to constatnyl keep the girl entertained (since women are children and need their clown) while at the same time slowly building up sexual tension and chemistry.

This too. I don't know how I should behave on a date. What if she gets bored of me and just fucking leaves. There is too much pressure on the guy during a date.

 

[Weirdcel]

Really fucking short, 5'3". I went through the girl's profile pics and she seemed 5'6-5-7', so that intimidated me.

Did she already know you were 5'3''? If yeah, you missed out on a potential mommy gf.

 

[EthnicelNL]

Dafuq, you miss a 100% of the shots you don’t take boyo.

Bluepilled advice tbh.

Sometimes its better for ur mental being to avoid getting humiliated.

 

[Copecell]

Of course you're not volcel due to this. You can't go date someone that is 5'6-5'7 if you're 5'3. That would put you to shame. Either go for really short girls or girls your height or nothing at all.

 

[TrueAlphaMale]

This too. I don't know how I should behave on a date. What if she gets bored of me and just fucking leaves. There is too much pressure on the guy during a date.

Yes, as a man you have to be perfect. If you are not funny, if you don't have top tier social skills, then give up.

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

Nah you are not. Going on dates as an incel is pointless. If you have not had sex as a teen/college then you are doomed to fail with women. Girls want extroverted, social, sexually experienced guys who are fun to be around. When on a date, you have to constatnyl keep the girl entertained (since women are children and need their clown) while at the same time slowly building up sexual tension and chemistry.

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Bluepilled advice tbh.

Sometimes its better for ur mental being to avoid getting humiliated.

also this

 

[Dr. Rothschild]

when whe had to see each other for first time, i lost my shit, i ghosthed her, and fall into

I started panicking when I finally internalized the fact that we were meeting in person. My heart started beating really fast

Did she already know you were 5'3''? If yeah, you missed out on a potential mommy gf.

No, she did not know and I was too scared to mention it. She seemed into me based on our online conversations, but I feel like she would have been disappointed when she saw me.